Stopping Traffic
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"With the instant reach of social media and the explosion in cyber porn, a child sex slave can be purchased online and delivered to a customer more quickly than a pizza. Stopping Traffic: The Movement to End Sex Trafficking initiates the conversation on a difficult topic to discuss with raw images and heart-wrenching stories through the eyes of survivors, veteran activists, front-line rescue and aid organizations and celebrities who are lending their names and clout to launch a movement to end this modern-day form of slavery in the U.S. and abroad.
With 27 million victims, human trafficking is the second largest criminal enterprise in the world, predominantly victimizing women, with children making up as much as half the statistics...But it’s not just a back-alley enterprise in Asia and other underdeveloped regions of the world, it’s also prevalent in industrial nations and–in conflict with closely held beliefs about our society in the United States – right here in our own backyard.
Prevailing across every culture and at all socio-economic strata, the U.S.– with its affluence, technological sophistication and robust tourism industry – is the greatest source of customers. Sex trafficking has occurred in all 50 states and the District of Columbia, with the highest incidence rates in California, Texas, Florida, Ohio and New York. The most popular event for scoring a trafficking arrangement? The Super Bowl. Stopping Traffic marks the feature film debut of producer/director Sadhvi Siddhali Shree, a Jain monk, U.S. Army veteran, international speaker, author, passionate activist for social justice...and victim of childhood sexual abuse."
Citation
Main credits
Shree, Sadhvi Siddhali (film director)
Shree, Sadhvi Siddhali (film producer)
Yogeesh, Acharya Shree (film producer)
Yogeesh, Acharya Shree (on-screen participant)
Mai, Jeannie (film producer)
Mai, Jeannie (on-screen participant)
Lundgren, Dolph (on-screen participant)
Abhiroop, Saman (director of photography)
Calhoun, Jason (editor of moving image work)
Other credits
Editor, Jason Calhoun; director of photography, Saman Abhiroop.
Distributor subjects
Gender Studies, Southeast Asian Studies, Feminism, Children, Youth, and Family, Physical and Mental HealthKeywords
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- [John] Well, do you wanna
start somewhere, or...
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- [Sadhvi] Well, first,
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just introduce yourself as the author,
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what has led you to this
time, and what you're doing,
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and then we'll take off
with questions later.
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- Sure.
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Yeah, I've been having
sex since I was four.
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My first sex acts I was engaged in
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was to watch my father put bread and water
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in me mother's vagina
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and I was engaged in an oral act.
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They talk about the impact on a child,
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and that's true, it haunts us,
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but it's not the impact that
is necessarily felt as a child,
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because you're incredibly resilient,
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it's when you wake up 30 years later
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and you realize what was done to you,
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and that your life is in
total disarray because of it,
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and it all tracks back
to a series of events
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and things that were
done to you, not by you.
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It's not the breaking
of the life as young,
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because it is,
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it's having to deal with
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the consequences of it in adulthood.
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- [Carolina] I grew up in Thailand,
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so I'd seen sexual exploitation
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and all these things growing up.
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- The second-largest criminal
enterprise in the world.
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- It takes a lot to shock
me, we'll say it that way,
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and to see it rampant,
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it literally just makes you revolt it.
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- I think she got aroused
watching him beat me,
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and he got aroused watching
her engage me sexually.
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- There was one boy, they
wanted him to work as a beggar,
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but he didn't look pitiful enough,
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so they cut off both his arms
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and then set him on the side of the road
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so people would feel sorry
for him and give him money.
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That's when I decided
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that I wanted to fight human trafficking.
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- You get over there,
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and they're bringing these
10-year-olds into their rooms,
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and, "Oh, that must be somebody
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"that's taking care of their boots,"
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and no, they ain't.
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Yeah, they're taking care
of 'em, but not in that way.
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You know, it's just, it floors you.
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- If you take a young boy of 12
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and he is anally raped by 30 or 40 men,
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and then he is made to kill his mother
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by inserting barbwire in
her vagina repeatedly,
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somewhere in that process,
his soul is broken.
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And I think that is the real legacy
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of child sexual abuse
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and the horrendous thing
which is sexual trafficking.
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(scoffs) It's pretty fucked up. (chuckles)
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(birds chirp)
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(slow music)
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- What's cool about this film
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is that we actually really had
no idea what we were doing.
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(chuckles)
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We were just moved by a vision,
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we were just moved by the movement,
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we were just moved by the idea
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that we can possibly make a difference,
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and an impact, and raise awareness,
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and inspire the youth to take action.
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This is a nonprofit film, I'm a monk,
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and so there's no personal gain for me,
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or for our center,
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the gain is impact, reach, awareness,
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people can possibly change.
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And so, during the research phase
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of searching for people to interview,
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it was a scary process,
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well, at least for me,
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I think the others were
good with sending an email,
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but for me to approach
these organizations,
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and high-level people, and
nonprofits like UNICEF,
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it's kind of intimidating.
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I introduce myself, like, "Hey, I'm a nun,
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"I'm a US veteran,
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"and I'm directing this film
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"to help raise awareness
on sex trafficking
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"by inspiring the youth movement,"
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and all of them were just like,
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"Yes, it's all about the
youth, let's do this."
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(slow music)
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We really went into this
project with no expectations,
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all we wanted to understand
was what sex trafficking was
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and how we can be of help
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by raising awareness of this issue.
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So we were inspired to
travel to the Philippines,
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Mexico, and New Orleans,
and even locally, Dallas,
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to meet the heroes of the movement,
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but it turns out what we
were initially looking for
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was completely different.
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We just wanted to know
what sex trafficking was,
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and we thought it was
pretty straightforward,
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but really,
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it turned out to be something
completely different,
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and we had a bunch of misconceptions.
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- This is a difficult question.
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(dramatic music)
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And in fact, historians can
be useful in this process.
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- A lot of us, we think
that ended 200 years ago,
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with the Emancipation Proclamation,
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it absolutely did not.
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- A recent work by Joseph Miller
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called The Problem of Slavery as History
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encouraged historians and others
to talk less about slavery
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and more about slaving.
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When we use the word slavery,
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we're conjuring an institution,
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and an institution that most people
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associate with chattel slavery,
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with the Transatlantic slave
trade, these kinds of things,
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and that institution did in
fact die in the United States,
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but if we look at slaving,
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that is the ways of maintaining unfreedom,
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commodifying the body,
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all of the practices that really make up
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the constitutive experience
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of what it means to be enslaved,
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then slaving certainly doesn't stop,
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it maintains, it morphs, and it continues.
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(slow music)
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- Look, I mean, it's a
tough sell to a lotta people
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because it's a subject matter
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that a lotta people don't wanna deal with,
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it's just kinda uncomfortable.
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I think the missing piece for me
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was the scale of this crime,
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where it's 20, 30 million
people a year worldwide,
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and it's, like, a huge industry.
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- And I've been working in this field
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for almost 25 years already.
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(dramatic music)
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Because the victim really
younger and younger.
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The youngest victim that
we cater in this shelter
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is a one-year-old girl,
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sold to sex, cybersex.
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- Down in a lot of South
American countries,
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I've been involved with some guys
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that do the rescues from sex traffickers,
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and one of the guys goes down there,
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he's involved in a great organization,
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a couple of them I know,
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and they go down there
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and they act as people
coming down to buy girls,
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American real estate moguls
coming down to buy girls,
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and they set up the deal,
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they get a big suite in a hotel,
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and they do deals with the local cartels.
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And it's simply a spreadsheet.
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The guy brings in a spreadsheet,
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he says, "Well, what age
girl do you wanna buy?
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"If you wanna buy a 12-year-old girl,
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"it's going to be $20,000,
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"because that's how much
money she'll make me,
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"if you'd wanna buy a 16-year-old girl,
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"and I've had her for four years,
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"well, you can get her
for three or four grand."
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And they've got the
whole thing worked out,
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it's a business,
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and it's a business based on prostitution
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that's really enabled by tourism.
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And I've got some great friends
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involved in recovery on that end,
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and they do a fantastic job,
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but those guys will tell you,
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because of the level
of depravity they see,
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for every 10 girls they rescue,
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they're leaving hundreds,
if not thousands, behind.
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That next week, another American
tourist, male or female,
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is going to be down there
demanding to buy children for sex.
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- I was working half
of my life doing this.
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I'm always running there and
there, rescue, in the port,
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in the airport, anywhere. (chuckles)
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It doesn't stop, it's just continue.
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And there's a time come that I said,
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"Oh,
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"it will never stop."
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(dramatic music)
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("Steady" by Kingslynn)
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- Parents try to find
different ways of survival,
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but also finding ways out
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for their children.
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I think, unfortunately,
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many parents do sell their
children cold-heartedly,
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but many parents are also
fooled into believing
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that these children are
moving on to a better future,
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if you like.
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Very few children here, it
seems, are actually kidnapped,
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taken off the street and
then sent for trafficking,
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they are actually handed
over by their parents
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one way or another.
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But these are small kids being
told to carry out sexual acts
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with themselves or with another child,
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of course it's abuse.
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And so there is a
twisted mindset, I think,
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among parents who
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don't want to admit or realize
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that they are actually committing a crime
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and that they are allowing abuse
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to happen to their children.
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- These boys, a lot of them
were from a country, Thailand,
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where they didn't even
speak mainstream Thai,
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they spoke different dialects,
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or they'd come from Cambodia,
Laos, Myanmar, Malaysia,
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different countries,
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and they'd just be taken.
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The traffickers, they'd
go to their hometowns,
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and they'd tell the parents, "Listen,
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"you can't afford to feed your kids,
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"we can give your kid a job in Bangkok,
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"he'll work in a restaurant,
he'll wash dishes,
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"he'll make maybe 5,000 baht a month,
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"we'll send some of
that money back to you,"
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and these parents, they
don't have a choice,
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they can't feed their kids,
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so they send them, and then, of course,
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these kids, they don't
work in restaurants.
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They're either sexually exploited
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as male prostitutes for
gay men in Thailand,
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or they're put on the streets as beggars,
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or they're even made to steal.
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So those are the sort of situations
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that these boys are coming out of.
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And they're so young, some
as young as four years old,
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4-16 was the ages at this school.
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- People know that they
can get people vulnerable,
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so they kidnap them, literally.
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(dramatic music)
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And they took them, by
force, to work in fields,
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or in drugs,
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or in criminal actions,
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or in sexual exploitation.
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- If this is all you
experience day to day,
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then you don't know of anything else.
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If you're expecting to
be treated a certain way,
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if you're expecting the
only form of affection
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to come through sexual contact,
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that if you wanna be touched at all,
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then you behave in a certain way
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and you receive that human
touch through sexuality,
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then that's what you go looking for,
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'cause we all need touch.
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I think if you're brought
up in the environment,
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and you don't know it's different,
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then you don't know
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that there's something else
out there that's different,
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so you don't actually see yourself
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as a victim of trafficking
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unless it's happened later in life.
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If it's happened early, or abuse is early,
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then that's all you ever know.
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So there's no reason to cry out.
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I know that sounds odd,
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but if you're 16
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and you've been having
sex since you were four,
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then those 12 years are the
only memories that you have,
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they would never know that
there was a life outside that.
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(dramatic music)
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- The most hurtful,
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the most traumatic
experience a child could have
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are both physical and sexual
abuse happens in the home,
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by their own parents.
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- In an article I just read by
a woman that was engaged by,
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I think it was the FBI,
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they were involved in the investigation
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of child pornography in America,
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she was encouraged by a
friend to turn the volume down
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on the videos when she watched it,
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and she decided not to,
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so she would turn the volume up,
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and she said the haunting
thing that was for her
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is that not one of these
children made a sound.
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One case, there was a man,
a father, a stepfather,
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videoing having sex with his daughter,
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father, six-year-old daughter,
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videoing on a Handycam
while he's penetrating her,
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and this little girl,
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her eyes glazed over
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and she looked away and
didn't make a sound.
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And the woman said
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that that was the most horrendous
part of the entire thing.
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Somehow they thought it was okay
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to engage with a sexual act with a child,
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so I wonder what they had
done to get to that point.
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How can you...
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As a man,
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I can't understand how
penetrating a prepubescent child
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could bring any form
of sexual satisfaction.
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There's gotta be a level
of brokenness and depravity
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that's happening at some level.
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Kids, when they're constantly abused,
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a child gets in a place
where it's trying to survive,
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and it'll do anything it can to survive.
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(music plays in bars)
(indistinct chatter)
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- One of the things that we know
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is that most women who end up trafficked
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were severely abused either
sexually or physically
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when they were children.
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We now know that early
trauma affects the brain,
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and we also know that if your brain
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is suffering from trauma,
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you will become a vulnerable teenager,
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and that is when young women
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are recruited into sex trafficking.
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(dramatic music)
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Once young women have "hooked up"
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with a trafficker or a pimp,
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then, very often, force is
used and coercion is used,
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and that is what makes
it into sex trafficking.
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So you might be lured
into the arms of someone,
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of a potential boyfriend,
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who turns out to be a pimp
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by the promise of, "Ah, we're
gonna be staying in hotels,
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"we're gonna go to discos,
we're gonna do drugs,
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"you're gonna have great clothes,"
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and that then very quickly
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becomes something quite different.
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- There is a consensus
that something like this,
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(dramatic music)
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sex slavery, sex trafficking,
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is only happening in third-world countries
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where people maybe don't necessarily care,
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they turn a blind eye,
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which is completely untrue.
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There are cities across the US
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where it is a daily-basis issue,
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and living in Los Angeles,
it is one of the main hubs.
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A lot of towns along the border of Mexico,
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it's very easy to get girls
and put them right into Mexico
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and then move them
wherever they need to go.
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It's a very lucrative business
for those that take children,
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and take women, and take men,
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it's a $32 billion a year business,
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and the average cost for a slave is $90.
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So there's quite (chuckles)
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an uneven balance there monetarily,
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and the US is one of the top countries
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where these slaves come from.
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- I find this all the time, right,
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that people say, "This is a
problem outside of Houston,
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"this is a problem outside of Texas,
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"outside of the United States,"
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this is a much bigger problem
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than what you might imagine it to be.
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(dramatic music)
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It's not just something that
happens in other places,
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that indeed it's happening here,
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and I think there are
many who would say demand,
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because of our affluence,
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is greater in the United States
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than in almost any other place.
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People wanna make money
with this industry,
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and a place where there's a lotta money
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is here in the United States,
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and so,
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whether they're domestic
girls or international girls,
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trafficking is here with us
here in the United States.
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("Remembering" by Chad Lawson)
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(indistinct chatter)
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- Of course I was getting
stares from a bunch of people
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while walking in the red-light district.
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I'm wearing white,
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so it's definitely like
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I wasn't going undercover or anything,
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and so, for them to look, and be cautious,
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and then, in my mind, I'm just
trying to say some mantras,
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I'm trying to say some,
like, really good sounds
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and send out some prayers for the girls,
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that if by chance their
soul would hear me,
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like, "Hey, stay strong,"
like, "Fight, escape,
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"do whatever it is you
need to do to get out,
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"people are ready to help you,"
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and all I could do was send those thoughts
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as I'm walking down the strip.
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(dramatic music)
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It's just, it's such a
different way of life,
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there's girls selling their body
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and then there's me, a monk. (chuckles)
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It was definitely an
interesting experience,
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because they're curious,
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like, what are you doing there?
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I just hope that they found some peace.
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("A Friend" by Entertainment
for the Braindead)
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(woman talks in foreign language)
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♪ How can you tell me ♪
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♪ That I am made needed ♪
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♪ If that need isn't even yours ♪
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♪ The more I wonder but ♪
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♪ Don't understand it ♪
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♪ The more it loses its contours ♪
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♪ If you wanna walk away ♪
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♪ Walk far enough so I won't find you ♪
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♪ Or if you'd rather choose to stay ♪
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♪ Then take your time for me ♪
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(indistinct chatter)
00:23:34.814 --> 00:23:35.647
(knocks on door)
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(kicks in door)
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(indistinct chatter)
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♪ I tell myself that ♪
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♪ It doesn't matter ♪
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♪ That it's of no concern to me ♪
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♪ That it's of no concern to me ♪
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- Unless we're prepared to look at
00:24:11.230 --> 00:24:13.480
the darkness within our own soul
00:24:13.480 --> 00:24:15.290
and then have a look at
00:24:15.290 --> 00:24:18.030
the condition in our world that caused it,
00:24:18.030 --> 00:24:21.216
then we're never going to be
able to progress and grow.
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- A lot of this is just
ignorance, I think,
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people just don't know,
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and they don't wanna know.
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I think that's what is at
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the root of a lot of these problems,
00:24:30.300 --> 00:24:32.210
that people don't have enough compassion
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for other human beings.
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And I think that's what has to be changed.
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'Cause if you really knew that girl,
00:24:38.270 --> 00:24:39.190
if you really cared,
00:24:39.190 --> 00:24:41.680
if somebody knew what she
went through and everything,
00:24:41.680 --> 00:24:44.370
I'm sure there's no way
00:24:44.370 --> 00:24:46.720
this guy would wanna pay
and have sex with her.
00:24:48.556 --> 00:24:49.756
Right? I don't think so.
00:24:51.005 --> 00:24:52.280
He'd probably wanna take her outta there
00:24:52.280 --> 00:24:55.067
and beat the hell out
of those guys, you know?
00:25:08.290 --> 00:25:11.373
(indistinct chatter)
00:25:44.349 --> 00:25:46.932
(sirens blare)
00:25:52.140 --> 00:25:53.360
- We've got supply, that means...
00:25:53.360 --> 00:25:54.570
If there wasn't a demand for it,
00:25:54.570 --> 00:25:56.950
there would not be no supply for it.
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So again,
00:25:57.790 --> 00:26:00.793
in order for us to address the
issue of sexual trafficking,
00:26:02.860 --> 00:26:04.930
it's not just a matter of rescuing girls
00:26:04.930 --> 00:26:05.763
that have been kidnapped
00:26:05.763 --> 00:26:07.510
or boys that have been kidnapped,
00:26:07.510 --> 00:26:10.230
at some point, you have
to ask the question,
00:26:10.230 --> 00:26:12.510
what has happened to us
00:26:12.510 --> 00:26:17.160
that we actually crave and desire that?
00:26:17.160 --> 00:26:20.200
What happens to us as men and women
00:26:20.200 --> 00:26:23.680
that that's what satisfies us
00:26:23.680 --> 00:26:28.300
and makes us feel complete
in a very intimate way?
00:26:28.300 --> 00:26:32.720
And I think only when we
start to answer that question
00:26:32.720 --> 00:26:34.200
do we ever have a hope
00:26:35.712 --> 00:26:38.853
of truly stopping sexual trafficking.
00:26:39.710 --> 00:26:42.793
(indistinct chatter)
00:26:46.150 --> 00:26:49.667
- How do we stop guys
from saying and thinking,
00:26:49.667 --> 00:26:53.560
"It's okay for me to go
out and buy these girls"?
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So, part of the way that we stop demand
00:26:55.970 --> 00:26:57.210
is you change the culture,
00:26:57.210 --> 00:27:00.120
sort of this idea of boys will be boys,
00:27:00.120 --> 00:27:03.623
and when you think of your average buyer,
00:27:05.710 --> 00:27:08.700
I think people sometimes
think that they're pedophiles
00:27:08.700 --> 00:27:11.560
or they're people that are
specifically after girls,
00:27:11.560 --> 00:27:13.320
but I think what we see more than anything
00:27:13.320 --> 00:27:16.300
is that these are men
who want young women,
00:27:16.300 --> 00:27:18.980
and they don't know
whether they're 15 or 21,
00:27:18.980 --> 00:27:20.800
but they want these young women,
00:27:20.800 --> 00:27:23.080
and it becomes very easy for them,
00:27:23.080 --> 00:27:24.720
and these are guys
00:27:24.720 --> 00:27:27.750
that anything from sort
of middle class and above,
00:27:27.750 --> 00:27:32.123
but also, sometimes we see
in these Latino cantinas,
00:27:33.531 --> 00:27:36.380
that the average salary is not very high
00:27:36.380 --> 00:27:37.300
with some of these people,
00:27:37.300 --> 00:27:39.540
so I think it's a broad spectrum
00:27:39.540 --> 00:27:43.160
of these men that are buying these girls,
00:27:43.160 --> 00:27:45.610
but the common denominator for these men
00:27:45.610 --> 00:27:48.110
is that they feel like it's very easy
00:27:48.110 --> 00:27:51.933
for them to buy a girl and
have quick sex, basically.
00:27:53.200 --> 00:27:55.450
And so we're seeing this
time and time again,
00:27:56.612 --> 00:27:58.180
that if we're gonna end demand,
00:27:58.180 --> 00:28:01.930
it's all about making it
scarier, making it harder,
00:28:01.930 --> 00:28:04.200
and sort of eliminating a culture
00:28:04.200 --> 00:28:06.560
where it's okay to do this.
00:28:06.560 --> 00:28:07.940
It's always a gamble,
00:28:07.940 --> 00:28:12.850
is it worth a gamble to go
online and buy this girl
00:28:12.850 --> 00:28:14.650
when you might be arrested?
00:28:14.650 --> 00:28:17.210
Most men would say it's
not worth a gamble,
00:28:17.210 --> 00:28:19.830
but when you live in a
city where if you gamble,
00:28:19.830 --> 00:28:22.820
you always win, and when you gamble,
00:28:22.820 --> 00:28:24.563
you're never going to be arrested,
00:28:26.210 --> 00:28:27.820
a place like Houston,
00:28:27.820 --> 00:28:29.320
you're gonna go gamble more often,
00:28:29.320 --> 00:28:31.500
you're going to buy sex more often
00:28:31.500 --> 00:28:34.200
if you feel like there
are no repercussions
00:28:34.200 --> 00:28:35.610
to you buying young women.
00:28:35.610 --> 00:28:38.760
- Unfortunately, some
people, just, to them,
00:28:38.760 --> 00:28:40.790
ignorance is bliss, and
they don't wanna know,
00:28:40.790 --> 00:28:43.810
because it's tough stuff to
know, it doesn't leave you,
00:28:43.810 --> 00:28:47.423
and so, they would rather just
go on about their merry day,
00:28:48.338 --> 00:28:50.923
and sadly, that's very prevalent,
00:28:52.515 --> 00:28:53.950
just in general,
00:28:53.950 --> 00:28:56.860
people don't wanna know
00:28:57.720 --> 00:29:01.470
the reality of what's going
on behind closed doors,
00:29:01.470 --> 00:29:02.450
and in their communities,
00:29:02.450 --> 00:29:05.270
and across the nation,
and all over the world.
00:29:05.270 --> 00:29:07.513
It's a hard thing to talk about.
00:29:08.451 --> 00:29:09.700
- The problem with sex trafficking,
00:29:09.700 --> 00:29:11.010
the problem with sex,
00:29:11.010 --> 00:29:13.930
the problem with child sexual
abuse for boys and girls
00:29:13.930 --> 00:29:15.400
is that it's all taboo,
00:29:15.400 --> 00:29:17.160
can't talk about it,
00:29:17.160 --> 00:29:19.910
you're not supposed to talk
about those dirty topics.
00:29:19.910 --> 00:29:22.250
One in five girls are assaulted,
00:29:22.250 --> 00:29:24.820
boys are assaulted too,
00:29:24.820 --> 00:29:27.240
and especially with the
way society treats men,
00:29:27.240 --> 00:29:28.860
men can't even express themselves,
00:29:28.860 --> 00:29:30.670
they just hold their stuff in,
00:29:30.670 --> 00:29:32.450
and sometimes, in crazy cases,
00:29:32.450 --> 00:29:34.340
the victims become the victimizers,
00:29:34.340 --> 00:29:36.340
and you'll hear that story.
00:29:36.340 --> 00:29:39.310
And so we have to think bigger,
00:29:39.310 --> 00:29:42.400
we have to raise our voice
to say it's not okay,
00:29:42.400 --> 00:29:44.263
enough is enough.
00:29:45.100 --> 00:29:46.400
- It's a taboo,
00:29:46.400 --> 00:29:50.370
it's something that we
don't wanna talk about,
00:29:50.370 --> 00:29:55.370
and I think this is also where
gender roles are coming in.
00:29:56.850 --> 00:29:59.210
Men are not willing to talk about
00:29:59.210 --> 00:30:01.330
the extent of which they
have been victimized,
00:30:01.330 --> 00:30:03.490
whether they've been
victims of trafficking,
00:30:03.490 --> 00:30:08.490
or whether they've been victims
of male-on-male violence.
00:30:09.190 --> 00:30:11.510
We don't exist in a world
00:30:11.510 --> 00:30:13.927
where young boys can stand up and say,
00:30:13.927 --> 00:30:14.773
"Hey,
00:30:16.627 --> 00:30:18.910
"I'm being sexually abused."
00:30:18.910 --> 00:30:19.790
We're beginning to make
00:30:19.790 --> 00:30:22.290
a little bit of inroads with bullying,
00:30:22.290 --> 00:30:25.900
and I hope that that
will create an atmosphere
00:30:25.900 --> 00:30:29.290
in which more male
victims can come forward.
00:30:29.290 --> 00:30:30.890
- Well, at first, it made me really mad
00:30:30.890 --> 00:30:33.800
to know that I lived in
this country for 14 years
00:30:33.800 --> 00:30:35.556
and I had never even heard of this.
00:30:35.556 --> 00:30:38.306
(dramatic music)
00:30:45.155 --> 00:30:46.430
And if it's such a big crime,
00:30:46.430 --> 00:30:48.570
it's affecting 27 million people,
00:30:48.570 --> 00:30:49.700
why aren't we talking about it?
00:30:49.700 --> 00:30:51.330
So that made me really mad,
00:30:51.330 --> 00:30:53.827
and then it made me wanna
do something about it.
00:30:58.036 --> 00:31:00.786
(dramatic music)
00:31:54.496 --> 00:31:56.880
- At the Center of Hope,
there were 43 girls,
00:31:56.880 --> 00:31:59.280
and I just heard from
the director yesterday,
00:31:59.280 --> 00:32:00.543
now there's 50.
00:32:01.400 --> 00:32:03.080
The numbers shouldn't be increasing,
00:32:03.080 --> 00:32:04.856
they should be decreasing.
00:32:04.856 --> 00:32:07.606
(dramatic music)
00:32:16.170 --> 00:32:19.330
- Technology has made it very easy
00:32:19.330 --> 00:32:21.960
on the trafficking industry.
00:32:21.960 --> 00:32:23.500
It's made it very easy for those
00:32:23.500 --> 00:32:26.040
that want to buy a young girl.
00:32:26.040 --> 00:32:28.240
You only need to go on your computer,
00:32:28.240 --> 00:32:31.560
and probably faster than a
pizza can be delivered here,
00:32:31.560 --> 00:32:34.593
we could have a young girl
delivered to your home.
00:32:36.150 --> 00:32:40.170
I think that social media and technology
00:32:40.170 --> 00:32:42.360
is really sort of the driver
00:32:42.360 --> 00:32:45.003
in terms of this explosive
growth that we're seeing.
00:32:48.370 --> 00:32:51.180
- A lotta things that are
trending with the new technology
00:32:51.180 --> 00:32:55.860
are webcams, cybersex,
cybersex trafficking.
00:32:55.860 --> 00:32:58.720
Guys are making money,
girls are making money
00:32:58.720 --> 00:33:01.470
from putting children
in front of a webcam,
00:33:01.470 --> 00:33:03.263
and there are these perverted
people around the world
00:33:03.263 --> 00:33:06.247
that are like, "Yep, I wanna
watch a little Asian kid."
00:33:07.221 --> 00:33:09.138
(gags)
00:33:11.250 --> 00:33:13.900
- You're talking about the
commodification of bodies,
00:33:14.930 --> 00:33:16.750
the consumption of bodies,
00:33:16.750 --> 00:33:18.010
and these are being moved along
00:33:18.010 --> 00:33:19.810
the same networks of capitalist exchange
00:33:19.810 --> 00:33:22.050
that are transferring other goods.
00:33:22.050 --> 00:33:23.780
- There's no profile of white,
00:33:23.780 --> 00:33:26.660
black, Latino, or Asian who's buying this,
00:33:26.660 --> 00:33:29.920
'cause it's happening
all across the board,
00:33:29.920 --> 00:33:33.140
and sometimes it's guys
that you would think
00:33:34.230 --> 00:33:36.950
they should really be spending
this money on their family,
00:33:36.950 --> 00:33:38.020
but they're taking this money
00:33:38.020 --> 00:33:40.363
and they're spending it on a woman.
00:33:41.300 --> 00:33:44.500
I think there are lots of examples of guys
00:33:44.500 --> 00:33:46.340
that sort of have become addicted to this,
00:33:46.340 --> 00:33:49.200
that this is something they do a lot,
00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:52.500
and you see this through
some of the review sites
00:33:52.500 --> 00:33:54.330
where it's the same guys
that are doing this,
00:33:54.330 --> 00:33:57.610
it's sort of become a hobby
or something with them,
00:33:57.610 --> 00:33:58.980
but you see plenty of other guys
00:33:58.980 --> 00:34:00.560
that do it once or twice a year,
00:34:00.560 --> 00:34:03.020
you see guys who do it on vacation,
00:34:03.020 --> 00:34:05.610
but I think when we're talking about
00:34:05.610 --> 00:34:07.779
some of these Texas cities though,
00:34:07.779 --> 00:34:09.490
it's not happening because people
00:34:09.490 --> 00:34:12.190
are doing vacations or business trips,
00:34:12.190 --> 00:34:14.280
it's happening because it's easy.
00:34:14.280 --> 00:34:16.670
- Each person that's a
victim of human trafficking
00:34:16.670 --> 00:34:17.610
is a person,
00:34:17.610 --> 00:34:18.700
they're someone's daughter,
00:34:18.700 --> 00:34:20.440
someone's sister, someone's mother,
00:34:20.440 --> 00:34:23.210
or someone's son, 'cause boys,
they're trafficked as well,
00:34:23.210 --> 00:34:24.530
and we need to see them that way,
00:34:24.530 --> 00:34:26.660
we need to stop thinking
of this as a statistic.
00:34:26.660 --> 00:34:28.737
27 million is a big number,
00:34:28.737 --> 00:34:30.260
but we need to break that down
00:34:30.260 --> 00:34:32.420
and stop seeing it as 27 million,
00:34:32.420 --> 00:34:33.650
some huge, big number,
00:34:33.650 --> 00:34:37.000
we need to think of that
as 27 million human beings,
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:40.800
a Kathy, a Betty, an Amir,
a Daniel, human beings,
00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:42.500
and once we see it that way,
00:34:42.500 --> 00:34:44.120
we are not gonna be able to tolerate this,
00:34:44.120 --> 00:34:44.953
and we will,
00:34:44.953 --> 00:34:47.190
as a direct result of
realizing that our sisters,
00:34:47.190 --> 00:34:48.940
and our brothers, and our children
00:34:48.940 --> 00:34:51.830
are being tortured and raped
in these terrible ways,
00:34:51.830 --> 00:34:53.120
then we're gonna do something.
00:34:53.120 --> 00:34:56.510
- I have a friend, the
mother of Lisette Soto,
00:34:56.510 --> 00:34:58.973
nine years old, she was up here,
00:34:58.973 --> 00:35:00.320
and everything indicated
00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:03.890
that she was sold to Americans in a yacht,
00:35:03.890 --> 00:35:08.390
so that girl could be the
woman that you are buying,
00:35:08.390 --> 00:35:13.110
and you are so selfish because
the parents are barely alive,
00:35:13.110 --> 00:35:14.770
crying every night,
00:35:14.770 --> 00:35:17.650
praying to God that their
daughter will appear.
00:35:17.650 --> 00:35:20.650
So, anytime we are so selfish,
00:35:20.650 --> 00:35:23.290
and we don't think of the others,
00:35:23.290 --> 00:35:25.513
we make a lot of pain in this world.
00:35:32.074 --> 00:35:34.824
(dramatic music)
00:36:16.030 --> 00:36:17.060
- When it's personalized,
00:36:17.060 --> 00:36:19.970
when you encounter a survivor's narrative,
00:36:19.970 --> 00:36:21.590
it's emotionally impactful,
00:36:21.590 --> 00:36:23.873
but what do we do with
that emotional reaction?
00:36:24.860 --> 00:36:26.130
One of the things that I find
00:36:26.130 --> 00:36:27.820
that a lot of American students react
00:36:27.820 --> 00:36:32.230
is they immediately
want violence, in a way.
00:36:32.230 --> 00:36:34.090
There's something about
the way our culture works
00:36:34.090 --> 00:36:35.390
that the solution to every problem
00:36:35.390 --> 00:36:37.200
is some sort of military intervention
00:36:37.200 --> 00:36:39.090
or some sort of law enforcement crackdown,
00:36:39.090 --> 00:36:40.880
it's some sort of use of violence.
00:36:40.880 --> 00:36:42.530
So what I try to show students
00:36:42.530 --> 00:36:44.840
is that the ways in
which these interventions
00:36:44.840 --> 00:36:47.630
often exacerbate problems of trafficking,
00:36:47.630 --> 00:36:48.510
and we've gotta look at
00:36:48.510 --> 00:36:50.160
the more structural issues of poverty
00:36:50.160 --> 00:36:52.610
if we wanna actually make a difference.
00:36:52.610 --> 00:36:54.893
- Poverty, and trauma,
00:36:57.259 --> 00:36:59.900
and drug addiction create opportunities
00:36:59.900 --> 00:37:03.043
that are being exploited by traffickers.
00:37:04.850 --> 00:37:07.430
Some women are snatched on the street,
00:37:07.430 --> 00:37:09.500
I don't wanna discount that narrative,
00:37:09.500 --> 00:37:13.190
but it is not what happens to 99% of women
00:37:13.190 --> 00:37:14.850
who end up being trafficked.
00:37:14.850 --> 00:37:18.430
I see a lot of panhandling as
a form of human trafficking,
00:37:18.430 --> 00:37:20.370
and we see that all over the world.
00:37:20.370 --> 00:37:23.050
Those who are weakest, and women included,
00:37:23.050 --> 00:37:25.810
become targets for traffickers.
00:37:25.810 --> 00:37:28.310
(birds chirp)
00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:34.890
I think when you begin to lift the veil
00:37:36.220 --> 00:37:40.960
that exists around the
trafficking women in our society,
00:37:40.960 --> 00:37:43.210
then it becomes scary.
00:37:43.210 --> 00:37:45.140
(dramatic music)
00:37:45.140 --> 00:37:49.220
- There's a line in Fight Club,
00:37:49.220 --> 00:37:53.200
Edward Norton goes
loose on a blond-headed,
00:37:53.200 --> 00:37:54.530
short-haired kid in the film,
00:37:54.530 --> 00:37:57.290
and the protagonist,
Brad Pitt, he's older,
00:37:57.290 --> 00:37:58.970
he goes, he says, "Why did you do that?"
00:37:58.970 --> 00:38:02.480
He says, "I just wanted to
destroy something beautiful."
00:38:02.480 --> 00:38:04.910
And unfortunately, there's a
group of people in our society
00:38:04.910 --> 00:38:08.251
that take great joy in
destroying something beautiful,
00:38:08.251 --> 00:38:09.411
and there's nothing more beautiful
00:38:09.411 --> 00:38:11.891
than the smile of a little
boy or a little girl.
00:38:11.891 --> 00:38:16.058
("Sur L'Ocean" by Elise Melinand)
00:38:39.831 --> 00:38:42.581
(dramatic music)
00:38:52.172 --> 00:38:56.339
("Sur L'Ocean" by Elise Melinand)
00:41:15.991 --> 00:41:18.741
(dramatic music)
00:41:19.810 --> 00:41:23.247
- "I was young when it
happened, old when he left.
00:41:23.247 --> 00:41:24.843
"He came when it rained.
00:41:25.867 --> 00:41:28.699
"He said, 'Lie still, hold still,
00:41:28.699 --> 00:41:31.857
"'I'll do it, don't
struggle, no one will know,'
00:41:31.857 --> 00:41:35.657
"but they can all tell,
they see it, they know it,
00:41:35.657 --> 00:41:37.177
"I'm defiled, soiled,
00:41:37.177 --> 00:41:40.360
"skewed like excrement on a sacred hall.
00:41:41.537 --> 00:41:43.547
"He came telling me it
would make me a man,
00:41:43.547 --> 00:41:45.877
"he came telling me it wouldn't last long,
00:41:45.877 --> 00:41:48.337
"he came telling me it wouldn't hurt.
00:41:48.337 --> 00:41:49.917
"Then why does it still ache?
00:41:49.917 --> 00:41:51.817
"Why does it never stop?
00:41:51.817 --> 00:41:53.397
"I lie awake pretending to sleep,
00:41:53.397 --> 00:41:55.757
"hating the nights, dreading the dreams,
00:41:55.757 --> 00:41:58.437
"puddles in the corner of my soul,
00:41:58.437 --> 00:42:01.835
"fearing the rain, longing for sunshine."
00:42:01.835 --> 00:42:04.585
(dramatic music)
00:42:11.450 --> 00:42:14.380
- I'm kind of embarrassed to
say that up until being 27,
00:42:14.380 --> 00:42:16.990
I had never heard of
human trafficking before.
00:42:16.990 --> 00:42:19.070
The first glimpse I got was,
00:42:19.070 --> 00:42:21.730
my family still has a lot of
family at home in Vietnam,
00:42:21.730 --> 00:42:24.620
in Vietnam, your neighbor
could be your cousin,
00:42:24.620 --> 00:42:26.276
so I've got, like, the cousins, right?
00:42:26.276 --> 00:42:27.310
(dramatic music)
00:42:27.310 --> 00:42:29.550
On Facebook, I would
see, like, the cousins,
00:42:29.550 --> 00:42:31.270
like, I would send pictures...
00:42:31.270 --> 00:42:32.300
I would send them clothing,
00:42:32.300 --> 00:42:33.820
they would send me pictures of themselves
00:42:33.820 --> 00:42:34.770
styling up the clothing,
00:42:34.770 --> 00:42:36.170
it was really cool and everything,
00:42:36.170 --> 00:42:38.810
and then one particular cousin of mine,
00:42:38.810 --> 00:42:40.550
she was actually a neighbor to my mom
00:42:40.550 --> 00:42:42.670
when my mom was younger in Vietnam,
00:42:42.670 --> 00:42:46.713
she started styling the
clothing very promiscuously,
00:42:48.234 --> 00:42:50.860
and so I picked up on it
00:42:50.860 --> 00:42:52.630
and the next time I traveled to Vietnam,
00:42:52.630 --> 00:42:54.400
I started to hang out with
her a little bit more.
00:42:54.400 --> 00:42:56.037
So I said, "Where do you hang out?
00:42:56.037 --> 00:42:57.230
"Show me where you'd go,"
00:42:57.230 --> 00:42:59.160
and she'd take me to these coffee shops
00:42:59.160 --> 00:43:01.400
where, like, right off the bat,
00:43:01.400 --> 00:43:06.400
what I noticed was a lot of
really sexy-dressed young women
00:43:07.090 --> 00:43:09.973
and a lot of American guys.
00:43:13.510 --> 00:43:14.930
Found out that she was working there,
00:43:14.930 --> 00:43:16.580
she was tending to the men there,
00:43:18.388 --> 00:43:21.330
and later, when I asked
her why she worked there,
00:43:21.330 --> 00:43:23.700
she said that it was a
deal made by her uncle,
00:43:23.700 --> 00:43:25.500
and that she couldn't get out of it.
00:43:27.160 --> 00:43:30.860
She was so afraid to tell me all of this
00:43:30.860 --> 00:43:34.040
because of what her uncle could do.
00:43:34.040 --> 00:43:35.390
So I looked into it,
00:43:35.390 --> 00:43:36.860
and I realized that this is the thing
00:43:36.860 --> 00:43:38.730
that's called sex trafficking,
00:43:38.730 --> 00:43:40.910
and that there's so many
different angles to it,
00:43:40.910 --> 00:43:42.483
that's just one story.
00:43:47.090 --> 00:43:51.640
I met girls that were,
let's see, from 9-13
00:43:53.000 --> 00:43:56.470
who had had sexual
encounters with, on average,
00:43:56.470 --> 00:44:00.113
about 20-25 men a night.
00:44:03.216 --> 00:44:05.950
I also met women (sobs)
00:44:12.410 --> 00:44:15.330
who had been raped,
00:44:15.330 --> 00:44:16.260
and they would get pregnant
00:44:16.260 --> 00:44:19.920
from the clients of the brothels,
00:44:19.920 --> 00:44:22.390
and then they would
have to abort the child,
00:44:22.390 --> 00:44:25.740
but because it's a sin to
abort a child in Thailand,
00:44:25.740 --> 00:44:27.160
and also with their faith,
00:44:27.160 --> 00:44:28.700
they would then have to take the fetus
00:44:28.700 --> 00:44:32.100
and lay it outside of the
doorway of the brothel
00:44:32.100 --> 00:44:34.350
just to kind of ask for
forgiveness for sins.
00:44:42.690 --> 00:44:44.107
I met young girls
00:44:47.092 --> 00:44:48.370
in shelters in Vietnam
00:44:48.370 --> 00:44:53.020
who had scars all up and down their arms
00:44:53.020 --> 00:44:55.313
just to mark who they belonged to,
00:44:56.520 --> 00:44:59.190
and just watching them
sit and sift their shirts
00:45:01.139 --> 00:45:02.520
and just feel so inadequate
00:45:02.520 --> 00:45:06.023
with their own skin that
they're in was, like,
00:45:07.020 --> 00:45:08.373
it's just disgusting.
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:12.640
- A lot of people have been assaulted,
00:45:12.640 --> 00:45:14.350
molested, or raped in this world,
00:45:14.350 --> 00:45:18.740
and a lot of people are
getting raped every single day,
00:45:18.740 --> 00:45:21.500
they're getting raped 30-40 times a day,
00:45:21.500 --> 00:45:24.370
and someone's just counting
some hundred dollar bills,
00:45:24.370 --> 00:45:26.010
and just smiling, and gambling,
00:45:26.010 --> 00:45:27.763
and drinking, and doing drugs.
00:45:30.600 --> 00:45:32.800
But you know what it's like to be raped?
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:33.673
What's rape?
00:45:34.630 --> 00:45:36.000
Rape is...
00:45:36.000 --> 00:45:39.870
Holy moly, I can't even define
rape, rape is just wrong,
00:45:39.870 --> 00:45:43.203
rape is, you kill a person inside,
00:45:44.940 --> 00:45:46.930
you make them dead.
00:45:46.930 --> 00:45:50.380
And can you imagine, when
you're being trafficked,
00:45:50.380 --> 00:45:53.143
you're dying 30-40 times a day.
00:45:54.890 --> 00:45:57.860
Your soul is being totally ripped apart.
00:45:57.860 --> 00:46:00.070
Your sense of aliveness,
your sense of identity,
00:46:00.070 --> 00:46:03.220
your sense of just your own inner power
00:46:03.220 --> 00:46:05.920
is ripped away from you.
00:46:05.920 --> 00:46:07.050
Imagine that.
00:46:07.050 --> 00:46:09.770
And it's going on all the time.
00:46:09.770 --> 00:46:13.040
Every 30 seconds, someone's
being trafficked right now,
00:46:13.040 --> 00:46:14.920
someone's being raped right now,
00:46:14.920 --> 00:46:17.779
someone does not have a voice.
00:46:17.779 --> 00:46:21.431
(speaks in foreign language)
00:46:21.431 --> 00:46:24.181
(dramatic music)
00:46:41.179 --> 00:46:43.929
(dramatic music)
00:50:02.170 --> 00:50:05.043
(dramatic music)
00:50:05.043 --> 00:50:07.043
- I think the saddest part is also
00:50:07.043 --> 00:50:10.530
some of these kids are so
desensitized with knowing that...
00:50:10.530 --> 00:50:14.540
Like, there's the women that
are aware of being ashamed,
00:50:14.540 --> 00:50:15.373
okay, that's one thing,
00:50:15.373 --> 00:50:18.860
but then there's kids
who actually don't know
00:50:18.860 --> 00:50:22.930
that they're working for
mafia-type guys in Thailand,
00:50:22.930 --> 00:50:24.240
or in their circumference,
00:50:24.240 --> 00:50:25.520
and that they just think
00:50:25.520 --> 00:50:26.730
they're doing right for their families,
00:50:26.730 --> 00:50:28.890
so they're walking around
with menus of women,
00:50:28.890 --> 00:50:30.423
on what you can do with them,
00:50:31.300 --> 00:50:32.133
how these women can service you,
00:50:32.133 --> 00:50:34.450
how these little boys can lay with you,
00:50:34.450 --> 00:50:36.670
and they'll just run after you
00:50:36.670 --> 00:50:39.440
in the streets of these
countries trying to sell
00:50:39.440 --> 00:50:40.460
because this is their job
00:50:40.460 --> 00:50:41.520
and they feel like they're doing good
00:50:41.520 --> 00:50:43.520
because of whoever they're answering to.
00:50:44.540 --> 00:50:49.540
I would see grown men jump right
into cabs with little boys,
00:50:50.150 --> 00:50:53.513
sitting on their lap, I've
seen men play with little boys.
00:50:54.420 --> 00:50:57.200
It takes everything to not go
00:50:57.200 --> 00:51:00.380
and just wanna claw
these people's faces out,
00:51:00.380 --> 00:51:01.680
but that's not the answer.
00:51:02.860 --> 00:51:04.980
Going in on one disgusting person
00:51:04.980 --> 00:51:07.223
is not going to save the bigger issue.
00:51:10.336 --> 00:51:11.850
So, those are some of
the images in my mind
00:51:11.850 --> 00:51:15.470
that will never leave until
I could do everything I can
00:51:15.470 --> 00:51:17.930
to put a stop to human trafficking.
00:51:17.930 --> 00:51:21.370
- My family's life on the
outside was very together,
00:51:21.370 --> 00:51:24.300
very prominent, very
good, highly-educated,
00:51:24.300 --> 00:51:26.050
very influential people.
00:51:26.050 --> 00:51:29.060
I'd never thought that my
childhood was abnormal,
00:51:29.060 --> 00:51:33.520
until I was 45, and it
struck me that it wasn't.
00:51:33.520 --> 00:51:36.223
I was never meant to
start having sex at four,
00:51:37.240 --> 00:51:38.793
but I had sex at four.
00:51:44.470 --> 00:51:47.280
I had to crawl up some lady's caftan
00:51:48.632 --> 00:51:50.032
and perform oral sex on her.
00:51:52.270 --> 00:51:57.143
If I didn't do a good job,
there was consequences for it.
00:51:57.978 --> 00:52:00.480
I was beaten for it or punished if I...
00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:03.340
Or I was rewarded with being allowed
00:52:03.340 --> 00:52:05.060
to participate at an activity,
00:52:05.060 --> 00:52:06.300
or taken to a party
00:52:09.151 --> 00:52:10.490
where I was used
00:52:10.490 --> 00:52:13.120
for sexual gratification.
(dramatic music)
00:52:13.120 --> 00:52:14.533
It does something to you.
00:52:16.203 --> 00:52:17.670
I don't know why they did it.
00:52:17.670 --> 00:52:19.920
I think she got aroused
watching him beat me,
00:52:21.611 --> 00:52:22.570
and he got aroused
00:52:25.640 --> 00:52:28.133
watching her engage me sexually.
00:52:32.240 --> 00:52:34.390
- As we're talking right now,
00:52:34.390 --> 00:52:35.740
somebody's being trafficked,
00:52:35.740 --> 00:52:37.000
somebody's being sold,
00:52:37.000 --> 00:52:38.610
somebody is crying
00:52:38.610 --> 00:52:40.120
because they're not gonna
return to their family,
00:52:40.120 --> 00:52:40.953
someone thinks that
00:52:40.953 --> 00:52:43.000
they're not gonna make
it past another year.
00:52:44.790 --> 00:52:47.661
It's happening right now,
00:52:47.661 --> 00:52:50.020
and it's insane that it
happens in your own back yard,
00:52:50.020 --> 00:52:52.050
trafficking happens everywhere.
00:52:52.050 --> 00:52:52.883
In fact,
00:52:52.883 --> 00:52:53.716
most people don't know
00:52:53.716 --> 00:52:55.460
that the number-one most popular event
00:52:55.460 --> 00:52:58.530
where trafficking is
happening is the Super Bowl.
00:52:58.530 --> 00:53:02.543
The Super Bowl is an event we
all look towards to celebrate,
00:53:05.631 --> 00:53:07.570
and have a fun time with
your friends, and be crazy,
00:53:07.570 --> 00:53:09.460
and at that exact moment,
00:53:09.460 --> 00:53:12.410
there are thousands of trafficked women
00:53:12.410 --> 00:53:13.930
coming in to service men.
00:53:13.930 --> 00:53:15.960
And that's something that happens
00:53:15.960 --> 00:53:17.130
right under our very own eyes,
00:53:17.130 --> 00:53:19.120
I've been at the Super Bowl celebrating,
00:53:19.120 --> 00:53:23.803
so just to be aware that it's everywhere.
00:53:41.441 --> 00:53:44.700
(speaks in foreign language)
00:53:44.700 --> 00:53:49.700
- Girls are for procreation
and boys are for pleasure.
00:53:50.070 --> 00:53:51.844
You hear something like that,
00:53:51.844 --> 00:53:53.569
and you're like, "No,
that's not really..."
00:53:53.569 --> 00:53:55.263
and then you hear about
it more and more and more.
00:53:55.263 --> 00:53:57.963
- Some of the guys I know
that served in the military,
00:53:59.260 --> 00:54:00.380
they knew that it was part
00:54:00.380 --> 00:54:03.003
of every Friday night in Afghanistan.
00:54:04.590 --> 00:54:07.833
Young boys would be taken
and forced into sexual acts.
00:54:09.920 --> 00:54:13.077
- All the guys get drunk
and everything else,
00:54:13.077 --> 00:54:14.490
and you see 'em walking around
00:54:14.490 --> 00:54:18.070
getting the kids out of elementary school,
00:54:18.070 --> 00:54:19.960
bring 'em back home, get everybody drunk,
00:54:19.960 --> 00:54:22.203
and lo and behold, they have a great time.
00:54:23.560 --> 00:54:25.410
- It wasn't just that they were used,
00:54:25.410 --> 00:54:27.500
the sex-trafficking thing,
00:54:27.500 --> 00:54:31.620
it was that the sex was used
as a tool to brutalize them,
00:54:31.620 --> 00:54:34.750
and totally break them
down, and deprave them,
00:54:34.750 --> 00:54:35.923
make them soulless.
00:54:36.840 --> 00:54:38.860
If you take a young boy of 12
00:54:39.720 --> 00:54:42.770
and he is anally raped by 30 or 40 men,
00:54:42.770 --> 00:54:46.090
and then he is made to kill his mother
00:54:46.090 --> 00:54:49.760
by inserting barbwire
in her vagina repeatedly
00:54:49.760 --> 00:54:51.583
and then chopping her head off,
00:54:52.570 --> 00:54:55.630
somewhere in that process,
his soul is broken,
00:54:55.630 --> 00:54:57.120
and he's destroyed,
00:54:57.120 --> 00:54:59.540
so then you've got the ideal soldier,
00:54:59.540 --> 00:55:02.040
someone who'll live for you
because you protect him,
00:55:02.040 --> 00:55:03.430
you care for him,
00:55:03.430 --> 00:55:06.080
and there's nothing in the
world for him to live for.
00:55:06.992 --> 00:55:09.842
And it's the same in Afghanistan
and around those places,
00:55:12.041 --> 00:55:14.750
it's not only the selling
of them in the trafficking,
00:55:14.750 --> 00:55:17.650
it's the very deliberate breaking down
00:55:17.650 --> 00:55:19.240
of these boys and girls
00:55:21.120 --> 00:55:23.500
as just objects and gratification.
00:55:23.500 --> 00:55:26.860
- A personal side for me to do this film
00:55:26.860 --> 00:55:29.790
and to raise my voice
00:55:29.790 --> 00:55:33.710
is because I was abused
when I was six years old.
00:55:33.710 --> 00:55:37.683
A painter grabbed me and
took me to the bathroom,
00:55:39.010 --> 00:55:41.640
and I remember lying there on the floor
00:55:41.640 --> 00:55:45.620
just looking at the bottom of the toilet,
00:55:45.620 --> 00:55:48.803
just feeling totally
empty and dead inside.
00:55:50.290 --> 00:55:51.633
And right after,
00:55:53.019 --> 00:55:55.517
he looked me in the eye, he
grabbed my arm, and he said,
00:55:55.517 --> 00:55:58.137
"If you tell anybody,
00:55:58.137 --> 00:56:01.597
"I will kill you and I
will kill your family,"
00:56:02.970 --> 00:56:04.170
and I never said a word.
00:56:05.300 --> 00:56:07.753
So I just kept silent,
00:56:09.150 --> 00:56:11.033
but that silence is stopping now.
00:56:12.326 --> 00:56:15.726
(woman speaks in foreign language)
00:56:15.726 --> 00:56:17.366
("Barracuda" by Luke Atencio)
00:56:17.366 --> 00:56:20.199
♪ One, two, three ♪
00:56:27.745 --> 00:56:30.676
- [All] I fight to end human trafficking.
00:56:30.676 --> 00:56:33.570
- [All] I fight, I fight, I fight!
00:56:33.570 --> 00:56:36.903
(cheering and applause)
00:56:42.222 --> 00:56:44.764
- (sighs) The power of the people.
00:56:44.764 --> 00:56:46.670
Power of the people.
00:56:46.670 --> 00:56:49.900
When you see a lot of
violence in this world,
00:56:49.900 --> 00:56:51.982
you're moved by it,
00:56:51.982 --> 00:56:55.160
and I believe if you have a heart,
00:56:55.160 --> 00:56:56.640
you wanna do something about it.
00:56:56.640 --> 00:56:59.250
You can't live your
life living in violence,
00:56:59.250 --> 00:57:00.330
you don't want your children
00:57:00.330 --> 00:57:02.380
to live in any kind of violence,
00:57:02.380 --> 00:57:04.233
so you wanna do something about it.
00:57:05.810 --> 00:57:08.380
There are activists on the line,
00:57:08.380 --> 00:57:10.220
putting their life on the line,
00:57:10.220 --> 00:57:12.380
to save these girls, to save these boys,
00:57:12.380 --> 00:57:14.500
and we don't hear their stories,
00:57:14.500 --> 00:57:16.850
and so I think as a movement,
00:57:16.850 --> 00:57:19.530
we get inspired by other people's stories,
00:57:19.530 --> 00:57:24.530
so this way, we have some kind
of idea of what's going on.
00:57:24.930 --> 00:57:26.980
We wanted to hear the ups, the downs,
00:57:26.980 --> 00:57:27.950
what keeps them going,
00:57:27.950 --> 00:57:29.293
what are the challenges?
00:57:31.130 --> 00:57:33.080
Everybody tries to be
perfect in this world,
00:57:33.080 --> 00:57:35.390
and they try to act as
if they have it together,
00:57:35.390 --> 00:57:36.650
but they don't,
00:57:36.650 --> 00:57:39.560
and to know the struggle,
to know their why,
00:57:39.560 --> 00:57:41.210
to know why they didn't quit,
00:57:41.210 --> 00:57:44.670
to know that this is what a
survivor had to do or believe in
00:57:44.670 --> 00:57:46.163
in order to escape.
00:57:47.075 --> 00:57:49.180
Or through a social movement,
we can bring about change,
00:57:49.180 --> 00:57:52.970
and if we focus on the movement
behind sex trafficking,
00:57:52.970 --> 00:57:54.470
behind human trafficking,
00:57:54.470 --> 00:57:57.313
then I believe, as a
world, we can end this.
00:58:01.993 --> 00:58:05.212
- [All] I fight to end human trafficking!
00:58:05.212 --> 00:58:07.379
I fight, I fight, I fight!
00:58:08.422 --> 00:58:11.755
(cheering and applause)
00:58:15.702 --> 00:58:19.952
(people speak in foreign language)
00:58:28.910 --> 00:58:31.743
- [All] I fight, I fight, I fight!
00:59:02.550 --> 00:59:05.420
- So oftentimes, when we
talk about trafficking,
00:59:05.420 --> 00:59:08.617
and people will say, "Is there
a way to do a knockout punch?
00:59:08.617 --> 00:59:12.119
"How do we really knock out
trafficking here in Houston?
00:59:12.119 --> 00:59:13.290
(bell dings)
"How do we knock out
00:59:13.290 --> 00:59:14.982
(bell dings)
"trafficking here in Texas,
00:59:14.982 --> 00:59:16.451
(bell dings)
"in the United States?"
00:59:16.451 --> 00:59:18.700
(bell dings)
00:59:18.700 --> 00:59:20.325
That's our clock.
00:59:20.325 --> 00:59:22.239
(laughter)
00:59:22.239 --> 00:59:23.980
(upbeat music)
00:59:23.980 --> 00:59:25.490
So saved by the bell.
00:59:36.630 --> 00:59:37.463
I'm often asked,
00:59:37.463 --> 00:59:40.257
"How do we knock out trafficking
in the United States?
00:59:40.257 --> 00:59:42.047
"What is the big knockout punch?"
00:59:45.280 --> 00:59:47.720
- I think we need to
think two ways about this,
00:59:47.720 --> 00:59:51.433
both in terms of individual
action and structural action.
00:59:52.320 --> 00:59:54.180
- It always feels difficult
00:59:54.180 --> 00:59:55.923
when you're in the midst of a fight.
00:59:57.240 --> 00:59:58.340
It's hard when you can't see
00:59:58.340 --> 00:59:59.780
the light at the end of the tunnel,
00:59:59.780 --> 01:00:02.572
but we just gotta keep moving
forward and be positive,
01:00:02.572 --> 01:00:04.730
and I think we can do it.
01:00:04.730 --> 01:00:07.640
- Unless we get together and
tell the world it's not okay,
01:00:07.640 --> 01:00:09.880
to tell the sex traffickers it's not okay,
01:00:09.880 --> 01:00:11.820
to tell the perverts it's not okay,
01:00:11.820 --> 01:00:13.950
to tell the pedophiles it's not okay,
01:00:13.950 --> 01:00:15.980
to tell the johns it's not okay,
01:00:15.980 --> 01:00:17.380
then it's gonna be okay.
01:00:17.380 --> 01:00:19.380
Everything's gonna be acceptable.
01:00:24.054 --> 01:00:28.554
("So Far Out" by Faded Paper Figures)
01:02:01.542 --> 01:02:02.653
- I think when we think
about specific things
01:02:02.653 --> 01:02:05.843
that we can do within
our community to stop,
01:02:07.750 --> 01:02:10.130
I think the idea of talking about this
01:02:10.130 --> 01:02:11.090
and letting people know
01:02:11.090 --> 01:02:14.310
that it's not just an international issue,
01:02:14.310 --> 01:02:16.160
that it's a domestic issue as well,
01:02:16.160 --> 01:02:19.230
I think that's important in
terms of growing this awareness.
01:02:19.230 --> 01:02:21.840
And letting people know where
trafficking is happening,
01:02:21.840 --> 01:02:26.720
and putting pressure on public
officials to change laws.
01:02:26.720 --> 01:02:28.860
There are plenty of examples of good laws,
01:02:28.860 --> 01:02:30.100
so you could find laws
01:02:30.100 --> 01:02:32.397
and you could bring them to
your public officials and say,
01:02:32.397 --> 01:02:34.760
"This needs to stop."
01:02:34.760 --> 01:02:37.890
- I don't know if we have any laws
01:02:37.890 --> 01:02:41.320
that actually protect women
from human trafficking,
01:02:41.320 --> 01:02:43.080
I know that we have plenty of laws
01:02:43.080 --> 01:02:47.120
that punish women for human trafficking.
01:02:47.120 --> 01:02:50.120
What I am beginning to see happen
01:02:50.120 --> 01:02:53.610
is legislation that is being passed
01:02:53.610 --> 01:02:57.460
that protects minors from trafficking.
01:02:57.460 --> 01:02:59.840
They very often become exempt
01:02:59.840 --> 01:03:02.130
from crimes they might've committed
01:03:03.860 --> 01:03:07.410
in the act of being trafficked.
01:03:07.410 --> 01:03:08.860
To what extent, however,
01:03:08.860 --> 01:03:12.260
those laws are enforced
is a different question.
01:03:12.260 --> 01:03:14.540
They look very good when
they're being drafted
01:03:14.540 --> 01:03:16.430
and signed in the state legislature,
01:03:16.430 --> 01:03:20.830
whether they trickle down all
the way to law enforcement
01:03:20.830 --> 01:03:21.950
is yet to be seen,
01:03:21.950 --> 01:03:24.510
but I think that is a start.
01:03:24.510 --> 01:03:26.653
- I think, also, in changing the culture.
01:03:27.730 --> 01:03:30.210
I think we've all known
young women who think,
01:03:30.210 --> 01:03:33.870
well, guys who go to strip
clubs, it's just what guys do,
01:03:33.870 --> 01:03:37.020
but I think guys and young
women alike need to be saying
01:03:37.020 --> 01:03:40.660
it's not what real guys do,
it's not what good guys do,
01:03:40.660 --> 01:03:42.100
because this is part of the problem.
01:03:42.100 --> 01:03:43.720
And we see these ties,
(slow music)
01:03:43.720 --> 01:03:46.710
there's a web between strip clubs,
01:03:46.710 --> 01:03:48.740
between sexually-oriented businesses
01:03:48.740 --> 01:03:51.170
and massage parlors and trafficking,
01:03:51.170 --> 01:03:53.070
and I think people need to understand
01:03:53.070 --> 01:03:54.420
this is all part of the web,
01:03:54.420 --> 01:03:56.660
and when we do one of these things,
01:03:56.660 --> 01:03:59.840
we're contributing to this
web of human trafficking.
01:03:59.840 --> 01:04:03.030
- As long as we see women as commodities
01:04:03.030 --> 01:04:04.860
that can be bought and sold,
01:04:04.860 --> 01:04:07.520
we will pay a price for sex.
01:04:07.520 --> 01:04:12.150
If we begin to see sex as
something that we cherish
01:04:12.150 --> 01:04:16.490
and that only happens consensually,
01:04:16.490 --> 01:04:19.260
then the demand would hopefully decrease.
01:04:19.260 --> 01:04:20.570
- Stop watching pornography,
01:04:20.570 --> 01:04:23.680
'cause pornography very directly
fuels human trafficking,
01:04:23.680 --> 01:04:26.740
and our generation,
especially, is porn-addicted,
01:04:26.740 --> 01:04:28.450
we watch it so much,
01:04:28.450 --> 01:04:30.660
and it directly fuels human trafficking.
01:04:30.660 --> 01:04:33.130
These girls, these men in pornography,
01:04:33.130 --> 01:04:35.550
lots of them have been sexually exploited.
01:04:35.550 --> 01:04:36.970
And it's a supply-and-demand thing,
01:04:36.970 --> 01:04:39.320
so as we continue to
demand more pornography,
01:04:39.320 --> 01:04:40.577
they're gonna have to supply more,
01:04:40.577 --> 01:04:43.770
and that involves sexually
exploiting more people.
01:04:43.770 --> 01:04:47.570
- We need to begin to also start
01:04:48.490 --> 01:04:52.850
punishing those that seek prostitution.
01:04:52.850 --> 01:04:56.130
We need to punish or criminalize
01:04:56.130 --> 01:04:59.980
the fact that men buying sex,
01:04:59.980 --> 01:05:02.420
and we need to criminalize the fact
01:05:02.420 --> 01:05:04.800
that men hire women out for sex.
01:05:04.800 --> 01:05:08.823
We need to empower girls to
feel strong about themselves,
01:05:09.850 --> 01:05:12.240
and I think whether it's sexual assault,
01:05:12.240 --> 01:05:13.590
whether it's trafficking,
01:05:13.590 --> 01:05:15.900
whether it's standing up
for yourself as an artist,
01:05:15.900 --> 01:05:18.143
or as a creator, or just as a girl,
01:05:19.760 --> 01:05:22.940
we need to raise strong girls
who believe in themselves
01:05:22.940 --> 01:05:25.320
and see their worth within themselves
01:05:25.320 --> 01:05:27.903
and not being given to them by others.
01:05:30.200 --> 01:05:32.100
- She had been put up in a room
01:05:32.100 --> 01:05:34.270
and had been performing sex acts
01:05:34.270 --> 01:05:36.470
that were set up not by her,
01:05:36.470 --> 01:05:38.010
but by the three individuals
01:05:38.010 --> 01:05:39.530
that were turning a commercial profit
01:05:39.530 --> 01:05:41.220
in this hotel right here.
01:05:41.220 --> 01:05:44.130
They found her sitting in the parking lot.
01:05:44.130 --> 01:05:46.330
So as you can see,
01:05:46.330 --> 01:05:48.820
this is occurring in our communities,
01:05:48.820 --> 01:05:50.063
right around the corner.
01:05:51.660 --> 01:05:54.900
- And then I think if you
really wanna get active,
01:05:54.900 --> 01:05:57.580
I think doing the
equivalent of these tours
01:05:57.580 --> 01:06:01.060
where you know where trafficking
is happening in your town.
01:06:01.060 --> 01:06:03.280
- Oh my gosh, I would
say go out and serve,
01:06:03.280 --> 01:06:04.720
that's the best experience.
01:06:04.720 --> 01:06:06.770
When I traveled with NightLight
01:06:06.770 --> 01:06:08.330
and I actually volunteered,
01:06:08.330 --> 01:06:09.570
I actually just stripped down
01:06:09.570 --> 01:06:11.260
and just was a fly on the wall
01:06:11.260 --> 01:06:12.950
and a source of love for these women,
01:06:12.950 --> 01:06:14.310
just going there, holding their hands,
01:06:14.310 --> 01:06:15.683
listening to their stories.
01:06:15.683 --> 01:06:18.840
What I love is that out
of seven billion people,
01:06:18.840 --> 01:06:21.560
so many people relate
differently to one another,
01:06:21.560 --> 01:06:23.030
but it takes you stepping out
01:06:23.030 --> 01:06:25.110
in order to connect with that person.
01:06:25.110 --> 01:06:26.940
Once you've felt the situation
01:06:26.940 --> 01:06:29.640
and you understand that there
is a need for your help,
01:06:30.530 --> 01:06:31.870
look at your circumference,
01:06:31.870 --> 01:06:33.530
like, what is your area of influence?
01:06:33.530 --> 01:06:35.150
Are you a blogger, are you a teacher,
01:06:35.150 --> 01:06:38.100
are you a musician, are
you an aspiring doctor?
01:06:38.100 --> 01:06:39.570
Whatever your area of influence is
01:06:39.570 --> 01:06:43.423
is the perfect voice to
help human trafficking.
01:06:45.650 --> 01:06:47.020
It might be writing a song
01:06:47.020 --> 01:06:51.190
and dedicating the
message or the proceeds,
01:06:51.190 --> 01:06:53.040
it might be, as a doctor,
01:06:53.040 --> 01:06:54.410
going out there to help the women
01:06:54.410 --> 01:06:57.160
who don't have that type
of help that they need,
01:06:57.160 --> 01:06:57.993
whatever it is,
01:06:57.993 --> 01:06:59.040
for me, it's a television host,
01:06:59.040 --> 01:07:01.230
it's lending my personality
01:07:01.230 --> 01:07:04.970
and my ability to emcee an
event and keep it light,
01:07:04.970 --> 01:07:07.660
and so it just depends on
your area of influence,
01:07:07.660 --> 01:07:09.060
but don't think that just because
01:07:09.060 --> 01:07:10.300
you don't have a bunch of money,
01:07:10.300 --> 01:07:12.720
or that you're not super
famous, that you can't help,
01:07:12.720 --> 01:07:15.140
everybody has an area of influence,
01:07:15.140 --> 01:07:17.660
you just have to really figure out
01:07:18.630 --> 01:07:21.490
how it would bless you most
01:07:21.490 --> 01:07:23.383
to make that impact that's needed.
01:08:01.915 --> 01:08:06.165
- Enough's enough.
(dramatic music)
01:08:12.104 --> 01:08:15.520
This "taboo" subject that's out there,
01:08:15.520 --> 01:08:16.570
how do we turn around
01:08:16.570 --> 01:08:21.443
and make it where it's
brought out into the light?
01:08:25.899 --> 01:08:29.540
And how do we make our
leaders, the decision makers,
01:08:29.540 --> 01:08:32.403
turn around and put people like myself,
01:08:33.710 --> 01:08:35.510
other agencies,
01:08:35.510 --> 01:08:37.750
use some of those resources to turn around
01:08:40.648 --> 01:08:42.193
and go after some of these folks?
01:08:49.990 --> 01:08:51.470
- If I get pissed off for your ills,
01:08:51.470 --> 01:08:53.700
and you can just be calm and
just walk in forgiveness,
01:08:53.700 --> 01:08:55.870
and I champion your cause,
01:08:55.870 --> 01:08:57.500
I actually think that's healthy.
01:08:57.500 --> 01:08:58.460
You know you've got someone
01:08:58.460 --> 01:09:01.120
standing up with you and for you.
01:09:01.120 --> 01:09:05.780
If I felt like someone was
standing for me and with me,
01:09:05.780 --> 01:09:08.140
then my rage actually decreases,
01:09:08.140 --> 01:09:10.620
I walk in calmness and forgiveness,
01:09:10.620 --> 01:09:14.013
because the consensus is
that this just isn't right.
01:09:15.160 --> 01:09:18.160
It's when you feel totally isolated,
01:09:18.160 --> 01:09:20.350
like no one really gives a shit,
01:09:20.350 --> 01:09:23.230
and somehow you've gotta
make your way in the world,
01:09:23.230 --> 01:09:25.590
because no one's hearing you on this.
01:09:25.590 --> 01:09:26.807
It is just not right,
01:09:26.807 --> 01:09:30.750
it's just not right to be
fucked in the ass by your father
01:09:30.750 --> 01:09:32.593
or his friends with tools,
01:09:33.510 --> 01:09:37.130
that is not a wholesome thing
for anyone to experience.
01:09:37.130 --> 01:09:40.080
And when there's just a total lack of rage
01:09:40.080 --> 01:09:42.023
over those sorts of topics,
01:09:43.100 --> 01:09:46.240
then rage becomes personified
on a personal level,
01:09:46.240 --> 01:09:49.000
but I think if there's
this sense of outcry
01:09:49.000 --> 01:09:52.050
that this stuff just isn't acceptable,
01:09:52.050 --> 01:09:53.860
then it can be that Gandhi march,
01:09:53.860 --> 01:09:55.740
it can be that Martin Luther King, Jr.,
01:09:55.740 --> 01:09:59.260
it can be that soft-walking
love of protest
01:09:59.260 --> 01:10:01.513
as opposed to the Malcolm X extremists.
01:10:09.530 --> 01:10:11.860
- If human spirit can prevail,
01:10:11.860 --> 01:10:15.377
it will be eradicated and it'll end.
01:10:15.377 --> 01:10:18.520
- All of the great historical
movements for social justice
01:10:18.520 --> 01:10:20.410
have been driven by young people.
01:10:20.410 --> 01:10:21.810
So young people have the energy,
01:10:21.810 --> 01:10:23.840
they have the passion,
and they have the time,
01:10:23.840 --> 01:10:25.340
also the creativity.
01:10:25.340 --> 01:10:27.330
Something happens when you get older,
01:10:27.330 --> 01:10:29.380
and you begin to become a little
bit more set in your ways,
01:10:29.380 --> 01:10:31.900
and thinking outside of the
box becomes more difficult.
01:10:31.900 --> 01:10:34.200
- I'm hoping that what we suffer now
01:10:34.200 --> 01:10:36.443
will be stopped in our time,
01:10:37.380 --> 01:10:40.963
and young people can take on the torch,
01:10:43.808 --> 01:10:46.540
and hoping that maybe the next generation
01:10:46.540 --> 01:10:48.090
can explore opportunity
01:10:48.090 --> 01:10:50.703
without the risks of
going sold and enslaved.
01:10:52.180 --> 01:10:55.610
- We don't have the finances
or the status in society
01:10:55.610 --> 01:10:56.870
to go make a big difference,
01:10:56.870 --> 01:10:58.510
but we shouldn't let that stop us.
01:10:58.510 --> 01:10:59.840
Just because we're super young
01:10:59.840 --> 01:11:01.860
or just because we don't
have a bunch of money
01:11:01.860 --> 01:11:03.340
doesn't mean there's nothing we can do.
01:11:03.340 --> 01:11:04.527
- I never stopped and thought,
01:11:04.527 --> 01:11:05.360
"You know what,
01:11:05.360 --> 01:11:07.460
"I'm not gonna say anything
because nobody's gonna listen,"
01:11:07.460 --> 01:11:09.820
I didn't care if somebody listened or not,
01:11:09.820 --> 01:11:12.367
I was like, "I'm gonna say
something because I'm upset,
01:11:12.367 --> 01:11:15.867
"and I'm mad, and I'm angry,
and things need to change,
01:11:15.867 --> 01:11:18.230
"and if I don't start to do it, who is?"
01:11:18.230 --> 01:11:19.470
So I think if millennials
01:11:19.470 --> 01:11:24.470
really think about what they want to do,
01:11:24.590 --> 01:11:26.483
there is nothing they can't do.
01:11:32.130 --> 01:11:34.240
- I, still to this day,
can't get rid of it.
01:11:34.240 --> 01:11:36.063
I'm 37 now, it's been 10 years,
01:11:37.088 --> 01:11:39.420
and when you really allow
your mind to go there,
01:11:39.420 --> 01:11:42.590
and you picture your children,
your sisters, your friends,
01:11:42.590 --> 01:11:46.590
in this case, my mom's neighbors,
01:11:46.590 --> 01:11:48.327
you can't just sit quiet.
01:11:48.327 --> 01:11:50.990
(speaks in foreign language)
01:11:50.990 --> 01:11:54.380
- I think we're at a really
opportune moment in history
01:11:54.380 --> 01:11:56.780
to make a difference around these issues,
01:11:56.780 --> 01:11:59.730
because as your film, I'm sure, will show,
01:11:59.730 --> 01:12:02.170
people all over the world are
becoming aware of the problem
01:12:02.170 --> 01:12:05.360
and want to make a change,
want to make a difference.
01:12:05.360 --> 01:12:07.823
That strength, in the
end, can move mountains.
01:12:09.210 --> 01:12:12.330
- I can tell you that the true life
01:12:12.330 --> 01:12:15.330
is when we discover our purpose in life
01:12:15.330 --> 01:12:19.000
and we open our arms,
01:12:19.000 --> 01:12:21.240
we open our hands,
01:12:21.240 --> 01:12:25.113
and we really want to
give our life to others.
01:12:32.786 --> 01:12:33.823
- Statistically,
01:12:36.150 --> 01:12:37.463
in your neighborhood,
01:12:38.970 --> 01:12:41.853
someone very close to you
is being sexually abused,
01:12:43.090 --> 01:12:46.950
and if you don't take responsibility
01:12:46.950 --> 01:12:50.610
and get actively involved
in doing something about it,
01:12:50.610 --> 01:12:52.823
then a little life will be broken.
01:12:54.950 --> 01:12:58.200
- There is something every
single one of us can do
01:12:58.200 --> 01:12:59.810
to help fight human trafficking.
01:12:59.810 --> 01:13:00.950
Just 'cause you aren't gonna give
01:13:00.950 --> 01:13:02.320
your entire life to fighting it
01:13:02.320 --> 01:13:04.043
doesn't mean you can't do something.
01:13:05.520 --> 01:13:10.020
- So, to those young people
that is watching this,
01:13:10.020 --> 01:13:13.180
I can tell you that to save a life,
01:13:13.180 --> 01:13:16.063
it's really to save our world.
01:13:17.430 --> 01:13:21.290
- It is very important
for us to raise our voice
01:13:21.290 --> 01:13:22.510
about a cause we believe in,
01:13:22.510 --> 01:13:26.130
because if we all just said
somebody else will handle it,
01:13:26.130 --> 01:13:29.677
or if we all just said,
"What am I gonna do?"
01:13:30.610 --> 01:13:33.120
nothing would ever happen,
nothing would ever get done.
01:13:33.120 --> 01:13:36.230
There are plenty of people who
were affected by something,
01:13:36.230 --> 01:13:37.147
touched by something, and said,
01:13:37.147 --> 01:13:39.130
"You know what, I'm gonna talk about it,"
01:13:39.130 --> 01:13:41.523
and because of that, change happens.
01:13:43.590 --> 01:13:44.690
- Strength in numbers.
01:13:45.700 --> 01:13:49.290
If you organize human beings
and you have one cause,
01:13:49.290 --> 01:13:51.530
you can influence the
world, influence society,
01:13:51.530 --> 01:13:54.430
but if you have 20 guys
01:13:54.430 --> 01:13:56.270
running around on their
own doing something,
01:13:56.270 --> 01:13:58.300
as opposed to getting
together and organizing,
01:13:58.300 --> 01:13:59.903
that's a big difference.
01:14:03.830 --> 01:14:05.380
- [John] I think it's too filtered,
01:14:05.380 --> 01:14:07.325
I think that's the problem
with the conversation.
01:14:07.325 --> 01:14:08.158
- [Sadhvi] Yep.
01:14:08.158 --> 01:14:09.820
- 'Cause people don't wanna talk about it.
01:14:09.820 --> 01:14:11.550
They don't wanna talk about it,
01:14:11.550 --> 01:14:12.820
they don't wanna talk about the fact
01:14:12.820 --> 01:14:17.820
that I put my tongue in my
mother's vagina at four,
01:14:17.910 --> 01:14:20.240
and no one wanted to have
a conversation about it,
01:14:20.240 --> 01:14:21.133
they still don't.
01:14:24.010 --> 01:14:24.860
I'm okay with it.
01:14:25.873 --> 01:14:27.040
But, what the hell, man,
01:14:27.040 --> 01:14:28.740
someone shouldn't be okay with it.
01:14:30.340 --> 01:14:31.830
I have to be okay with it
01:14:32.820 --> 01:14:33.940
because it's part of the journey,
01:14:33.940 --> 01:14:36.840
I can't get tied up in what that means,
01:14:36.840 --> 01:14:38.170
but it would be really nice
01:14:38.170 --> 01:14:40.417
if someone was pissed off on my behalf.
01:15:14.454 --> 01:15:19.454
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