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The following episode
of the nature of things

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explores the contemporary
and historic nature of

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male sexuality and contains mature language
and nudity viewer discretion is advised.

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Associated with being a man.

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If they can\'t do that for
whatever reason I feel

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that they seem to think that
that makes them less of a man.

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Our fill so cost is 65% of men

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Believe their penis is
small and something like

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35% of men believe their penises too small.

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And told me that I fall about
ever since I was 1617 years old.

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I really wanted it. There
were some sort of word.

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I ever build a penis growth and she never
pursued the reasons for the problem

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or the size of cheap doesn\'t really
understand why I\'m doing this algorithm.

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If something gets screwed up North
and it will just do this acid.

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This is probably what brings risks
on drinking and my whole life

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As long as men have been worried
about it women had been

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telling them that penis
size isn\'t important.

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But still men worry sometimes
to the point of obsession.

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Well now the truly tormented
can do something about it.

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Penis lengthening surgery is available
to men who are willing to take the risk.

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But will this fix the
problem is the question

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really about size or is it
about the way we define

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masculinity or as anthropologists
Helen Fisher theorizes did

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evolution simply hard wire the preoccupation
with the penis into the male brain.

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Both sexes carry tremendous
amount of luggage than the past

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For millions of years men and men had

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high levels of testosterone
designed undoubtedly not only

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to direct them in courtship but also to defend
a group attack enemies fell large animals.

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And indeed men still carry all
of those drives in their brains.

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We have very close relatives and by
watching their behaviour we do have

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a pretty clear idea of what
our ancestors were probably

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like maybe 456 million years
ago and they built them trees

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Certainly they were sexual creatures.

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The female had a period of
heat or estrus that irregular

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monthly menstrual cycle vector
in the middle of their mouth.

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Nothing is recycle a female
undoubtedly came into estrus or

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heat and began to copulate with
various males in a social group.

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And males always obliged.

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As Darwin said if you
have four children and I

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have no children you live on and I die out.

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So passing your genes into the next
generation is an important thing to do

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that evolutionary impulse to survive probably
manifests itself in a competitive drive

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inside of men even today during

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our long hunting and gathering passed
women indeed were economically powerful.

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They\'re commuted to work to do there
gathering of vegetables and fruit.

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They came home with much
of the evening meal.

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They left their children in daycare.

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Undoubtedly their sexuality
was respected was

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the beginning of farming women\'s
social and economic equality.

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Waned they became subordinate to men when
they were keeping stock and growing crops.

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You discover very rapidly obviously that
that your sheep do not become pregnant.

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If you don\'t keep around with them.

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And so the connection can can
be Maitreya clearly then

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This connection was more than just
the biological penny dropping.

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It changed the world
completely and forever.

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Man now believed that women
were just vessels for

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their seed and the symbol
of this life giving

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force was the penis to the ancient
Greeks and Romans mortals had a penis.

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But the phallus was a symbol of fertility
and luck dominance and protection.

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I think the idea of a fertility
generally has a hugely important part

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of life something essential

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for for the continuance of life from visited
not only human beings but of animals

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And also have plots of crops.

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This is absolutely fundamental and the way
it\'s expressed in different societies varies.

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But that is absolutely true in in Roman
society that fertility was important.

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And therefore sexuality which is necessary
for reproduction had a magic about it.

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In the same way we use for
leaf clovers the phallus

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decorated household objects
like wind chimes beer mugs and

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pottery representations of male organs were
not instantly seen as directly asexual and

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the way that we would today
they served all sorts of

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purposes many of them to
do with religion. And and

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with the whole concept of
fertility without people

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immediately relating them to
the idea of sexual activity.

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Ultimately the phallus lost it\'s real

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And insignificance in the West but not
in the east art critic Gaia tree Sinha.

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Shiva is the God who is paid to for
cosmic issues of life and death.

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Now he is known as the destroyer
He seals literally the two

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ends human cycle which is birth and death.

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But he also is the great one that is

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worship for procreation for the
continuity of life for protection.

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Shiva is represented by
the male phallic symbol.

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And this is accessible and
comprehensible to everybody.

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He is worship with the
simplest and the smallest

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of offerings that milk honey
and again more and more flat

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in the worship of the kingdom
for the greenie or the

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household or the woman
household also praise

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for the longevity of her husband.

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This is the great Candida Yamaha
tempo which is dedicated to Shiva.

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This is a place of worship but it is also

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a unit would celebrates the high
art of sculpture and dance.

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So it\'s a holistic view just as the Hindu has
the holistic philosophical view of life.

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Even the architectural unit is not just a
simple place of worship or ablaze residents.

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It integrates the ads.

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In the Hindu way of life
the erotic is a fine art.

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It is not only sexual transmission.

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It is what surrounds the idea of sexuality.

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The sophistication of
the mind through poetry

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through literature and through the
presentation of the human form.

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The first response of the British
archaeologists who discovered

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these temple was that these are images of
unbounded and inexplicable neuroticism.

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But then in the Hindu view of
life this is a part of the cycle.

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This is a part of the some scatter of life.

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If there is book D which is

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pleasure in worldline materiality
and worldly pleasures then

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it is followed by Mukti reaches freedom
or renunciation from all these aspects.

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So these temples if they represent
exoticism like so many other

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Indian art do it is because the erotic
is a part of the continuum of life.

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It is what keeps the lifecycle going.

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It is a part of the nature of procreation.

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There\'s a spirit of celebration here.

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If there is a spirit of celebration
when they\'re going to war

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there is a spirit of celebration
in the act of worship.

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And certainly there is a spirit
of celebration in the act of sex.

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Now these together make it a complete view

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Of how life is to be lived
it is not guilt ridden.

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It is not ashamed.

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And it is not demeaned or tentative.

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It is feed. Historians and

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scholars agree that the East and West have
different philosophies about lovemaking.

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The East sees it as an art.

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The western approach is

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more scientific but University of Arizona
professor and author Peter layman

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says there is one very
important similarity.

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Treating them as two entirely
separate traditions.

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In fact over obscures what for
me is an interesting connection

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Within both traditions which is that
there\'s a strong emphasis placed

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on the centrality and the
importance of the penis

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and penis size within
both those traditions.

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While the image of the phallus is common in

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some cultures in the West showing
the penis is still a taboo.

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We want to believe that the fallacies
is this awesome this awesome thing.

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And if we show or talk about the penis too

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much that risks making it rather
ordinary and commonplace.

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And that does not help all mystique.

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Tony rotunda has written about
the history of masculinity

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Modern masculinity really starts in the
years before the Industrial Revolution.

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It begins with people moving to cities

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and the beginning of modern
modern market free market.

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It begins with the rise of democracy and
really the beginning of individualism.

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It\'s at about the turn of the century
that men become much more interested

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in what their body is how it functions

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what their inner instincts and
passions are telling them to do.

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Under the fig leaf men are
always thinking about

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their bodies in their penises but
in terms of what they can talk to

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each other about publicly and what
can be shown said publicly it\'s

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the beginning of a revolution is
another change that happened.

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Historians have started to call
it a body image revolution

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in the 19 seventies which affects men
I think even more than than women.

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It\'s the beginning of
the fitness revolution.

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It\'s the beginning of big
profits in treating baldness.

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Treating sexual dysfunction that
beginning of plastic surgery for men.

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The growing preoccupation

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Nobody tells us about where
man who was head of.

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The new masculinity looks a lot like

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the old definitions of femininity
that women complain objectified them.

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When I was a child the
most terrifying thing to

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me was riding my bike and
falling on that crossbar on

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my testings right but it was more than

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just the pain as an adolescent a greatest
fear was that something would happen to me.

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So that I would lose my maleness.

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Men are really tied up right in the
crotch like that\'s where it\'s all

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about performance size all of
them women very very different

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Oh I\'m sorry yeah abstract masculinity
may come from a Greek word for battle.

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Or may come form from a
Spanish word for machete.

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But it is not a kind and gentle thing.

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I know what you think it any
buyer six shot so only five.

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What to tell you the truth
And all this excitement.

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I\'m kind of lost track myself.

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Buddy in his support for a magnet

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the most powerful handgun and the
world would blow your head clean off.

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You\'ve got to ask yourself one question.

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Do I feel lucky well do
you have doc I\'m Sam

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Stonewall Jackson was trash himself.

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Gym. And all the rest of them are amps.

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Youtube know Don lasagna

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Not

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our

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masculinity

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in

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The popular in traditional
sent has very little to

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do with the ability to create
a relationship with anybody.

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It has to do with

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the singular isolated solo suicidal
process of proving how tough you are.

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Frank Pittman is an Atlanta
based psychiatrist and author.

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He uses the classic weathering heights

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to illustrate a part of the masculine myth.

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Kathy was one of the most dangerous
creatures and literary history.

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This ultimate romantic is
telling heath Claire who was

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her stable boy actually
make the world stands

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still he\'s going to make everything step
and stands still and never move again.

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Make the more is never changed.

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You and I never changed
more than I don\'t use.

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The hell of it is poor.

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He\'s clearly trying to please
this demanding romantic woman

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It\'s going to make every effort
to make the world stands still.

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And then he will make every
effort to meet her needs to

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live up to her romantic fantasies to
be whatever damn fool thing it is.

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She think she needs for man to be runaway.
Bring me back.

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Pack this fellow off.

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I\'m going. I\'m going from here from
this country wrote throw him out.

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But I\'ve been back in his house one
day just leaden I\'ll pay you out.

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I bring this house down
in ruins about Joe heads.

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That\'s my cuts on you

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And he will exalt himself and
maybe die in the process.

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But we are afraid to say you make the world
stands still got as much power as I do.

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It\'s Dr. Pittman advocates and approach that
discards gender definitions altogether.

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But the connection between
power size and the macho.

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Phallic ideal is reinforced in
concrete and iron all around us.

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You see macho in architecture that
sort of sticks itself uncompromisingly

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into its environment and forces
itself upon the world around it.

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That ignores virtually

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All the rules of climate gravity and
whatever else you may have to assert

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itself cluttered much
Architecture started with

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the erection of the Eiffel Tower in
the late 18 hundreds in the Paris.

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Today are big business towers and tourist
attractions and speak for themselves.

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Cn Tower the world\'s tallest
free-standing phallic symbol

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announces Toronto\'s presence on the world.

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By by saying look you know
ours is bigger than yours.

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In fact ours is the biggest There is Rs
is the biggest it\'s ever been built.

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Boyd those guys from Toronto there. So

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Please thank the Washington
monument stands for.

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Putting up the mighty monument
to yourself is really asking

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other people to bow in all to
the glory of your masculinity.

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Artists have painted and sculpted
the penis for centuries.

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Sometimes conforming to other times defying

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the prevailing cultures attitudes
about the body sexuality and chain.

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Even today artists run
up against our taboos

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As defined shackle makes these sculptures
in his Hamilton Ontario studio.

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Chaco finds his work make some
art dealers uncomfortable.

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If we are going through
the art history it\'s not

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a strange thing to make
penis or vagina or breast.

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It\'s it\'s a basic thing.

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This is a male and female figure and show it
strongly who is the mayor and who is female

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So really big super buddies

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carried more strong emotions.

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So I started to make
simple fingers like this.

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Every man is or how is part of

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his psyche alongside buried

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in attached to focused on I don\'t
know what the right word is.

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His penis it\'s very very important.

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I mean it\'s a great thing.

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It\'s a great gadget.

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It sir it looks nice.

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It gets big. It feels terrific

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It\'s fascinates the girls.

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It does everything that nothing else in the
body can possibly do you bet it\'s important.

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The painters demonstrates to you and
everybody else your emotional state.

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It\'s the most honest part about.

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We\'re capable of line.

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The penis is known.

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We love our penises not because
of what they do for women.

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But because of what they do for us.

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And I\'m one of those hidden camera shows

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That\'s wrong. Link when

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you can\'t just do that you can\'t just
roll on top of a man and yelled action.

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Frightened damn turtle. You scared him

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And there are lots of factors psychological
emotional psychosocial factors that

00:20:52.790 --> 00:20:59.194
could impinge upon erectile
function relationship issues.

00:20:59.195 --> 00:21:04.639
Problems at work financial
problems difficulty

00:21:04.640 --> 00:21:06.724
with children et cetera
et cetera et cetera.

00:21:06.725 --> 00:21:10.444
In the olden days we used to think
that the vast majority of cases of

00:21:10.445 --> 00:21:15.499
headaches difficulties where due
to emotion are appropriate.

00:21:15.500 --> 00:21:17.119
We know now that

00:21:17.120 --> 00:21:20.539
At least half of the causes are

00:21:20.540 --> 00:21:26.464
real physical difficulties and they
run a variety of causes anything

00:21:26.465 --> 00:21:30.619
the most common one prolly our vascular
problems and vascular problems

00:21:30.620 --> 00:21:36.049
are due to diabetes or
arteriosclerosis hardening of

00:21:36.050 --> 00:21:38.839
the arteries people who
smoke people who have

00:21:38.840 --> 00:21:42.169
high levels of cholesterol
the arteries of the peanuts

00:21:42.170 --> 00:21:45.469
and the arteries of the heart
the coronary arteries at

00:21:45.470 --> 00:21:49.174
about the same size that
it behave similar way.

00:21:49.175 --> 00:21:53.869
And if one process is affecting one
it will be affecting the other.

00:21:53.870 --> 00:21:59.554
Generally speaking many men have problems
getting an erection from time to time

00:21:59.555 --> 00:22:06.034
Incredibly only about 5% of those with
chronic impotence asked for help back here.

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Men are very reluctant

00:22:09.515 --> 00:22:13.654
to talk about the fact that they\'re
having difficulty with her actions.

00:22:13.655 --> 00:22:15.739
They\'re embarrassed by it.

00:22:15.740 --> 00:22:19.549
They they think less of themselves.

00:22:19.550 --> 00:22:25.444
And if they talked to somebody that
person will think less of them.

00:22:25.445 --> 00:22:30.799
There\'s this mythology out there that
when you reach a certain age you can

00:22:30.800 --> 00:22:35.809
expect your erections
to cease and that\'s it.

00:22:35.810 --> 00:22:37.819
And that\'s the end and
there\'s nothing that one can

00:22:37.820 --> 00:22:40.189
do and there\'s nothing that one should do.

00:22:40.190 --> 00:22:44.914
Which of course is mythological hogwash.

00:22:44.915 --> 00:22:50.689
You can have erections or it\'s possible
to have erections until death.

00:22:50.690 --> 00:22:55.174
The ability to talk about this issue is key

00:22:55.175 --> 00:23:00.750
in and Joan lions treated DNS
problems in a practical way.

00:23:02.290 --> 00:23:07.084
When my reaction wasn\'t quite so good
we would discuss it and Coleman.

00:23:07.085 --> 00:23:09.589
There was no question of hiding it.

00:23:09.590 --> 00:23:12.679
So it was rather mutual decision.

00:23:12.680 --> 00:23:16.429
Well I think we ought to do something about
this which we did and we didn\'t see it as

00:23:16.430 --> 00:23:20.389
a problem something that we could
put right this does lymphocyte.

00:23:20.390 --> 00:23:22.969
I\'ve been home fairly permanently

00:23:22.970 --> 00:23:28.594
That\'s the vacuum pump and that\'s
connected this to the vacuum pump

00:23:28.595 --> 00:23:34.954
was invented by an American garage mechanic
who patterned his device on a tire pump.

00:23:34.955 --> 00:23:40.774
And then onto this end
important this ring on.

00:23:40.775 --> 00:23:45.930
I\'ll talk about that in a moment
that stretches over there.

00:23:46.000 --> 00:23:50.404
Now the purpose is of course
the penis goes in there

00:23:50.405 --> 00:23:57.394
so it can pump very gently to little
bumps not very much like that.

00:23:57.395 --> 00:24:00.379
And a penis grows.

00:24:00.380 --> 00:24:02.884
And when he is reached

00:24:02.885 --> 00:24:06.859
well you can vary the size
depending on your mood.

00:24:06.860 --> 00:24:09.889
Then what would be a normal
size they recommend.

00:24:09.890 --> 00:24:13.939
They recommend in fact that you shouldn\'t
it is not a painless expander.

00:24:13.940 --> 00:24:16.159
That\'s the point about it. It\'s not a yes.

00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:19.309
And so if I can cast my mind back to

00:24:19.310 --> 00:24:22.954
the dim distant past I think
about what my reaction was.

00:24:22.955 --> 00:24:26.344
And I get the same achieved that length.

00:24:26.345 --> 00:24:31.039
Then having got the erection
flip that over there over

00:24:31.040 --> 00:24:37.489
the penis and the blood has been
sucked into the penis stays there.

00:24:37.490 --> 00:24:40.969
Hey presto there it is
be a bit embarrassing

00:24:40.970 --> 00:24:45.199
perhaps when you are not an
independent relationship

00:24:45.200 --> 00:24:48.094
Trying to encourage
relationship to have to produce

00:24:48.095 --> 00:24:52.984
the vacuum field therapy that
we might be able to think.

00:24:52.985 --> 00:25:00.985
She would be the list that
sugar Joyce and allergy have

00:25:03.170 --> 00:25:08.269
a typical story their sex life
changed drastically after Ballard

00:25:08.270 --> 00:25:13.999
had major surgery in midlife for
my sex drive went downhill.

00:25:14.000 --> 00:25:17.944
And I were having problems
maintaining and erection.

00:25:17.945 --> 00:25:22.039
He didn\'t like the idea is that you had to
just throw his hands up in the air and this

00:25:22.040 --> 00:25:27.409
seemed to be the only thing we could do

00:25:27.410 --> 00:25:30.109
Just in my own mind I call it.

00:25:30.110 --> 00:25:34.084
I was too young professor which
we\'ve had hoped to pasture.

00:25:34.085 --> 00:25:36.694
I started to feel it was all my fault.

00:25:36.695 --> 00:25:43.879
I\'m that I started to feel well if it\'s not
my fault would get back to the same thing.

00:25:43.880 --> 00:25:49.039
We\'d better get to adopter and
find out what they have to say.

00:25:49.040 --> 00:25:54.364
I probably looked embarrassed felt that
they can\'t do anything about it anyway.

00:25:54.365 --> 00:26:01.519
So after about two minutes into

00:26:01.520 --> 00:26:05.344
going to see doubt them around
as you make your salary

00:26:05.345 --> 00:26:09.574
was turned off by conventional
treatments at Queen\'s University

00:26:09.575 --> 00:26:15.199
He agreed instead to participate in trials
that were aimed at finding an erection pill.

00:26:15.200 --> 00:26:19.024
I tried three or four different
planes over over the period of

00:26:19.025 --> 00:26:23.389
two or three years and nothing worked
and he\'d go in and figure well.

00:26:23.390 --> 00:26:26.824
Tonight you\'re feeling in
the right kind of mood.

00:26:26.825 --> 00:26:34.504
Maybe this\'ll be the naive you know that\'s
all just been a big exercise nothing.

00:26:34.505 --> 00:26:37.864
And then you\'re back to square one again.

00:26:37.865 --> 00:26:41.779
And they were saying they were you know
new things coming out periodically.

00:26:41.780 --> 00:26:43.099
So I should give me a call.

00:26:43.100 --> 00:26:46.099
I\'m always willing to be the guinea pig.

00:26:46.100 --> 00:26:51.019
So anyway when they brought the Viagra
with they asked me if I\'d be interested in

00:26:51.020 --> 00:26:57.450
During the test time I\'m
sure he hit the jackpot.

00:26:57.730 --> 00:27:01.699
What do you hitting September the 14th

00:27:01.700 --> 00:27:09.700
1996 and I got in my reaction
it worked like magic.

00:27:13.090 --> 00:27:21.090
Now I just get spread out
things going on tonight.

00:27:22.520 --> 00:27:24.600
I love.

00:27:24.820 --> 00:27:32.820
Doing. The viagra gleaned is now
being seen around the world

00:27:33.380 --> 00:27:35.599
The pill that started its life as

00:27:35.600 --> 00:27:40.639
a failed heart medication became
the fastest selling drug ever.

00:27:40.640 --> 00:27:45.844
It represents a quantum leap forward in
the treatment of erectile dysfunction.

00:27:45.845 --> 00:27:51.874
Putting an end forever to the notion
that impotence is all in a man\'s head.

00:27:51.875 --> 00:27:55.414
One of my concerns is that

00:27:55.415 --> 00:27:59.509
doctors are going to be writing
prescriptions for Viagra patient comes in.

00:27:59.510 --> 00:28:01.024
I\'ll I can\'t get an erection.

00:28:01.025 --> 00:28:03.439
Okay if I Agra without having

00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:07.519
appropriate investigation beforehand
or without even knowing or are

00:28:07.520 --> 00:28:11.344
asking what other medication that man is on

00:28:11.345 --> 00:28:15.454
by accurate smooth enough for these
heck he doesn\'t increase sexual desire

00:28:15.455 --> 00:28:17.989
It doesn\'t work centrally in the brain.

00:28:17.990 --> 00:28:25.504
The mechanism of Viagra is almost
exclusively in the penis Viagra appeals to

00:28:25.505 --> 00:28:29.599
a very profoundly basic
part of the human male the

00:28:29.600 --> 00:28:34.684
tremendous need to perform in order to
spread their seed into the next generation.

00:28:34.685 --> 00:28:37.234
This is going to sweep the world.

00:28:37.235 --> 00:28:45.235
Overnight Viagra abroad impotence out of
the cultural shadows erection and potency.

00:28:47.015 --> 00:28:52.939
The ability to procreate children has been
connected in the male mind with size.

00:28:52.940 --> 00:28:57.634
And although these two in fact how much
net and nothing to do with each other

00:28:57.635 --> 00:29:01.680
And this is the myth you don\'t sing.

00:29:02.800 --> 00:29:10.800
Dance. Ob. Don\'t think I mean
nosy but what did either well

00:29:13.085 --> 00:29:16.140
there is this

00:29:24.970 --> 00:29:28.414
gentlemen lunch box

00:29:28.415 --> 00:29:28.670
as

00:29:28.671 --> 00:29:30.210
London

00:29:37.540 --> 00:29:40.309
and z over there

00:29:40.310 --> 00:29:47.539
Did he\'s bathroom ok I have
to ask the big question.

00:29:47.540 --> 00:29:51.169
I\'m not asking for it in
terms of centimeters but on

00:29:51.170 --> 00:29:54.709
a scale of small normal big where do you

00:29:54.710 --> 00:30:02.710
fall well I like to think myself regular
small quantities just equality.

00:30:04.115 --> 00:30:08.449
Regular Yeah normal yeah that\'s it.

00:30:08.450 --> 00:30:10.819
I\'d leave it to the audience.

00:30:10.820 --> 00:30:12.619
Would sit on the fence.

00:30:12.620 --> 00:30:17.419
Okay I\'d like to think of myself as
normal in every one of us our average.

00:30:17.420 --> 00:30:22.324
Yeah because then I\'m averaging
yeah averaged is small

00:30:22.325 --> 00:30:25.114
And that whole shies
thing has to be learned

00:30:25.115 --> 00:30:27.859
because when you\'re a kid how
do you know if you\'re big or

00:30:27.860 --> 00:30:30.379
small so what happens is you go to

00:30:30.380 --> 00:30:33.079
school and as Michael said you
can\'t be honest about it.

00:30:33.080 --> 00:30:37.159
So you have to be furred up say
like that even then I mean this is

00:30:37.160 --> 00:30:39.349
a totally different issue but I mean where

00:30:39.350 --> 00:30:41.839
I\'m bored I\'m bored in Wales.
I\'m not circumcised.

00:30:41.840 --> 00:30:44.539
So but I came here when I
was a kid I look around

00:30:44.540 --> 00:30:47.359
and I\'m like well mine looks
different and I don\'t

00:30:47.360 --> 00:30:51.229
want to look anymore because I\'ve
scared the pornographic penis

00:30:51.230 --> 00:30:55.609
presumes that the large penis is what women
need and want for their satisfaction.

00:30:55.610 --> 00:30:58.249
The medical profession presumes
that the average Pete is

00:30:58.250 --> 00:31:02.344
is what everyone has and
with women need and want

00:31:02.345 --> 00:31:05.179
for their satisfaction
and penis size jokes may

00:31:05.180 --> 00:31:08.479
clear that actually what
is very deep throughout

00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:10.954
the culture is that small penises

00:31:10.955 --> 00:31:15.124
are embarrassing that they\'re
laughable that your pity oval.

00:31:15.125 --> 00:31:22.069
And what I frequently use as a simple example
to show people in movies how this works is

00:31:22.070 --> 00:31:25.834
an Arnold Schwarzenegger movie
called True Lies in which

00:31:25.835 --> 00:31:30.304
there\'s a used car salesman and he\'s
pretending to be a government agent.

00:31:30.305 --> 00:31:32.374
He\'s a pretender to masculinity.

00:31:32.375 --> 00:31:34.830
What are we talking about here

00:31:41.050 --> 00:31:44.569
in that scene you kind of encapsulate

00:31:44.570 --> 00:31:49.624
the cultural assumption that the powerful
body of an Arnold Schwarzenegger

00:31:49.625 --> 00:31:56.044
is this powerful masculine
phallic ideal naval lint.

00:31:56.045 --> 00:32:00.000
I have a woman to get laid.

00:32:01.060 --> 00:32:08.554
I got a little decades but this man who\'s
this pathetic pretender to masculinity.

00:32:08.555 --> 00:32:11.659
He has a small opinions and
we\'re supposed to accept

00:32:11.660 --> 00:32:15.484
that as an explanation for why he behaves.

00:32:15.485 --> 00:32:23.485
The way he does. If you spoke to a lot
of man and they were honest with you

00:32:26.120 --> 00:32:30.319
I think they put all feel pretty much the

00:32:30.320 --> 00:32:35.100
same that there is a penis envy.
I mean you want.

00:32:35.500 --> 00:32:43.500
You want to bake one. Penis envy is not
just a Freudian concept applying to women.

00:32:44.300 --> 00:32:48.064
I don\'t even know that it\'s an
accurate concept when applied to women

00:32:48.065 --> 00:32:52.594
but it is a very accurate concept
when a plot two teenage boys.

00:32:52.595 --> 00:33:00.595
Psi says matter to males of any race
or age seems to be a sensitive issue.

00:33:01.100 --> 00:33:04.159
So I definitely think it\'s thinner.

00:33:04.160 --> 00:33:06.319
So probably matters more
to the guys on the girl.

00:33:06.320 --> 00:33:10.080
I click we automate. I mean that\'s a woman

00:33:12.370 --> 00:33:17.884
If someone has order kinesthetic feel
more powerful splits wherever they can.

00:33:17.885 --> 00:33:25.399
Possibly five awarded penis may be
agreeable to repurpose scroll for for me.

00:33:25.400 --> 00:33:27.019
Whereas if I had a small penis maybe she

00:33:27.020 --> 00:33:29.029
wouldn\'t walk up and walk
and relationship with me.

00:33:29.030 --> 00:33:31.399
But universal in childhood.

00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:37.984
To see the big penis as granting you
more authority than the small penis.

00:33:37.985 --> 00:33:42.139
Me little boys grow up with little peanuts.

00:33:42.140 --> 00:33:47.370
While their fathers have big She belongs.

00:33:47.560 --> 00:33:51.274
And the father has authority over the boy

00:33:51.275 --> 00:33:56.209
The average penis size in terms of
length is about six inches width.

00:33:56.210 --> 00:33:58.969
I don\'t really know an exact amount.

00:33:58.970 --> 00:34:02.209
But I know that quite often

00:34:02.210 --> 00:34:05.584
poor in terms of length and I\'m
about to pour in terms of width.

00:34:05.585 --> 00:34:08.059
And even if I was my perception of

00:34:08.060 --> 00:34:12.469
it is almost as important or
more important than reality.

00:34:12.470 --> 00:34:16.234
Greg is a businessman in his late twenties.

00:34:16.235 --> 00:34:20.764
His obsession has led him to the
Manhattan office of urologist.

00:34:20.765 --> 00:34:22.639
Dr. Douglas Whitehead.

00:34:22.640 --> 00:34:27.139
I did a lot of research
over the years of inclusion

00:34:27.140 --> 00:34:31.699
that doctor that I\'m dealing
with now as the best method.

00:34:31.700 --> 00:34:33.244
And I\'m gonna give it a try

00:34:33.245 --> 00:34:35.974
Let me go over this way. They were like.

00:34:35.975 --> 00:34:43.174
This is not all men know this but actually
half of the penis is inside the body.

00:34:43.175 --> 00:34:47.944
And the penis is held up to this pubic
bone by it was suspensory ligament.

00:34:47.945 --> 00:34:53.539
And that creates sort of a v.
And at the surgery what we

00:34:53.540 --> 00:34:59.029
do is we make an incision hair in the pubic
hair line and release this ligament.

00:34:59.030 --> 00:35:01.534
So a little bit more of the penis hangs

00:35:01.535 --> 00:35:05.644
outside. We use the
stretching device afterwards

00:35:05.645 --> 00:35:10.219
which actually very very gently stretches
the penis and it does two things.

00:35:10.220 --> 00:35:12.949
It maintains what we got at surgery.

00:35:12.950 --> 00:35:16.219
By releasing this ligament keeps it out.

00:35:16.220 --> 00:35:20.644
And it actually stretches over
a period of time the penis.

00:35:20.645 --> 00:35:24.274
So the stretching device is
an integral part of this.

00:35:24.275 --> 00:35:27.499
I know what I can\'t at
surgery and your commitment

00:35:27.500 --> 00:35:31.294
is to use the stretching device afterwards.

00:35:31.295 --> 00:35:37.050
So healthy penis but it\'s
just not Mazzara\'s work.

00:35:37.660 --> 00:35:41.829
Very carefully about Rutgers or Boyd.

00:35:41.830 --> 00:35:43.939
Personally most people
report really foreign

00:35:43.940 --> 00:35:46.114
And we shouldn\'t even
consider something like this.

00:35:46.115 --> 00:35:50.749
If I don\'t I\'ll probably always wonder

00:35:50.750 --> 00:35:52.579
about it and recreate it
and know that I\'m still

00:35:52.580 --> 00:35:55.729
young person thinker
toggling I really wanna do.

00:35:55.730 --> 00:36:02.119
And if it works which are pro I
think it will be a happier person.

00:36:02.120 --> 00:36:05.209
Hopefully after this we\'ll have
conversations with my with

00:36:05.210 --> 00:36:10.530
my female friends just drove
neuron Marina 12 inches.

00:36:10.630 --> 00:36:15.739
Richard had Dr. Whitehead\'s
procedure six months later.

00:36:15.740 --> 00:36:18.559
He\'s so pleased with the
results that he\'s willing to

00:36:18.560 --> 00:36:21.814
talk to us because he hopes
it will help other man.

00:36:21.815 --> 00:36:26.239
I think the most painful part of the whole
thing was having the bandages taken off

00:36:26.240 --> 00:36:32.329
And if I had known beforehand I could

00:36:32.330 --> 00:36:35.689
have shaved myself because it\'s like having

00:36:35.690 --> 00:36:40.504
one heck of a waxing and
when it all comes off.

00:36:40.505 --> 00:36:46.639
But other than that there\'s discomfort was
the effect immediate and obvious though yes.

00:36:46.640 --> 00:36:50.554
Yes there\'s still you know there was
still swelling and all of that.

00:36:50.555 --> 00:36:56.944
So I might have gotten a little
more excited than I should have.

00:36:56.945 --> 00:37:02.974
Still the long-range effects
have been very satisfactory.

00:37:02.975 --> 00:37:08.209
So can you give us an idea of the actual
amount of enhancement you want are we talking

00:37:08.210 --> 00:37:11.779
And ensure yes an inch longer.

00:37:11.780 --> 00:37:15.799
I\'ve probably an inch and a half longer
actually in the placid state has it

00:37:15.800 --> 00:37:20.460
also had a psychological effect
of enhancing your libido.

00:37:20.470 --> 00:37:26.269
No no it just makes me
feel better about myself.

00:37:26.270 --> 00:37:31.339
Surgery is stage one just
as important is stage two.

00:37:31.340 --> 00:37:35.359
Where the patient wears a
weighted stretching device so

00:37:35.360 --> 00:37:38.629
that\'ll have eight pounds 80 pounds but it

00:37:38.630 --> 00:37:46.260
comes apart so that you can start with two
then five then eight work up to eight.

00:37:46.390 --> 00:37:54.390
This goes on to gain us cement that over.

00:37:54.680 --> 00:38:01.999
This takes out the air creating a
vacuum really hold it on there and then

00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:10.000
you most of the furniture

00:38:11.015 --> 00:38:15.034
no does not know it
doesn\'t it doesn\'t hurt.

00:38:15.035 --> 00:38:17.494
You don\'t hardly even feel it.

00:38:17.495 --> 00:38:23.659
But Richard how you end up not with having
something that it\'s that thick and very low.

00:38:23.660 --> 00:38:25.669
I agree I had the same question.

00:38:25.670 --> 00:38:27.524
I thought this is going to be

00:38:27.525 --> 00:38:31.809
Horrifying but it\'s not at all you know we

00:38:31.810 --> 00:38:36.384
interviewed a man who said that he\'d never
been mocked because he was too smaller.

00:38:36.385 --> 00:38:38.514
Never had complaints from partners.

00:38:38.515 --> 00:38:42.279
And yet he felt that he was
small and wanted to be bigger.

00:38:42.280 --> 00:38:45.534
So what we\'re dealing with here is a
fundamental psychological problem.

00:38:45.535 --> 00:38:48.519
He patients that want
enhancement fallow plast you

00:38:48.520 --> 00:38:52.389
invariably her normal or
slightly above normal.

00:38:52.390 --> 00:38:57.249
And this has to do with their own perceived
image if they would like to have

00:38:57.250 --> 00:39:02.034
a larger and a longer penis chest for
psychological and cosmetic reasons.

00:39:02.035 --> 00:39:04.179
A lot of physicians urologists

00:39:04.180 --> 00:39:08.349
included feel that this is
unnecessary and shouldn\'t be done.

00:39:08.350 --> 00:39:10.359
They feel if you\'re not

00:39:10.360 --> 00:39:14.409
Saving a life then you know

00:39:14.410 --> 00:39:18.699
the practice of medicine is not being
put to the use it\'s supposed to be.

00:39:18.700 --> 00:39:26.700
But I think you know from the standpoint of
what it can do for a person\'s self esteem how

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it can make them feel better that all plastic
surgery has a place in the medical field.

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Here on the banks of the sacred river Ganges
in the Hindu holy city of Varanasi in India.

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People wash to cleanse
themselves obscene. Varanasi

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Where men come to fulfill the final
stage of life as described in

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the ancient Hindu scriptures that
hermitian Masters in India which

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were written from about the first century
onwards enunciate the four stages of life.

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This is part of the meal
Hindu would divide his life.

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The first would be how much area where
he is dedicated to his studies.

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The second stage of the
greenhouse fascism degree has

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dashed anime is where
he\'s enjoined to marry.

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The type stage is called the van plus
nationalism which is really a state of

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some withdrawal to a more philosophical
and more contemplative fields of life.

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And the final is Sun yes which is
in fact a preparation for moksha

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For denunciation where you do a Wii with

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every kind of material comfort because
it is no longer your necessity.

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We detach yourself from materiality and
therefore lead a more self-sufficient.

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And a more fulfilling life.

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Gnh were non-tariff has chosen
this date of abstinence and

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contemplation known as Xiaowei.

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Government scale body guide
hallways and Joe regime

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In Canada Harper and delegate.

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So sa sal tank headquarter which has asked

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chess are preparing produce
gave us and gasoline.

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In guidebook bachelor bachelor\'s
though like ET but the knee region

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di Hammarby in March of high lama

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Contemporary thinkers don\'t believe
that a man needs to retreat.

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They say it\'s time to let go of our
stereotypes about gender and masculinity.

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Looking at the penis as a
symbol of power I think

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creates far more problems than it
solves for men and women alike.

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For men in particular I think it creates
it creates problems with sexuality.

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It encourages men to look
at genital intercourse

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As an assertion of power rather than a
form of pleasure or personal expression.

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Men like women are human beings.

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With emotions with
feelings with aspirations

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with with intelligence with creativity
with the ability to do things.

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And to reduce a man to a penis is certainly
not doing a man any service whatsoever.

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And it\'s that kind of thinking
that perpetuates the idea

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that penis size and one\'s
manhood and personhood

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have a relationship.

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Most of the awful things that men
have done throughout history.

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Most of the awful things
that men are doing now are

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just some pitiful little boy
who lost pecker measuring

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contests at 13 trying to do something
that will make him feel like a man.

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Now. If we can know the absurdity the

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funniness of our penis fixation and
our preoccupation with masculinity.

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If we can see it as the joke that it

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appears that we can rely on and
then we can become comfortable

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And we may actually do
some good rather than

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holding to purchase a transcript

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