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When we hear, we will fasten ourselves to it and we will not let go.

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Because it is your word, and it is taking us

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to what you have promised if we don’t lose,

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lose heart and faith and give up.

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Excuse me!

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That’s the only good thing.

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Thank you. It’s great coffee.

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Yeah.

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You need some air in your front tire though.

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I know.

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I need a new kick starter.

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Got it?

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Want a push start?

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Yeah.

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Let me put it in neutral.

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Hop on let him give you a push start.

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You know, I figure it like this,

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if I wake up,

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that is a damn good day.

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I try to live my life as good as I can.

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I try not to hurt anybody intentionally.

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I don\'t call myself a Catholic, a Christian or

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a Muslim, anything.

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My religion is the earth.

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Mother Earth.

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The sky,

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that is how I talk to God.

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My name is Charles Krasselt.

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Charles W. Krasselt.

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Wesley to be exact.

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Hey baby!

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I’m the youngest of nine.

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I have six sisters.

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Two older brothers.

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Thirty four nieces and nephews.

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Sixty four great nieces and nephews.

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And I\'m married

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to my wife Cindy.

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Love her to death.

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I\'m loving life.

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I’m living, living the dream.

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I might not be rich, but money don’t make you happy.

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Lived in Portland until I was like 18 years old.

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I was going the wrong, the wrong way.

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I was going to end up either dead or in jail.

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I was into the crystal meth, crank.

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I never did put a needle in my arm.

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That is one thing I am proud of.

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Every time I ever did it, it was either smoking or snorting.

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And one day I was sitting on a couch

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in a crack house pretty much

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and had a needle in my hand.

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My arm was tied off.

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I looked at it and said, \"no.\"

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Threw the needle into the floor.

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Called my auntie, went to her house.

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And that’s when I joined the army.

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Spent three years regular army,

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five years National Guard.

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When I got out of basic,

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came up here and visited my brother for two weeks.

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Flew over to Glacier National

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and that\'s where my brother Bob picked me up.

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He walked right by me.

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He didn\'t even recognize me.

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I\'m like, \"Bob.\"

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And he is like, \"Charlie?\"

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Wasn\'t long after moving up here that my brother

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he went to hang a piece of sheetrock.

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And the guy at the other end his hand slipped

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And my brother he tried to catch the whole twelve foot sheet by himself

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because there was guy standing down below and it would have killed that guy.

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So he caught it and when he did he compressed a disc in his back.

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So he had to go in and get some, get checked out.

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And when they did the blood work we found out the worst news.

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He had cancer.

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Inoperable.

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And it had already spread throughout his whole body.

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They did chemo and radiation.

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He fought with every ounce of his soul.

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They gave him three months.

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He lived a year and a half.

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He wasn\'t giving up.

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He had kids to raise.

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That\'s what he kept saying.

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I was bringing him back from chemo treatment,

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chemo radiation.

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It was the last one he was going to do.

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And we pulled up out in front of his house

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and he got the shock of his life.

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He had been married for quite a while.

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And I\'ll call her the bitch from hell.

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I won’t name no names but she knows who she is.

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And if she ever sees this she\'ll know exactly who I am talking about.

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All of his stuff was out on the front porch.

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And he says, \"Why? What did I do?\"

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She looked right straight at him

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not even blinking and said,

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\"Look in a mirror.\"

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He had lost all of his hair.

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He had lost all of his weight.

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You know, he was a shell of himself.

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And for her to say that

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was the most heartless thing I’ve ever heard in my life.

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To a man that has already been told by the doctors

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that there is nothing more they can do for him.

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So we left there.

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We just loaded his stuff up into the car.

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And we left.

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And I rented a cabin over there in Hungry Horse.

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Last three months of his life me and him lived in that cabin.

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Whatever he wanted, he got.

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He was a recovering alcoholic himself.

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He had probably 15 years of sobriety before that.

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Then all of a sudden, if he wanted a drink,

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he got a goddamn drink.

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If he wanted to go gambling,

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we went fucking gambling.

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I didn\'t give a fuck what it cost me.

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It didn\'t matter.

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He was my brother.

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And I would do anything for him.

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And I tried.

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The doctors told us that he had, you know, just days to live.

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So the whole family was here.

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Every one of his siblings was here.

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All their wives and kids.

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Everybody was here to say goodbye.

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I think it was 2:52,

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he took his last breath.

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Took one last breath, said I love you, and

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and went to sleep.

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He is buried there in Columbia Falls, right next to Smith’s.

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Or not Smith’s, Super 1.

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Right up there in that cemetery.

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Right after I lost my brother I was

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on a pretty good binge for a couple months there.

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I was drunk, drunk, drunk.

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One eyed Charlie as you would call it.

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As a lot of people call it, is one eyed Charlie.

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Once I get too drunk I go to one eye

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and not much is remembered after that.

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The real truth of it,

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you know, loss helps in a way because

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it makes you appreciate what you do have.

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And that’s, it wasn\'t long after I did lose my brother that

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I found the love of my life, Cindy.

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First time I met her, I asked her if she was single.

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She told me, \"No.\"

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Every time I seen her I would ask, \"You single yet?\"

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I would ask, \"You single yet?\"

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She kept on telling me no.

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One day,

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she was out with an old lady named Thelma.

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It was her 78th birthday party.

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Thelma, she walked up and asked me to dance.

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She said, “Would you dance with me”?

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And how do you turn down a 78 year old woman that asks you to dance?

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You can\'t.

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You know, it’s just if you do it is like sacrilegious or something, I don’t know.

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But she asked me to dance

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so I got up and I was out on the dance floor dancing with her

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and she danced for about, oh, maybe 30 seconds or so.

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And then she kind of danced me over towards Cindy

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and she grabbed Cindy\'s hand and said, \"You dance with him!\"

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And I’m out there dancing with her and I asked her, \"Are you single?\"

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And she said, \"Yes.\"

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And I said, \"Not no more.\"

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And from that night forward we’ve been together.

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And that was October 14th,

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almost 15 years ago.

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That’s how I met the love of my life.

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Now I work at Glacier National Park.

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The best part about being up there and everything is

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my wife also works up there.

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She is the head housekeeper at West Glacier Motel and

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we get to carpool to and work.

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She\'s a manager so she gets to set her own schedule

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so she makes sure we have days off together.

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Love you.

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Love you too.

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I’ll call you when we’re done.

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OK.

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I’ll be somewhere.

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To tell you the truth, you know,

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I’ve worked a lot of jobs, a lot of different jobs and

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I\'ve gotten sick and I\'ve taken days off.

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I have never once called in sick on this job.

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I’ve felt kinda shitty a few times,

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but I still go to work because it\'s just

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the drive up there,

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the eight mile drive

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can make you feel, go from

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\"Oh god I feel so shitty. I don\'t want to go to work,\"

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to, \"Man this is so beautiful. How could I not want to be here.\"

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It\'s not just the area. It\'s the people.

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The people here I just love.

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If you break down and you\'re stopped at the side of the road

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And you\'re changing a tire

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I guarantee you before you\'re done changnig that tire

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Four or five people will stop and see if you\'re okay.

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See if you need a hand.

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Somewhere in some Bible it says do not build a

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place of worship.

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Don’t build statues for me.

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You\'re not supposed to build a church,

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in my opinion.

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You can sit right here and talk to the Lord.

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He can hear you wherever you are.

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All I can do is my part and

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try my best to love mother earth.

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And it\'s just me.

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I remember when my father first introduced the idea

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of us moving to Montana.

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He came home and

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asked me and my sister what we thought about moving out West.

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Being a teenager at that time and very rebellious,

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I didn\'t like the idea very much.

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On the other hand, it was probably the best thing that happened.

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I had no idea

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where anything was, who anybody was.

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I felt a little lost at the time.

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It was a tough time for me when I moved here.

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I was very resentful towards my father.

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I had no friends.

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I had nobody.

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I felt very alone.

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I so much wanted to be accepted.

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The first people that I met,

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I so much wanted to be part of a group.

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That was my first introduction to methamphetamine.

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I would sneak out of the house at night to meet these people and

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participate in drinking or smoking weed or just driving around.

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I like excitement.

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Fast moving.

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Fast paced.

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When I was coming down.

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Just feeling drained.

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Not as energetic.

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Not as outgoing.

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Where I thought, \"Oh, if I just have one little bump

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or a little bit more

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I can continue on.

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I can keep going.\"

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I didn\'t want to miss out on anything.

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Yeah, there were some nights I remember

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I didn\'t want to go to bed because I thought I would miss out on something

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with my friends or in the world.

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The next thing I know, yeah, I

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was pregnant.

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I had my son in June.

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And at that time,

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that is what I was using meth a little bit more.

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I realized that it gave me some of the

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good sides of meth where it gave you energy.

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You are able to accomplish a lot more.

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Keep up with the house chores.

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Being a young mom with the

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responsibilities of working two, three jobs

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and raising a baby

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and doing the housework, all those things.

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I didn\'t feel like I could physically do that on my own.

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In a way meth helped me achieve those things.

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I was compromising

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my son\'s time by staying out late with my friends,

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leaving my son home with his father, not coming home until later.

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Sometimes not at all.

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And it was at that time that I chose,

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I pretty much chose meth over my family.

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And that\'s when I continued the quick

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spiral to my

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bottom.

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I was thrown in jail

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for about a couple weeks.

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I was released into my father\'s custody

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under the idea that I was to go to treatment.

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For the first time, I listened to other people

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that had similar experiences.

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Maybe not just with meth but internally, feelings, emotions.

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I had those same experiences or feelings

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and I didn’t think anyone else did and I felt very alone.

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My son was a big factor in me

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staying sober.

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I quit for him until I realized

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that I was able to quit for myself.

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My love for him and for myself now

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is what keeps me clean.

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I haven\'t used meth since.

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And that was

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15 years ago,

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which is pretty awesome.

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I had to remove myself from anyone and everything that had to do with meth

00:26:07.250 --> 00:26:10.959
and any of that scene.

00:26:10.959 --> 00:26:14.125
It wasn’t a pretty road it wasn’t a pretty journey

00:26:14.125 --> 00:26:17.334
and I wouldn’t make the same choices,

00:26:17.334 --> 00:26:21.584
but I’m very grateful for those experiences.

00:26:25.420 --> 00:26:27.959
My son is 16.

00:26:27.959 --> 00:26:29.459
He will be 17 in June.

00:26:29.459 --> 00:26:34.917
It was at that time that I started experimenting with meth.

00:26:34.917 --> 00:26:39.792
And I, it scares me, especially in this area.

00:26:39.792 --> 00:26:43.751
Meth is a big problem.

00:26:46.626 --> 00:26:51.250
Something I think about pretty often.

00:26:55.751 --> 00:26:57.834
I guess it is funny looking back like,

00:26:57.834 --> 00:27:02.250
when you were little and wondering where you’ll be when you grow up.

00:27:02.250 --> 00:27:05.209
Here I am, I\'ll be 35 in September and

00:27:05.209 --> 00:27:10.125
I would have never imagined that this is where I would be.

00:27:16.375 --> 00:27:18.125
I love it here in Montana.

00:27:18.125 --> 00:27:18.917
I love this place.

00:27:18.917 --> 00:27:20.709
It gives me

00:27:21.751 --> 00:27:24.417
a sense of

00:27:24.417 --> 00:27:29.000
fullness internally.

00:27:29.876 --> 00:27:33.292
It\'s very magical here.

00:27:36.917 --> 00:27:41.125
It\'s very,

00:27:41.125 --> 00:27:43.959
I don\'t mean to get emotional, but I think of

00:27:43.959 --> 00:27:48.542
all the things I have encountered here in Montana.

00:27:54.709 --> 00:27:58.417
It’s sometimes indescribable.

00:27:58.417 --> 00:28:01.500
It strikes a chord.

00:28:01.500 --> 00:28:05.209
This is home for me.

00:28:09.292 --> 00:28:13.125
I don\'t know if I would be able to find this anywhere else.

00:29:00.125 --> 00:29:05.125
This place up here, especially in this little canyon,

00:29:05.125 --> 00:29:08.626
is a secure little womb for me.

00:29:12.751 --> 00:29:15.792
There are only two ways in and two ways out.

00:29:32.459 --> 00:29:35.959
In the winter it’s very quiet, very quiet.

00:29:35.959 --> 00:29:38.667
And you have a lot of time to deal with yourself.

00:29:43.917 --> 00:29:49.334
In order for me to live anymore,

00:29:49.334 --> 00:29:51.334
I have to feel free.

00:29:57.420 --> 00:29:59.209
Montana is a great place to live.

00:29:59.209 --> 00:30:01.959
It\'s simple.

00:30:01.959 --> 00:30:03.959
I, uh,

00:30:03.959 --> 00:30:06.334
don\'t have a clue what else to say.

00:30:38.834 --> 00:30:43.250
I’ve been thinking about the past.

00:30:45.250 --> 00:30:49.334
How some friends just seem to last.

00:30:51.584 --> 00:30:57.542
Right on through those stormy days.

00:30:57.542 --> 00:31:04.542
And all the others just blew away.

00:31:04.542 --> 00:31:08.709
And I can’t help feeling they’ve been here before.

00:31:08.709 --> 00:31:14.876
Ten or twelve lives or more now they’re just passing through.

00:31:16.917 --> 00:31:20.250
I’m talking about old souls.

00:31:20.250 --> 00:31:22.626
Music, well, music

00:31:22.626 --> 00:31:27.125
that has been my whole life since I was about eight years old.

00:31:27.125 --> 00:31:30.420
I had older brothers and older sisters

00:31:30.420 --> 00:31:33.375
and of course I got to listen to all their old albums.

00:31:33.375 --> 00:31:37.751
My sister had the Beach Boys and she had the Beatles,

00:31:37.751 --> 00:31:40.459
you know and my older, older brother,

00:31:40.459 --> 00:31:44.667
10 years older, thought he was Elvis Presley.

00:31:46.250 --> 00:31:51.250
So I would write songs about just everyday things and make them laugh.

00:32:04.292 --> 00:32:08.834
My dad just loved me playing songs.

00:32:08.834 --> 00:32:14.125
And he, he got the cancer and he spent a year suffering.

00:32:14.125 --> 00:32:17.209
But he always wanted me to play my guitar.

00:32:17.209 --> 00:32:20.626
Come in his little room and play my guitar for him.

00:32:20.626 --> 00:32:24.626
And the first song I truly wrote and finished was for my dad.

00:32:26.292 --> 00:32:28.500
And, and he told me never to stop.

00:32:28.500 --> 00:32:30.709
You know, just keep playing.

00:32:30.709 --> 00:32:33.626
Which I did.

00:32:33.626 --> 00:32:36.292
And lost my mom a year later.

00:32:36.292 --> 00:32:40.000
So I was on my own at 14.

00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:41.167
At 14.

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And my younger brother got adopted.

00:32:43.959 --> 00:32:46.459
I had another brother that was in Vietnam.

00:32:46.459 --> 00:32:49.917
Another one that was in the Peace Corps and he was in Nepal.

00:32:50.709 --> 00:32:55.000
The family was gone and I just hit the road.

00:32:59.417 --> 00:33:02.709
I made money by playing songs.

00:33:02.709 --> 00:33:07.459
I just opened my guitar case and play at a truck stop or wherever.

00:33:07.459 --> 00:33:11.584
There wasn\'t a lot of money back in the 70\'s, there was...

00:33:11.584 --> 00:33:12.959
Montana was very poor.

00:33:12.959 --> 00:33:14.167
Still is very poor

00:33:14.167 --> 00:33:17.375
There is not, there’s not a lot of money here.

00:33:21.751 --> 00:33:23.959
Give me ten, give me ten, give me ten if you want to go along.

00:33:23.959 --> 00:33:25.459
Ok, let’s go.

00:33:30.420 --> 00:33:36.000
I went back to Michigan to see some family one Christmas and, uh,

00:33:36.000 --> 00:33:39.375
I ran into a lady there

00:33:39.375 --> 00:33:44.500
and spent two weeks with her and fell in love with this lady.

00:33:44.500 --> 00:33:46.667
I came back to Montana.

00:33:46.667 --> 00:33:47.709
She wrote me letters.

00:33:47.709 --> 00:33:49.959
Well it turns out she was pregnant.

00:33:49.959 --> 00:33:53.667
Well, so I thought I better do the right thing.

00:33:53.667 --> 00:33:57.417
So I moved back to Michigan

00:33:57.417 --> 00:34:00.876
and actually raised three boys.

00:34:02.334 --> 00:34:04.292
Did a lot of things.

00:34:04.292 --> 00:34:05.792
Mostly carpentry

00:34:05.792 --> 00:34:07.959
I played music, wrote songs all those years.

00:34:07.959 --> 00:34:09.917
Played in a lot of bands

00:34:09.917 --> 00:34:15.292
But never wanted to be a star or, you know, a big performer.

00:34:15.292 --> 00:34:18.125
Too busy raising my three boys.

00:34:18.125 --> 00:34:20.334
Hunting and fishing.

00:34:20.334 --> 00:34:23.584
They are very good at all those.

00:34:23.584 --> 00:34:27.584
One day I was playing at a place in southern Michigan

00:34:27.584 --> 00:34:31.792
and a man came up to me and said, \"Do you have any demo tapes?\"

00:34:31.792 --> 00:34:37.000
And this guys seemed like he, he knew somebody in Nashville.

00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:38.834
Well I thought, \"Well, that\'s great.\"

00:34:41.830 --> 00:34:46.500
It was very cold and I remember in the bottom of my truck there was a puddle of water.

00:34:46.500 --> 00:34:50.667
And there was a tape that I had made of a song I had written.

00:34:50.667 --> 00:34:54.542
But it was frozen in the puddle of water at the bottom of my truck.

00:34:54.542 --> 00:34:56.667
So I went out during my break,

00:34:56.667 --> 00:35:00.751
heated up the truck and I pried this tape out of the puddle of water

00:35:00.751 --> 00:35:03.584
and I dried it off in the heater and I didn\'t know if it would play.

00:35:03.584 --> 00:35:06.709
I rewound it, you know, and I put my name and number on it.

00:35:06.709 --> 00:35:08.830
And I gave it to him and I said,

00:35:08.830 --> 00:35:10.500
\"I don\'t know if it is working or not but that is what I got.\"

00:35:10.500 --> 00:35:14.500
Well, a few weeks later I got a call from Nashville Tennessee and it was

00:35:14.500 --> 00:35:19.830
Dennis Lord who wrote Country Club for Travis Tritt

00:35:19.830 --> 00:35:24.167
and that is what made Travis Tritt famous if you know the country genre.

00:35:34.420 --> 00:35:39.830
He wondered if I was ever coming down to Tennessee

00:35:39.830 --> 00:35:44.417
Well, of course I was going to come down to Tennessee.

00:35:44.417 --> 00:35:50.000
So I jumped in my truck and headed down there.

00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:52.626
Got a record label signed with Nova Records.

00:35:52.626 --> 00:35:55.834
And we made two albums.

00:35:55.834 --> 00:35:59.792
Outside Looking In and Hats Optional.

00:35:59.792 --> 00:36:05.000
Outside looking In ended up with five Grammy nominations

00:36:05.000 --> 00:36:09.420
in the 42nd Grammy\'s in 2000.

00:36:09.420 --> 00:36:14.000
It just kinda took off from there, but I was juggling my family

00:36:14.000 --> 00:36:16.209
and trying to get back to Nashville, Tennessee.

00:36:16.209 --> 00:36:22.250
Which is 536 miles from my doorstep to the place I stayed in Nashville.

00:36:24.792 --> 00:36:30.250
Well that was hard on the relationship with my wife and I.

00:36:30.250 --> 00:36:33.292
I still love her to this day. We are still good friends.

00:36:34.375 --> 00:36:35.792
I tried to get her to move down there,

00:36:35.792 --> 00:36:39.709
but she would not move away from her family, her parents, the security there.

00:36:41.000 --> 00:36:43.959
And I had to make a decision at the time.

00:36:43.959 --> 00:36:47.542
And I decided that well I have to pursue this music because I have to.

00:36:47.982 --> 00:36:50.024
I, I have to.

00:36:50.024 --> 00:36:51.316
My boys were getting older.

00:36:51.316 --> 00:36:54.270
They were taking care of themselves.

00:36:54.270 --> 00:36:55.024
And it was a big decision.

00:36:55.024 --> 00:36:58.191
It was a hard decision for me to do.

00:36:58.191 --> 00:37:00.270
It was the right one.

00:37:08.860 --> 00:37:11.860
Shortly after the Grammy nominations I

00:37:11.860 --> 00:37:13.357
had a hard time singing.

00:37:13.357 --> 00:37:15.899
Had a hard time with the high voice part

00:37:15.899 --> 00:37:20.107
and felt like I always had a tickle in my throat.

00:37:21.982 --> 00:37:25.649
So they sent me to a doctor and

00:37:25.649 --> 00:37:28.357
turned out I had throat cancer on my vocal chord,

00:37:28.357 --> 00:37:29.899
my left vocal chord.

00:37:30.690 --> 00:37:35.565
Well at that time I had just given up everything

00:37:35.565 --> 00:37:38.565
to concentrate on this music.

00:37:38.565 --> 00:37:40.732
And at that point immediately I thought,

00:37:40.732 --> 00:37:43.860
\"Well now it\'s, now it’s all over.\"

00:37:48.107 --> 00:37:51.860
Well I pretty much wrote everything off.

00:37:51.860 --> 00:37:55.649
I was drinking too much and I thought this is it, you know? I had a close call.

00:37:55.649 --> 00:37:58.860
Little brush with death there and

00:37:58.860 --> 00:38:01.860
really didn’t care about anything.

00:38:03.107 --> 00:38:05.316
I said that’s it.

00:38:05.316 --> 00:38:08.690
I got to go back to where I have peace and quiet.

00:38:09.274 --> 00:38:12.815
I\'ve got to come back to Montana.

00:38:35.440 --> 00:38:38.440
I met a lady.

00:38:40.066 --> 00:38:42.565
Her name was Lynn.

00:38:44.565 --> 00:38:47.274
She was the sweetest thing.

00:38:50.607 --> 00:38:53.732
Settled in at a little place and

00:38:53.732 --> 00:38:58.232
getting ready to buy some property down on the river.

00:38:58.232 --> 00:39:01.024
We had a lot of dreams together and we had a lot of plans.

00:39:03.399 --> 00:39:09.274
She had, she was diagnosed just

00:39:09.274 --> 00:39:14.024
little less than 9, I guess it was like 85 days since the time we got here.

00:39:14.024 --> 00:39:16.649
It was cancer.

00:39:16.649 --> 00:39:19.940
And two weeks later she passed away.

00:39:19.940 --> 00:39:23.232
She passed away on my birthday.

00:39:23.232 --> 00:39:26.815
We found out she had cancer on,

00:39:26.815 --> 00:39:29.024
on the uh, Valentine\'s Day.

00:39:29.024 --> 00:39:30.860
So it was a crazy thing.

00:39:39.649 --> 00:39:43.857
So I was stuck in a cabin from that time

00:39:43.857 --> 00:39:46.149
and had a little depression thing going,

00:39:46.149 --> 00:39:49.066
but I didn\'t drink or anything over it.

00:39:49.066 --> 00:39:50.899
Had a lot of thinking to do.

00:39:50.899 --> 00:39:54.440
I was on the computer online and this

00:39:54.440 --> 00:39:59.149
deal kept popping up on the screen on the computer

00:39:59.149 --> 00:40:04.982
you know, eHarmony, you\'re, you’re matches are in.

00:40:04.982 --> 00:40:07.690
Come to find out Lynn,

00:40:07.690 --> 00:40:10.982
before she passed away,

00:40:10.982 --> 00:40:13.732
put me in this eHarmony, which is a,

00:40:13.732 --> 00:40:21.191
you know it\'s a match, match deal.

00:40:21.191 --> 00:40:24.690
She, she didn\'t want me to be alone.

00:40:24.690 --> 00:40:27.232
So she put me in there.

00:40:32.565 --> 00:40:36.357
There was this one lady who kept standing out.

00:40:36.357 --> 00:40:38.274
And I said, \"You should come up and see the park.\"

00:40:38.274 --> 00:40:42.565
And she was all up for that so she flew up from St. George, Utah.

00:40:42.565 --> 00:40:45.270
I picked her up at the airport.

00:40:45.270 --> 00:40:46.774
I watched, watched the plane unload

00:40:46.774 --> 00:40:49.565
because I thought I could still scoot out of here

00:40:49.565 --> 00:40:52.732
if things weren\'t looking good, you know.

00:40:54.440 --> 00:40:58.649
This is cool man you can move around.

00:40:58.649 --> 00:41:00.607
Pretty cool, huh?

00:41:00.607 --> 00:41:05.399
So she got off the plane and I checked her out and

00:41:05.399 --> 00:41:08.232
things looked ok because I don\'t trust that

00:41:08.232 --> 00:41:13.899
online dating service at all but, hey, we did a lot of talking and email.

00:41:15.690 --> 00:41:17.690
Took her up to Glacier Park

00:41:17.690 --> 00:41:22.024
and showed her some of the secret trails that I used to trudge around in.

00:41:33.357 --> 00:41:37.732
She’s the sweetest woman I’ve ever met.

00:41:37.732 --> 00:41:41.274
We just fell in love.

00:41:41.274 --> 00:41:43.316
I might do this more often.

00:41:43.316 --> 00:41:47.274
Last September we just,

00:41:47.274 --> 00:41:50.399
we just said, \"Well, might as well get married.

00:41:50.399 --> 00:41:51.774
might as well get married.

00:41:51.774 --> 00:41:52.565
That would be kinda cool.\"

00:41:52.565 --> 00:41:53.774
So we did.

00:41:53.774 --> 00:41:55.690
And I plan on spending the rest of my life with her.

00:41:55.690 --> 00:41:56.732
She is a wonderful woman.

00:42:06.399 --> 00:42:10.607
The last five years, since I quit the drinking and

00:42:10.607 --> 00:42:14.565
maybe had a little revelation about life and

00:42:14.565 --> 00:42:18.815
don\'t take it so seriously, is that I have been my happiest.

00:42:25.270 --> 00:42:30.774
I can look around and absorb the beauty of Montana.

00:42:35.298 --> 00:42:39.298
How many people actually go out and look at the stars?

00:42:39.322 --> 00:42:42.322
Just go out and look at the stars.

00:42:43.960 --> 00:42:45.960
If more people could just get out

00:42:45.984 --> 00:42:49.984
and go sit by themselves, look at the stars at night

00:42:51.008 --> 00:42:54.008
I think this world would be a better place.