The Reformist - A Female Imam
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After her own divorce, Sherin openly begins granting Islamic divorces to women unhappily married and performs inter-faith marriages of Muslim women and non-Muslim men. Having sacrificed her own marriage for the cause, Sherin wants to grant Muslim women the freedom to divorce and marry. But how do you break centuries of tradition from within a religion?
On this matter the new Mosque is divided. Should they work for their ideas in the shadows or in the public glare? Should they take baby steps or dare to do whatever it takes to achieve their own vision?
THE REFORMIST is a portrait of a fearless woman, who being the child of a Finnish mother and Syrian father, looks like no one's idea of an imam.
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Main credits
Skovgaard, Marie (film director)
Khankan, Sherin (on-screen participant)
Jack, Jesper (film producer)
Other credits
Cinematography, Marie Skovgaard, Matthias Nyholm Schmidt; editing, Rasmus Nyholm Schmidt; music, Philippe Boix-Vives.
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(phone rings)
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Sherin speaking.
As-salaam alaykum.
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Hello. I'm looking for someone
who can help me divorce my ex-husband.
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We officially divorced three years ago -
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- but I've since struggled to get
an Islamic divorce.
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Shortly after we got married,
he became violent.
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He started to beat me, to control me -
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- and he decided
when I could come and go.
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- I'm sorry to hear that.
- Right.
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I've visited several imams
who have rejected my request.
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Unfortunately, many male imams remove
that right from the marriage contract -
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- or they don't help women obtain
an Islamic divorce -
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- because, as in your case,
the husband refuses to divorce.
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Yes, they advised me several times
to go back and live my life with him.
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Right, but that's not an option when you
experience violence in your marriage.
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So you need an Islamic divorce -
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- so that you can have a new life
and move on with your life.
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- Exactly.
- Yes.
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(indicator clicks)
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My dream and vision is to start a mosque
with female imams, to recruit, train -
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- and educate a new generation
of female imams in Denmark.
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(traffic hums past)
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(car drives off)
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Women have to take the title,
because it will never be given to us.
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It isn't protected. If you lead prayer
or a congregation, you may be an imam.
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So I consider
the title of an imam as being -
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- a person,
a spiritual guide, a counsellor.
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And then, as more and more tasks
will fall on me in the mosque -
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- I will grow into my role,
if I'm good enough.
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Welcome, Sherin Khankan,
religion sociologist and writer.
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You're working on opening a mosque
for women with female imams.
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And welcome, Waseem Hussain,
Head of the Danish Islamic Centre.
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You can be Muslim, believe in the Quran
as the word of God -
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- and still have a reformatory approach
to its interpretation.
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Who decides
what you understand literally -
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- view as final and unchanging,
and what you should read metaphorically?
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It's not that one reading is wrong,
but that people read it wrong.
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(footsteps clicking)
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Can I ask you something? Do you think
the veil is mandatory, yes or no?
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Yes, I believe the veil is mandatory,
but I interpret the veil differently.
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- The veil to me is...
- An inner hijab?
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It is mandatory as it is for men to gaze
down when meeting women they don't know.
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You immediately turn to men and women,
every time.
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(laughing)
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- Yes, I do.
- Both immediately, every time.
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I have this family member
who couldn't care less about religion -
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- but then he said, "What's that
about female imams?" like it's bullshit.
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It's a statement, although he
doesn't care about practising religion.
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So my point is that,
to the majority of Muslims -
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- that's what it is. It's nonsense,
which you might already know.
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- I often say, "It's not a revolution."
- I disagree.
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It's going back to the source.
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You don't go back to the source,
you misunderstand it.
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I don't believe that. No.
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(birds tweet)
(dog barks)
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Imagine this: You have a mosque.
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One half is made up of people of colour.
The other half is white.
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They all walk in.
The white people sit in the main mosque.
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The people of colour sit on the balcony.
Only the white people can speak.
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We aren't talking about genders.
We're talking about black and white.
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The white people tell the black,
"You can all walk and teach freely -
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- you represent our congregation -
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- but you can't speak
at the lectern every Friday."
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"It's important. You can't do just that.
You have plenty of power and influence."
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If Allah and the Prophet say one thing,
we can't do something else.
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The Quran was written 1,400 years ago.
We can't change that.
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Does the Quran say
that only men can speak from there?
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No.
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We want to share a progressive,
spiritual interpretation of Islam -
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- where you reread the Quran in relation
to the society and times we live in -
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- where we give women
equal opportunities. That's the point.
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Hello, girls.
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- You did very well.
- Thank you.
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How about doing the khutbah speech
and leading prayer?
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Well, I'm thinking about
how I can contribute to the mosque.
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- Probably not like that...
- But you want to contribute?
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I would love to.
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- What are you studying?
- I study Marketing.
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We could definitely use
someone like you.
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(crows caw)
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We're starting an organisation
for Femimam...
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... and appointing a board -
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- and writing our manifest,
our articles.
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(laptop keys click)
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All the formalities.
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"Start volunteer organisation." Start.
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I'll say the word Hicham doesn't want me
to say: We need an Islamic reform.
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I'm just saying, we can end up
in more trouble than we...
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But it's called a reformation.
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The entire attempt
through the 17th and 18th century -
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- of modernising Islamic thinking
is called "the reform" in Arabic.
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- Islah.
- Did I use the word Islah?
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(computer pings)
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You did, and you specified
what it means in Arabic.
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That's what we talked about. If you talk
about reform, you need to be specific -
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- so it isn't the Western interpretation
of the reform.
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The purpose of the organisation.
"Our goal is to..."
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- It's to...
- "The purpose of the organisation..."
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- To establish a religious community?
- Well...
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To establish a forum for Danish Muslims.
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To establish female imams
is only part of it.
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- We need to...
- Establish a mosque?
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At the end of the day.
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(car hums along)
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"To establish a mosque
with a female, Muslim leadership"?
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Yes.
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- "To... give..."
- The forgotten women.
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"To give the forgotten women of Islam
their status back."
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Their rightful status,
which they should have had.
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"... women of Islam their status back."
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(quiet prayer)
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We need women to mobilise the same
as in any other area of education -
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- in Islamic subjects.
It's very important.
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But there is no reason to demand
that women therefore must become imams.
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You can be a lodestar and inspire men
and women without calling yourself imam.
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Okay. Let's hear
another question, please.
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I'd like to ask you what Muslim values
should be in the modern era?
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Okay. It's desirable at this time -
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- to dissociate ourselves
from the dogmatic approach -
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- and acknowledge that we're equal
and have equal opportunities.
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My role model Ibn Arabi tried to break with
this idea of rationalism within Islam -
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- where you try to conceive
of the Quran -
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- in terms of reason and logic alone.
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Ibn Arabi tries to devise
a methodology of the heart.
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He says, we also have to understand
the Quran with our hearts.
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Thank you.
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(applause)
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(people chatter)
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Thanks for now.
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You give evidence from the Quran
and distort it in your own favour.
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- The evidence is quite clear.
- No! You say women and men are equal.
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And therefore women should be imams?
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We need equal opportunities and rights -
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- which is why all you good men
should support female imams.
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Acceptance is one thing,
but it's not Islamically correct.
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Do you accept that men and women
have different duties -
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- that they're not the same,
that the man provides for the woman?
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- Just one question.
- Really? You've asked a hundred.
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It's 9:15 p.m.
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(dog barks)
(distant traffic)
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Today was clear proof
that you can't discuss Islam -
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- on your own terms.
They will always argue...
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... their interpretation of Islam
is the only one.
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I feel so trapped.
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Sitting in that lecture theatre,
I couldn't really be free.
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There's this atmosphere,
this consensus around...
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- It's a mental barrier.
- Yes, that encompasses everyone.
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It's like everybody is trapped.
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(car purrs along)
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I have always dreamt of a mosque
where I feel embraced and at home.
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My husband, my ex-husband,
supported the project -
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- but he didn't want his wife
to be an imam.
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So he gave me an ultimatum.
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I had to choose between my family
and my ambition with the mosque.
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To me, there was no choice.
It wasn't a choice.
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It would be like telling someone
not to think or dream.
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(kisses)
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(distant chatter)
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I'm on my way to see the new mosque.
As-salaam alaykum.
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I believe Mecca is at 150.
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- Is that right? This is south.
- Which way?
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I think it's... No, due south is there.
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So that way is more correct.
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- Would you take off your shoes?
- Sure, but I have to run.
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Bye.
There. Now it's ours.
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- It's so nice.
- We can teach here.
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- Right.
- Here's the mosque.
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- Isn't it great?
- It's more than I could have hoped for.
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Should I turn on the light?
And now look.
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(bell tower rings out)
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- Think good thoughts.
- I'm thinking...
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Couscous?
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(laughing)
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Did you just say that?
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- Quit it. I don't want it. Delete it.
- Can I see?
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- Come on.
- You laugh when you think of couscous.
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Go on, one more.
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There we go. That's it.
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We need to discuss views on fundamental
topics, including homosexuality -
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- gay marriage and interfaith marriage.
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I'm willing to perform gay marriages.
I mean...
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- But it's...
- Yes? But what?
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It's very hard for me to find
theological arguments -
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- in support of gay marriage.
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I have no shortage of humane, moral
arguments in support of gay marriage.
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So we should use those.
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You can't understand the Quran
based solely on logic and reason.
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If you do that, there will be paradoxes.
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We should debate it and consider -
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- whether it's advisable
for our community -
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- to go out with this issue
at this stage.
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It would create an outcry
at the start-up phase.
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I think we need to choose our battles.
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Don't start out by burning bridges.
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- Say your name slowly.
- Hicham Mouna.
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- Why did you join this mosque?
- Well, there's no single reason.
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One of the primary drivers is that
I'm looking for a mosque community -
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- with the same values
and interpretation of Islam as I have.
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I've been here from the very start,
because I support Sherin's project.
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You can't start this on your own.
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It's not just about women's religion.
It's also changing men's understanding -
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- of the faith that I subscribe to.
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- Sherin, please come.
- I talked to the newspaper Politiken.
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I told them that they made
a massive blunder -
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- in writing that we hide our address
out of fear for reprisals.
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We have to talk to the police about it.
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(vacuum cleaner whines)
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(drill whirs)
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"Based on the above-mentioned facts,
we ask for police assistance..."
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- Do you write it like this?
- No.
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"... police assistance at the mosque."
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But they shouldn't stand guard -
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- like they do at the synagogue.
I don't think that's necessary.
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- We'll discuss that later.
- As long as they're in the area.
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Sure.
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(people chatter in distance)
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(music plays)
(baby calls out)
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Our legitimacy ultimately depends
on whether people come to us.
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If people don't trust us,
we have no legitimacy.
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What do I say out loud,
and what do I recite in my head?
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The first thing is Allahu Akbar. Then
the Subhanaka is recited in private.
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You read al-hamdu lil-lahi out loud,
and then the Maliki and so on.
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That's very nice.
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And some here haven't been
to prayer before.
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- You should say everything out loud.
- Okay, then I'll prepare the...
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(hammering)
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Sherin is very quiet and
does things in the moment.
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I'm like, "We're going on TV, I need
to shower, and my shirt is wrinkled."
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She just sits there
with her book and her phone -
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- while I'm taking
after my sailor family.
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I'm swearing, cursing and smoking.
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And still, we both have a drive
that makes us want the same things.
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Yes.
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(laughing)
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(gentle music)
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Today, the Mariam Mosque becomes
the first mosque in Scandinavia to...
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History is written today
in Copenhagen when...
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... call to Friday prayer led by women,
for women for the first time in...
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TV 2 News just texted me.
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I saw you on TV this morning.
I think you're so cool.
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That's so great to hear.
What's your name?
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- I'm Keld.
- Let me tell you. It takes time.
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There are pastors in the Church of
Denmark who still oppose female pastors.
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- That's how it is.
- It's like The Fishermen.
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- From Jutland?
- Yes. The women had veils on.
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- The fishermen.
- That's Denmark for you.
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- That's how it is. Have a nice day.
- You too.
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I understand why you would want
a female imam -
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- but why must the congregation
be female? Couldn't it be mixed?
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It could, but if we did a Friday prayer
for both men and women -
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- it would be much more controversial.
We now have a firm theological basis.
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Three in four Islamic schools of thought
recognise female imams for women.
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And you're the woman leading the prayer,
Saliha Marie Fetteh. Good morning.
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- Good morning.
- What's your main message?
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It is that Muslim women aren't just -
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- a horde of oppressed individuals.
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We're also strong and educated women.
We've always been.
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I believe that whatever a Danish pastor
can do, a Muslim woman can too -
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- in the context of Islam.
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So it starts with...
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(car hums along)
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Remember to speak up.
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I'm stuck again.
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Scholars have done this for many years.
Praying at home is different.
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Didn't you practise this?
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- Well, I only pray to myself.
- Right.
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- You didn't practice doing it out loud?
- No, I didn't.
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It's my own fault, of course.
I didn't think about it.
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It's just something you do,
but when I open my mouth... You know?
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(gentle music)
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- It's like an exam.
- All right.
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How about you do the speech
and I lead the prayer?
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- Let's just say that.
- You'll do it next time.
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- I'm an amateur, so please forgive me.
- We both are. It will be all right.
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(leads the prayers)
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(soft music)
(recites quietly)
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(ping)
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(suspenseful music)
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(ping)
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(ping)
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00:29:28.308 --> 00:29:30.762
(ping)
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(ping)
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(distant chatter)
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If you could please tell me about your
life before you decided to run away.
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Before I ran away, it had been going on
for three to four years.
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- So you were roughly...
- 14 or 15.
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- So that's when it started?
- That's when it got serious.
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There were rumours
that I'd been with a lot of boys.
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My dad had beaten me before,
but not like this.
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- How did he beat you?
- He had a thick cane.
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I think he's broken two of them
while beating me.
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Besides that, he kicked and punched me -
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- and he pulled my hair a lot,
because I have long hair.
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At the end of September,
I actually heard my mom and dad talk -
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- about a date, guests and a dress.
It had something to do with a wedding.
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So I thought we were going to a wedding.
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- So you find out it's your wedding?
- Yes, after having asked my mum a lot.
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She says, "Actually, it's your wedding."
They arranged my wedding behind my back.
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I already had a boyfriend,
so I didn't know what to do.
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So you had a boyfriend,
and you were in love?
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So you've come here to have an
Islamic wedding, to put it behind you?
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I've contacted a lot of imams
who didn't want to do it.
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- Why did they reject you?
- Because my family won't participate.
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Based on what you've told me today,
I can perform an Islamic wedding.
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- You can?
- Yes.
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I'm very grateful. I'm so happy.
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Your father hasn't lived up
to his responsibilities.
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For me, Islam is servanthood.
That's the imams most important job -
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- to serve their community.
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If you can't understand and help
the people who come to you -
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- then you don't fulfil your role
as an "imama".
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- Fatima isn't coming.
- She's taking her driver's license.
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We should have prayer leader profiles,
like at that mosque in Los Angeles.
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- I think that's a good idea.
- Who here wants to be on the website?
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If we show our faces,
more people will follow.
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- Will you do it?
- Of course.
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- You will without the picture?
- Yes, to begin with.
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- And you? Without the picture?
- Yes.
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(distant traffic sounds)
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Hello.
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- You're going to the conference?
- I'm a speaker.
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- Just report your name.
- Thank you.
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(muted conversations)
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Islamism cannot be seen as one thing.
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I try to find a way to study dangerous
subjects in a less dangerous way.
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Let me take the example of Islamism.
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Because Islamism is seen as the greatest
threat to Western democracies.
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There are reformed Islamists,
radical Islamists and Jihadists -
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- who use violence as a method.
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If we know this, if we try to nuance the
debate, the threat is less of a threat.
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Thank you.
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(applause)
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I'm happy that you want to save all
Muslims around the world. What a relief!
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It's true that Christians have been
a threat on this planet historically -
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- but today the threat comes from Islam,
not from the Christians.
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I don't agree. That's propaganda.
I disagree.
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You encourage Muslims
and the Islamic propaganda -
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- to see themselves as victims.
We're the victims.
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- Bye-bye.
- Bye-bye.
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(suspenseful music)
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(muted chatter)
(footsteps)
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I was on the train, sitting across
from a young couple with children.
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He might have been from Somalia,
and she was of Asian descent.
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- And she was...
- Are you coming?
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... covered entirely in black.
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The only thing missing was the niqab.
He was wearing a long white dress.
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The whole train stared at them.
I feel sorry for their children.
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The boy was old enough to understand
that they were drawing attention.
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(footsteps)
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It's a pity. It really is.
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- It's a pitiful world we live in.
- Right, and that boy...
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I mean... I need some coffee now.
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Would you prepare the tea and coffee?
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00:36:41.294 --> 00:36:44.127
(doorbell chimes)
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In the Danish Islamic Centre,
there are... Was it three women?
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They're regulars. The rest are men.
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- Most women don't...
- You should be proud.
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There are many women here
compared to other places.
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- Where are they today?
- Maybe they're ill or at work.
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Right. Sure.
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(soft music)
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Oh, sweetie.
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Okay, so whose hand
will you be holding tonight?
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- Baba's.
- Okay.
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You'll be playing football tomorrow,
and I'll see you in the morning.
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00:38:21.734 --> 00:38:24.484
(dishes clatter)
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00:38:23.070 --> 00:38:26.160
- You want shawarma?
- Yes, please.
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00:38:26.200 --> 00:38:31.100
- Do you want the mushrooms?
- No, thank you.
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00:38:31.140 --> 00:38:34.130
You're eating my food?
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00:38:34.170 --> 00:38:39.240
- Don't you like this?
- Come over to your mum.
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Feminism is believing
men and women are equal.
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00:38:45.030 --> 00:38:49.030
And feminism is also going up
against the male majority -
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- and siding with women instead.
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How do you feel about me starting
a mosque with female imams?
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I think it's wonderful.
It's a great thing to do.
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But you shouldn't preach
without knowledge -
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- because when you go that far...
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When you go so far
as to create a new Islam -
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- it can create an anger -
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- because it's a new Islam,
so that no one accepts it.
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You believe in your project,
so that's what you should do -
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- but it demands great knowledge
about Islam.
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- You don't think I have the knowledge?
- You need to expand it.
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(children playing)
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00:39:52.376 --> 00:39:55.043
(gentle music)
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My father is Muslim
and a Syrian refugee.
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My mother is Christian
and an immigrant from Finland.
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My parents have always said
that love comes before dogmas -
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- that respect comes before love,
or rather that respect is love.
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Coming from a strong family
with a strong sense of love -
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- is extremely positive,
and it builds you up -
401
00:40:44.140 --> 00:40:50.090
- but at the same time
it's an eternal reminder that I failed.
402
00:40:57.050 --> 00:41:04.060
I'm starting to accept that you can have
a good family even after a divorce.
403
00:41:05.230 --> 00:41:12.060
It's the price I'm paying
for the fight I'm leading.
404
00:41:26.090 --> 00:41:33.080
The Quran states that a Muslim man
may marry a Jew or a Christian.
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00:41:33.120 --> 00:41:40.120
That is indisputable. It's how we see
Muslim men marrying Christian women.
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I'm a product of that.
My dad is a Muslim from Syria.
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00:41:44.120 --> 00:41:48.130
My mum is a Christian from Finland.
She's still Christian.
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00:41:49.170 --> 00:41:56.200
However, it doesn't state that a Muslim
woman can marry a Jew or a Christian -
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- but the Quran also doesn't state
that she can't.
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00:42:01.020 --> 00:42:07.230
The Quran does state that men and women
should marry people who believe in God.
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00:42:08.020 --> 00:42:12.200
That is what we can hold on to.
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00:42:22.150 --> 00:42:26.150
- I'll close the window.
- Yes.
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00:42:27.469 --> 00:42:28.006
(window clunks shut)
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00:42:28.060 --> 00:42:31.060
To put it briefly -
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- we want to be able to stay together
and get married.
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00:42:36.220 --> 00:42:44.010
But the problem with that is
that I'm Muslim and he's Catholic -
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- and most other imams
can't come to terms with that.
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So I was told
that it would never work out.
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- That's where we stand.
- Right.
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How much does having
an Islamic marriage mean to you?
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Enough that we won't stay together
if it's not going to happen.
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00:43:06.040 --> 00:43:09.130
- So it's very important to you?
- Yes, it is.
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00:43:09.170 --> 00:43:15.170
You need to understand
that this isn't conventional.
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What we do is unconventional.
425
00:43:19.130 --> 00:43:25.110
The consensus among Muslims, in the four
Sunni schools of jurisprudence -
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- is that a Muslim woman
can't marry a non-Muslim man.
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00:43:30.240 --> 00:43:36.170
So you need to be ready
and prepared for hostility.
428
00:43:36.210 --> 00:43:38.240
I've already experienced it.
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00:43:39.030 --> 00:43:44.180
People will say it's not legitimate,
that it's not possible -
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- that you're not rightfully married.
You will meet these kinds of resistance.
431
00:43:52.229 --> 00:43:55.021
(distant traffic sounds)
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00:43:55.210 --> 00:43:58.170
LOVE IS A HUMAN RIGHT
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BUT MANY OF OUR YOUNG
DON'T CHOOSE WHO THEY MARRY
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00:44:09.850 --> 00:44:12.517
(gentle music)
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00:44:30.190 --> 00:44:34.180
Peace be upon you.
God bless you and show you mercy.
436
00:44:36.000 --> 00:44:37.220
You both stand before me -
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00:44:38.010 --> 00:44:42.150
- not only marrying each other,
but also marrying -
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00:44:42.190 --> 00:44:48.240
- two newly united families
with all that this implies.
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00:44:49.030 --> 00:44:51.200
You are from different cultures -
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- but you share a bond of love
with each other and your creator.
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00:44:58.070 --> 00:45:03.020
I have seen marriages collapse
as people tried to change one another -
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00:45:03.060 --> 00:45:08.110
- or when they demanded and believed
their partner should make them happy.
443
00:45:08.150 --> 00:45:14.050
They shouldn't. We must all find
happiness, peace and love in ourselves.
444
00:45:13.618 --> 00:45:14.059
(gentle music)
445
00:45:14.590 --> 00:45:19.170
You show us all
that you see diversity as a blessing -
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- and a path to your own transformation.
447
00:45:36.230 --> 00:45:39.240
You're now married. Congratulations.
448
00:45:39.272 --> 00:00:00.000
(applause)
449
00:45:48.992 --> 00:45:50.222
(hens clucking)
450
00:45:50.222 --> 00:00:00.000
(dog barks)
(birds tweeting)
451
00:45:54.060 --> 00:45:57.190
I feel like I've travelled the world.
452
00:45:57.230 --> 00:46:01.080
- It feels like...
- She isn't here yet.
453
00:46:03.230 --> 00:46:07.070
I slept maybe four hours tonight.
454
00:46:09.020 --> 00:46:15.070
- Don't you think this is big?
- It hasn't really dawned on me yet.
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00:46:27.471 --> 00:46:30.054
(water gushes)
456
00:46:36.442 --> 00:46:35.023
(children play)
457
00:46:35.230 --> 00:46:40.150
- Three, two, one, go!
- Watch out, Halima.
458
00:46:45.348 --> 00:46:47.220
(child calls out)
459
00:46:47.220 --> 00:46:53.040
To me, the right to build our intimate
relationships is fundamental -
460
00:46:53.080 --> 00:46:57.100
- and it's the basis
of every other aspect of our lives.
461
00:46:57.140 --> 00:47:02.130
The odds of my daughters falling in love
with a non-Muslim is huge.
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00:47:02.170 --> 00:47:08.240
We live in Europe. So that's where
the revolution should begin.
463
00:47:14.635 --> 00:47:17.552
(children playing)
464
00:47:20.140 --> 00:47:26.100
In our group there are different opinions
on interfaith marriage.
465
00:47:26.140 --> 00:47:32.160
Some think it should be allowed, but
that we shouldn't discuss it publicly.
466
00:47:32.200 --> 00:47:37.170
But it's hard for me
not to speak about it openly.
467
00:47:38.831 --> 00:47:42.164
(vacuum cleaner whines)
468
00:47:44.240 --> 00:47:49.230
Some imams have warned women
against going to our mosque.
469
00:47:50.020 --> 00:47:53.140
- In Denmark?
- Yes.
470
00:47:58.000 --> 00:48:00.010
We have to deal with that as well.
471
00:48:00.010 --> 00:48:02.593
(phone rings)
472
00:48:02.593 --> 00:00:00.000
Someone's at the door.
473
00:48:03.190 --> 00:48:07.080
- Will someone open?
- Yes, they will.
474
00:48:08.747 --> 00:48:13.747
(prayer is sung)
(distant chatter)
475
00:48:41.697 --> 00:48:44.197
(soft music)
476
00:48:53.120 --> 00:48:58.080
Samira and Thomas are getting married
on the seventh of April.
477
00:48:58.120 --> 00:49:05.010
Another interfaith marriage. They
keep pouring in. Incredible, isn't it?
478
00:49:09.077 --> 00:49:11.021
(phone rings)
479
00:49:11.210 --> 00:49:16.020
- Hello, Christoffer.
- Christoffer is a journalist.
480
00:49:16.060 --> 00:49:22.050
He's doing a programme
on faith and society.
481
00:49:22.090 --> 00:49:25.120
- On what channel?
- Public radio, P1.
482
00:49:26.138 --> 00:00:00.000
(phone rings)
483
00:49:26.220 --> 00:49:32.210
Now I have a couples session
to talk about their upcoming wedding.
484
00:49:33.000 --> 00:49:34.200
Come in.
485
00:49:35.992 --> 00:49:38.825
(distant chatter)
486
00:49:40.140 --> 00:49:46.150
And then he asked them, "Why
did you choose to get married here?"
487
00:49:46.190 --> 00:49:53.100
So they told him, "It's the only place
we can marry. We've been searching."
488
00:49:53.140 --> 00:49:57.110
So he's recorded that
for the radio programme.
489
00:49:57.150 --> 00:50:01.010
Did they mention interfaith marriages?
490
00:50:01.050 --> 00:50:08.120
That was the theme. Later, they talked
about how special these marriages are.
491
00:50:08.160 --> 00:50:12.210
Then he asked Sherin if they
could talk about it on the radio.
492
00:50:13.000 --> 00:50:17.170
That will bring us another ten marriages
in a few days.
493
00:50:17.210 --> 00:50:23.040
I'm comfortable with it, but that's
because it's so natural to me.
494
00:50:23.080 --> 00:50:30.110
But it depends on whether it's a Muslim
man or a non-Muslim with a Muslim woman.
495
00:50:30.150 --> 00:50:32.240
They're interested in the latter.
496
00:50:33.030 --> 00:50:37.220
One strategy could be to not make it
so sensational, but just say -
497
00:50:38.010 --> 00:50:43.230
- that it's quite natural, that we
perform interfaith marriages both ways.
498
00:50:44.020 --> 00:50:48.180
I think we should discuss it
at the board meeting on Tuesday.
499
00:50:48.220 --> 00:50:51.030
- I think so.
- Let's do that.
500
00:50:51.003 --> 00:50:52.007
(bell tolls)
(car horn)
501
00:50:52.070 --> 00:50:56.190
I think it's too big
to just decide on it right now.
502
00:50:56.230 --> 00:51:00.070
Yes, you're right.
503
00:51:06.860 --> 00:51:08.777
(ping)
504
00:51:12.127 --> 00:51:14.044
(ping)
505
00:51:18.254 --> 00:51:20.921
(distant siren)
506
00:51:26.811 --> 00:51:29.561
(lively chatter)
507
00:51:27.020 --> 00:51:30.000
I'm sorry.
508
00:51:32.060 --> 00:51:36.090
- I'm being interviewed.
- Yes, come with me.
509
00:51:47.050 --> 00:51:50.200
They have been busy
since the mosque opened a year ago.
510
00:51:50.240 --> 00:51:57.170
They have Friday prayer, conversions,
marriages, counselling and much more.
511
00:51:57.210 --> 00:52:04.060
BBC has rated you one of the 100
most influential global female pioneers.
512
00:52:04.100 --> 00:52:07.220
- I'm grateful to have you here, Sherin.
- Thank you
513
00:52:08.010 --> 00:52:13.120
You're doing something new,
marriage between Muslims and Christians.
514
00:52:13.160 --> 00:52:18.060
We called some
of the Muslim communities -
515
00:52:18.100 --> 00:52:24.000
- and nobody wanted to talk about it
or be involved in it.
516
00:52:24.040 --> 00:52:30.230
It's about perspective. Few mosques
worldwide perform interfaith marriages -
517
00:52:31.020 --> 00:52:37.140
- but the Quran states men and women
should find partners who believe in God.
518
00:52:37.180 --> 00:52:40.150
It's the first time
you talk out about this.
519
00:52:40.190 --> 00:52:47.240
You've had your thoughts
about how to bring this to the public.
520
00:52:48.030 --> 00:52:51.070
What about the possible reactions?
521
00:52:51.110 --> 00:52:56.160
- I'll always focus on the positive.
- Right.
522
00:52:56.200 --> 00:53:00.130
When people ask me,
that's what I emphasise.
523
00:53:00.170 --> 00:53:05.040
- I wish you the best.
- Thank you.
524
00:53:11.677 --> 00:00:00.000
(airplane whines overhead)
525
00:53:19.568 --> 00:53:21.985
(ping, ping)
526
00:53:25.063 --> 00:53:26.980
(ping)
527
00:53:31.606 --> 00:53:34.736
(gentle music)
(traffic hisses)
528
00:53:34.736 --> 00:53:36.653
(ping)
529
00:53:49.377 --> 00:53:52.710
(Muslim call to prayer)
530
00:54:07.378 --> 00:54:09.295
(ping)
531
00:54:19.250 --> 00:54:21.833
(water hisses)
532
00:54:28.070 --> 00:54:32.210
"Sherin Khankan,
you've violated every rule of Islam."
533
00:54:33.000 --> 00:54:40.060
"Now you make an unlawful misstatement,
something Allah has prohibited."
534
00:54:40.100 --> 00:54:46.210
"You should know Allah's resentment
and fear his punishment -
535
00:54:47.000 --> 00:54:51.170
- if you do not retract
your statements and deeds."
536
00:54:51.210 --> 00:54:59.030
"If I were you, I would return to Islam
and do the tawbah before it's too late."
537
00:55:03.200 --> 00:55:05.022
Okay.
538
00:55:12.170 --> 00:55:17.010
Something's going on in our group.
539
00:54:29.260 --> 00:54:33.093
(speaks in foreign language)
540
00:55:17.801 --> 00:55:19.718
(ping)
541
00:55:40.130 --> 00:55:45.190
I'm trying to figure out
what I'm doing wrong.
542
00:55:45.230 --> 00:55:53.000
Sometimes, it all happens so fast.
I have a thought, and I run with it.
543
00:55:53.040 --> 00:55:56.110
I forget to include others.
544
00:55:56.150 --> 00:56:02.210
I need to work on including everyone
and be a better listener.
545
00:56:03.000 --> 00:56:09.180
I think that's it.
I just have to put it into words.
546
00:56:33.962 --> 00:56:37.018
(gentle murmuring)
547
00:56:37.180 --> 00:56:44.020
We believe that this is not only about
Islamic feminism. It's about knowledge.
548
00:56:44.060 --> 00:56:48.040
The one with knowledge
can disseminate the Islamic message.
549
00:56:48.080 --> 00:56:51.120
What does it mean to have
female imams in the mosque?
550
00:56:51.160 --> 00:56:55.180
It has meaning. What happens
in the mosque goes beyond it.
551
00:56:55.220 --> 00:57:02.180
It affects family structures, it affects
societies and also the interpretation.
552
00:57:02.220 --> 00:57:04.240
Thank you so much.
553
00:57:04.024 --> 00:57:07.279
(applause)
554
00:57:08.200 --> 00:57:12.070
I just want to say something
about what Sherin said.
555
00:57:12.110 --> 00:57:15.080
Why must Sherin justify her existence?
556
00:57:15.120 --> 00:57:22.010
Why must women explain why they want to
be something besides a mother or wife?
557
00:57:22.050 --> 00:57:27.100
People saying we're equal means nothing
if women have to spend this long -
558
00:57:27.140 --> 00:57:29.190
- justifying what they do.
559
00:57:31.003 --> 00:57:33.586
(alarm sounds)
560
00:57:35.190 --> 00:57:40.160
So now it's on the social media -
561
00:57:40.200 --> 00:57:44.070
- and our board is very ambivalent.
562
00:57:44.110 --> 00:57:49.090
- Some of them are very angry with me.
- Because you talked about it?
563
00:57:49.130 --> 00:57:53.200
Yes, because they said we needed
a strategy, we needed to be ready.
564
00:57:53.240 --> 00:57:58.160
- We agreed we wouldn't go out with it.
- It would come out at some point.
565
00:57:58.200 --> 00:58:03.200
But I get that you would need a strategy
to deal with people's reactions.
566
00:58:03.240 --> 00:58:09.100
So you wouldn't be concerned
with the comments on social media?
567
00:58:09.140 --> 00:58:14.190
There are 17,000 emails sent to me,
calling for me to be sacked.
568
00:58:14.230 --> 00:58:17.240
- Why?
- Because of who I was.
569
00:58:18.030 --> 00:58:21.020
A Muslim man with influence and power.
570
00:58:21.060 --> 00:58:24.120
- Was that the right wing?
- It was all the right wing.
571
00:58:24.160 --> 00:58:30.030
If you listen to the people who have
no justification for what they say -
572
00:58:30.070 --> 00:58:37.020
- then you're not going to be able
to do your job. So close your ears.
573
00:58:38.624 --> 00:58:41.041
(soft music)
574
00:58:51.905 --> 00:58:54.778
(wings flap gently by)
575
00:58:54.778 --> 00:58:56.695
(ping)
576
00:59:18.070 --> 00:59:23.040
I couldn't sleep at all after reading
the message from Saliha.
577
00:59:23.080 --> 00:59:27.180
It really got to me, honestly.
578
00:59:27.431 --> 00:59:36.018
(switches click)
(door unlocks)
579
00:59:36.180 --> 00:59:41.220
Who would like to begin?
Do you want to begin Hicham?
580
00:59:42.010 --> 00:59:47.200
- Where from?
- All that has happened since last time.
581
00:59:49.210 --> 00:59:56.210
I don't know what to say. I haven't had
any issues with interfaith marriages.
582
00:59:57.000 --> 01:00:02.210
I know there are different opinions,
both religious and personal opinions.
583
01:00:03.000 --> 01:00:07.200
The issue is that we agree on something,
and then people do as they please.
584
01:00:07.240 --> 01:00:13.070
If that doesn't change,
then I quit right now. I'm tired.
585
01:00:13.110 --> 01:00:17.010
I've had mixed feelings
about keeping it secret.
586
01:00:17.050 --> 01:00:22.030
It bothers me to do something
that I can't talk about.
587
01:00:22.070 --> 01:00:28.249
So I've been waiting for others
to be ready to put this out there.
588
01:00:29.030 --> 01:00:35.180
And that's no excuse. I'm just trying
to explain how it came to this.
589
01:00:35.220 --> 01:00:41.240
When we have these sensitive topics,
even if we agree on them internally -
590
01:00:42.030 --> 01:00:46.180
- we hold meetings, make a plan.
It's as simple as that.
591
01:00:46.220 --> 01:00:50.140
It's not that complicated.
That's all I want.
592
01:00:50.180 --> 01:00:54.140
We agreed on this a week ago.
We were sitting out there.
593
01:00:54.180 --> 01:00:59.160
We agreed that we couldn't make
a decision before the meeting.
594
01:00:59.200 --> 01:01:06.180
Five days later, I see it on the news.
That's not all right.
595
01:01:06.220 --> 01:01:13.050
I don't want that, no matter whether
we have the right arguments or not.
`
01:01:31.238 --> 01:01:33.738
(soft music)
596
01:01:13.090 --> 01:01:20.160
The problem is that we're not acting
like a community.
597
01:01:36.983 --> 00:00:00.000
(dog barks)
(far off traffic hums)
598
01:01:46.558 --> 01:01:49.966
(whistle blows)
(general hubbub)
599
01:01:49.966 --> 01:01:52.716
(people talking)
600
01:01:53.110 --> 01:01:57.030
Here. Take this please.
601
01:02:00.312 --> 01:02:01.001
(excited chatter)
602
01:02:01.010 --> 01:02:03.180
- Quit it, honey.
- Give it to me!
603
01:02:03.220 --> 01:02:07.080
- Why?
- Because it's too much.
604
01:02:07.120 --> 01:02:10.190
Would you like to read
my speech out loud?
605
01:02:10.230 --> 01:02:17.060
"We all long to be part of a community."
606
01:02:17.100 --> 01:02:23.010
- "It is the highest..." What's that?
- Longing.
607
01:02:23.050 --> 01:02:26.060
"The story of the family.
The family is..."
608
01:02:25.000 --> 01:02:26.010
(gentle music) (train hums)
609
01:02:26.100 --> 01:02:31.050
- When there's a full stop, you pause.
- I know, Mum.
610
01:02:31.090 --> 01:02:33.170
- "The family..."
- I know, Mum!
611
01:02:33.210 --> 01:02:38.150
- "The family is our earliest..."
- Memory.
612
01:02:38.190 --> 01:02:45.060
"... and the most important experience
of community."
613
01:02:53.070 --> 01:02:57.040
Many see marriage as a test from Allah -
614
01:02:57.080 --> 01:03:02.090
- but it isn't for God to know us.
It is for us to know ourselves.
615
01:03:02.130 --> 01:03:06.180
If we do wrong by our partner,
we must seek forgiveness from them -
616
01:03:06.220 --> 01:03:09.040
- not from Allah.
617
01:03:09.080 --> 01:03:16.150
The path to Allah shows itself when we
come together in commitment and trust -
618
01:03:16.190 --> 01:03:20.180
- and not least
when we trust in ourselves.
619
01:03:20.220 --> 01:03:26.110
For when we hurt others,
we hurt ourselves even more.
620
01:03:27.230 --> 01:03:33.050
I hereby pronounce you husband and wife.
621
01:03:38.000 --> 01:03:41.000
To be loved unconditionally...
622
01:03:41.040 --> 01:03:47.110
I've experienced that with my parents,
but never in a marriage.
623
01:03:48.220 --> 01:03:53.020
Unconditional love...
624
01:03:56.050 --> 01:04:00.060
... where you can be your true self -
625
01:04:00.100 --> 01:04:06.120
- and be valued for who you are.
626
01:04:06.160 --> 01:04:12.170
I've always had to balance things -
627
01:04:12.210 --> 01:04:17.060
- and unite things
that were impossible to unite.
628
01:04:17.100 --> 01:04:21.170
But that's my karma.
629
01:04:21.170 --> 01:04:23.080
(knock on door)
630
01:04:23.080 --> 01:04:25.100
- Come in.
- May I come in?
631
01:04:25.140 --> 01:04:27.160
Yes.
632
01:04:42.472 --> 00:00:00.000
(water laps gently)
633
01:04:48.857 --> 01:04:51.524
(gentle music)
634
01:05:04.575 --> 01:05:07.325
(slow footsteps)
635
01:05:09.123 --> 01:05:12.040
(birds fluttering)
636
01:05:16.070 --> 01:05:19.000
I'm divorced now in Sweden.
637
01:05:19.040 --> 01:05:21.160
- You're divorced under Swedish law?
- Yes.
638
01:05:21.200 --> 01:05:27.090
I also want to be separated
under Islamic law.
639
01:05:27.130 --> 01:05:31.080
- You're married according to Islam?
- Yes.
640
01:05:31.120 --> 01:05:36.160
I called to get help
from an imam in Sweden.
641
01:05:36.200 --> 01:05:43.090
I called him, and he said to me,
"I'm sorry. I can't do anything."
642
01:05:43.130 --> 01:05:50.040
"Your ex-husband should come here
and give you permission."
643
01:05:50.080 --> 01:05:57.090
But then I talked to him,
and he absolutely refused.
644
01:05:57.130 --> 01:05:59.160
- Your husband refused?
- Yes.
645
01:05:59.200 --> 01:06:04.200
- Was there violence in your marriage?
- In the last part, yes.
646
01:06:04.240 --> 01:06:09.040
- Physical violence, or mental violence?
- Both of those.
647
01:06:09.080 --> 01:06:13.070
For how many years?
648
01:06:13.110 --> 01:06:19.040
Physically,
for about the last two years.
649
01:06:19.080 --> 01:06:23.240
And...
650
01:06:24.030 --> 01:06:28.170
- Do you have children?
- I have four children with him.
651
01:06:28.210 --> 01:06:35.100
I actually took
anti-depressive tablets.
652
01:06:36.330 --> 00:00:00.000
(distant chatter)
653
01:06:40.160 --> 01:06:47.230
We made a contract that gives women the
right to divorce, prohibits polygamy.
654
01:06:48.020 --> 01:06:52.200
In cases of psychological or physical
abuse, the marriage is annulled.
655
01:06:52.240 --> 01:06:59.090
And in case of a divorce, the woman
has equal rights to the children.
656
01:06:59.130 --> 01:07:04.100
The reality is that some women
can't obtain an Islamic divorce.
657
01:07:04.140 --> 01:07:09.080
They can have a lawful divorce and still
be mentally bound to their marriage -
658
01:07:09.120 --> 01:07:14.040
- because no imam in Denmark
will give them a divorce.
659
01:07:14.080 --> 01:07:19.170
That is now possible. The Mariam Mosque
has already provided four divorces.
660
01:07:19.210 --> 01:07:22.090
Thank you.
661
00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.000
(applause) (cheers)
662
00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.000
(dogs bark)
663
00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.000
(ping)
664
00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.000
(distant traffic passes)
665
00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.000
So the question is,
where do we go from here?
666
01:08:06.130 --> 01:08:11.030
I just want to add
that I'm not trying to blame anyone.
667
01:08:11.070 --> 01:08:17.180
We have our differences, Sherin. We've
worked well together and had arguments.
668
01:08:17.220 --> 01:08:22.170
I just don't feel
I can do this any longer.
669
01:08:33.729 --> 01:08:36.562
(car hums softly)
670
01:08:40.743 --> 01:08:43.410
(gentle music)
671
01:09:10.100 --> 01:09:14.140
It's really difficult
for me to talk about.
672
01:09:14.180 --> 01:09:19.170
To be left alone. It's really heavy.
673
01:09:19.210 --> 01:09:23.060
Back to the beginning.
674
01:09:27.020 --> 01:09:32.140
Can we take a break?
Let's take a break.
675
01:10:15.040 --> 01:10:18.210
I'm here today to share with you -
676
01:10:19.000 --> 01:10:26.100
- the story of the making
of the Mariam Mosque in Denmark.
677
01:10:31.212 --> 01:10:33.010
(people chatter)
678
01:10:33.100 --> 01:10:37.040
I don't believe there is
any kind of definitive God's law.
679
01:10:37.080 --> 01:10:43.130
I believe, instead, that we're in
a constant relationship with our Lord -
680
01:10:43.170 --> 01:10:49.210
- and that we have to understand
how best to be and surrender to Allah.
681
01:10:50.000 --> 01:10:53.090
We must do that
in the context of communities -
682
01:10:53.130 --> 01:10:58.030
- which means that, at times,
there will be differences of opinion.
683
01:10:57.350 --> 01:10:59.600
(applause)
684
01:11:00.180 --> 01:11:07.220
As-salaam alaykum.
Thank you so much for inviting me.
685
01:11:08.010 --> 01:11:15.020
In Denmark, along with a group
of Muslims, I founded the Mariam Mosque.
686
01:11:15.060 --> 01:11:20.100
It's very hard to talk about,
because some of the women -
687
01:11:20.140 --> 01:11:23.160
- and some former female imams
left the mosque -
688
01:11:23.200 --> 01:11:29.150
- because they were against
the interfaith marriages I've conducted.
689
01:11:29.190 --> 01:11:34.020
Some of them told me, "You promised us
that you would not go this far -
690
01:11:34.060 --> 01:11:38.020
- that you would not burn any bridges."
It was like our slogan.
691
01:11:38.060 --> 01:11:44.060
So it's a very, very tough decision
to carry on and to...
692
01:11:45.210 --> 01:11:51.060
... hold on to the idea, to the vision,
to the work and to the activism.
693
01:11:51.100 --> 01:11:53.240
Thank you.
694
01:11:53.364 --> 01:11:58.308
(applause)
(soft music)
695
01:11:58.308 --> 01:12:01.308
(cars whooshing by)
696
01:12:02.745 --> 01:12:06.328
(motorbike engine putters)
697
01:12:11.040 --> 01:12:18.040
Last time I was in Berkeley, I was in
love with your dad. I had just met him.
698
01:12:18.080 --> 01:12:22.170
So I bought my wedding dress
here in Berkeley.
699
01:12:38.060 --> 01:12:41.240
What are you doing?
700
01:12:49.719 --> 01:12:52.386
(gentle music)
701
01:13:08.484 --> 01:13:11.484
(band marches past)
702
01:13:16.090 --> 01:13:22.040
We're going to have a board meeting,
because we're going to make a new board.
703
01:13:22.080 --> 01:13:29.100
So everybody has the opportunity to
sign up for the board, if you want to.
704
01:13:29.140 --> 01:13:32.200
I think it's very important
to discuss it through -
705
01:13:32.240 --> 01:13:36.200
- so everybody knows
what the Mariam Mosque is about.
706
01:13:36.240 --> 01:13:41.030
So you also have the chance
to leave if you disagree -
707
01:13:41.070 --> 01:13:44.210
- and to be sure
that you know what you go into.
708
01:13:46.080 --> 01:13:52.230
And the first thing is that we
want to build up an Islamic community -
709
01:13:53.020 --> 01:13:57.130
- based on the spiritual path
called Sufism.
710
01:13:57.170 --> 01:14:01.180
- So we all agree on that?
- Yes.
711
01:14:01.220 --> 01:14:08.210
Then there's the question of interfaith
marriages, which is very controversial.
712
01:14:09.000 --> 01:14:14.180
In our former board, we had
different opinions about this topic.
713
01:14:19.230 --> 01:14:24.200
- I'm so happy to be here.
- Please don't ever leave the mosque.
714
01:14:24.240 --> 01:14:28.050
- No.
- You can't leave.
715
01:14:28.090 --> 01:14:34.140
- I know what I'm in for, Sherin.
- That's good.
716
01:14:36.098 --> 01:14:38.848
(birds tweeting)
717
01:14:48.240 --> 01:14:53.000
- What's this place going to be like?
- The Mariam Mosque.
718
01:14:53.040 --> 01:15:00.000
There are two scenarios,
the way I see it. One isn't good.
719
01:15:00.040 --> 01:15:06.150
It's that the Mariam Mosque is
a representation of Sherin Khankan.
720
01:15:06.190 --> 01:15:12.200
The other scenario will be able to last.
There will be a board -
721
01:15:12.240 --> 01:15:18.210
- that may also talk publicly
about various issues.
722
01:15:20.050 --> 01:15:25.180
It should be able to stand on its own.
723
01:15:25.220 --> 01:15:31.020
Because right now,
it's just you cradling it.
724
01:15:31.958 --> 01:15:34.291
(chuckling)
725
01:15:35.632 --> 01:15:38.882
(distant traffic hums)
726
01:15:55.256 --> 01:15:58.506
(train rumbles softly)
727
01:16:01.100 --> 01:16:05.180
Abdel has contacted me again -
728
01:16:05.220 --> 01:16:09.130
- and asked me
if I would officiate their wedding.
729
01:16:09.170 --> 01:16:13.030
- Right.
- What do you think?
730
01:16:13.070 --> 01:16:18.050
I have mixed feelings about it.
I wrote to him -
731
01:16:18.090 --> 01:16:23.020
- that I would love to do it,
and that I support it -
732
01:16:23.060 --> 01:16:27.080
- but that it's a question
of how many battles we can shoulder.
733
01:16:27.120 --> 01:16:29.140
Right.
734
01:16:29.180 --> 01:16:34.090
- What do you think?
- I agree, especially on that last part.
735
01:16:34.130 --> 01:16:41.200
And then I thought, someone has to take
the first step and show support.
736
01:16:41.240 --> 01:16:46.020
- But can you...
- But I don't have enough knowledge.
737
01:16:46.060 --> 01:16:49.130
- That's the point.
- I don't have theological...
738
01:16:49.170 --> 01:16:53.070
- This is very emotional.
- Yes, it's pure emotion.
739
01:16:53.110 --> 01:16:57.040
- I don't have the knowledge.
- And I respect that.
740
01:16:57.080 --> 01:17:04.090
But you're speaking on behalf
of a religious community.
741
01:17:04.130 --> 01:17:09.060
So you can't just say,
"I feel very strongly about this."
742
01:17:09.100 --> 01:17:12.140
You can't even tell the board that.
743
01:17:12.180 --> 01:17:16.180
When in a community,
you have to consider that community.
744
01:17:16.220 --> 01:17:21.180
Yes, because it's tough -
745
01:17:21.220 --> 01:17:26.080
- to provide theological backing
for such a decision -
746
01:17:26.120 --> 01:17:31.230
- to say that there's Islamic evidence
in support of gay marriage.
747
01:17:32.020 --> 01:17:39.090
But it's hard to turn someone down.
It's different when there's no request.
748
01:17:39.130 --> 01:17:42.080
It's hard.
749
01:17:45.689 --> 01:17:48.689
(people chattering)
750
01:17:49.414 --> 01:17:50.018
(door squeaks)
751
01:17:50.180 --> 01:17:54.090
- Hello. How are you doing?
- Fine. Welcome.
752
01:17:54.130 --> 01:17:58.030
- I haven't been here before.
- It's your first time?
753
01:17:58.070 --> 01:18:03.170
Thank you for putting your trust in me
and for contacting me at all.
754
01:18:03.210 --> 01:18:08.240
I'm sorry I can't perform
a traditional Islamic marriage.
755
01:18:09.030 --> 01:18:12.240
That's just how it is,
and I'm very sorry.
756
01:18:13.030 --> 01:18:19.180
There's a momentum, there's a desire,
but no one wants to lead.
757
01:18:19.220 --> 01:18:26.000
- I want to, but I can't.
- But people don't dare to support you.
758
01:18:26.040 --> 01:18:31.020
- I would become a street imam.
- Yes. That's not my decision.
759
01:18:31.060 --> 01:18:34.110
No. I've thought about it.
760
01:18:34.150 --> 01:18:38.180
Just so you know
where I stand personally -
761
01:18:38.220 --> 01:18:43.040
- and what I would like to see.
762
01:18:43.080 --> 01:18:49.040
But for me, right now, it's important
that I have my mosque on my side.
763
01:18:49.080 --> 01:18:53.080
Last year, I lost four women.
764
01:18:53.120 --> 01:18:57.080
I've been on my own,
and now we're trying to rebuild.
765
01:19:07.070 --> 01:19:11.090
I feel like a coward.
766
01:19:11.130 --> 01:19:16.220
- In what way?
- In that I can't perform a marriage.
767
01:19:19.030 --> 01:19:20.230
Right.
768
01:19:22.438 --> 01:19:25.105
(gentle music)
769
01:19:31.483 --> 01:19:34.816
(car indicator ticking)
770
01:20:02.982 --> 01:20:05.565
(gulls crying)
771
01:20:17.080 --> 01:20:22.200
I started out by saying we shouldn't
burn bridges. I said it again and again.
772
01:19:22.438 --> 01:19:25.105
(gentle music)
773
01:20:22.240 --> 01:20:27.070
That's impossible
if you want to create change.
774
01:20:28.132 --> 01:20:32.465
(applause)
(cheers)
775
01:20:39.120 --> 01:20:43.220
Dear Abdel Aziz, dear Andreas.
776
01:20:45.000 --> 01:20:50.150
When we form relations with people and
communities, we put ourselves at risk.
777
01:20:50.190 --> 01:20:55.100
We risk getting hurt and abandoned.
We risk love and loss.
778
01:20:55.140 --> 01:20:59.000
This is the risk of life.
779
01:20:59.040 --> 01:21:05.120
We must distinguish between anxiety that
makes us sick, that we may challenge -
780
01:21:05.160 --> 01:21:12.030
- and the existential anxiety,
which will always be a part of us.
781
01:21:12.070 --> 01:21:19.140
For instance, the fear of losing,
failing or expulsion from communities.
782
01:21:19.180 --> 01:21:26.130
Community and care for one another
are central in Christianity and Islam.
783
01:21:26.170 --> 01:21:31.120
When you marry, it's the first time
you choose your own family.
784
01:21:31.160 --> 01:21:37.000
Everything begins with family,
and family is in truth a lottery.
785
01:21:37.040 --> 01:21:43.110
We don't choose our first family,
but we choose the family we create.
786
01:21:52.694 --> 01:21:56.628
(cheers)
(applause)
787
01:21:56.628 --> 01:22:00.332
(gentle music)
788
01:22:00.332 --> 01:22:04.250
(cheers)
(applause)
789
01:22:04.250 --> 01:22:06.583
(whistling)
790
01:22:44.787 --> 01:22:47.704
(gentle murmuring)
791
01:22:48.980 --> 01:22:52.313
(vacuum cleaner whines)
792
01:23:01.638 --> 01:23:04.638
(passing footsteps)
793
01:23:09.150 --> 01:23:12.170
- What do you think?
- Sounds good.
794
01:23:12.210 --> 01:23:16.010
- I have...
- Hi there.
795
01:23:16.050 --> 01:23:19.190
Hi. I have my last exam
on the 17th of January.
796
01:23:24.220 --> 01:23:28.120
I just want to say thank you
to everyone for this year.
797
01:23:28.160 --> 01:23:34.050
I'm very grateful for our team
and what we have accomplished together.
798
01:23:34.090 --> 01:23:37.100
So I just want to say thank you.
799
01:23:39.050 --> 01:23:45.040
Actually, we also have to announce that
we have two female imams in the mosque -
800
01:23:45.080 --> 01:23:48.339
- because Aliah took the title upon her.
801
01:23:48.339 --> 01:23:50.397
(applause)
802
01:23:50.397 --> 01:23:52.730
(laughing)
803
01:23:53.240 --> 01:23:58.060
It's more of a humbling experience,
just to be of service -
804
01:23:58.100 --> 01:24:04.090
- because I never thought I would get
the chance to lead prayer in a mosque.
805
01:24:57.453 --> 01:25:00.036
(sings prayer)
806
01:24:47.160 --> 01:24:52.090
So you're standing here, in the middle,
and we will stand here beside you.
807
01:24:57.453 --> 01:25:00.036
(sings prayer)
808
01:25:18.060 --> 01:25:22.120
The last part is so beautiful.
How was it?
809
01:25:22.160 --> 01:25:29.180
Okay, but when we go on to saying
Allahu Akbar, do I say that out loud?
810
01:25:29.220 --> 01:25:33.040
Yeah, you can say it out loud
if you want to.
811
01:25:33.080 --> 01:25:36.170
Every time you say something loud,
say it loud.
812
01:26:10.746 --> 01:26:13.663
(inspiring music)
Distributor: First Hand Films
Length: 88 minutes
Date: 2019
Genre: Expository
Language: Danish; English; Swedish; Arabic / English subtitles
Grade: College, Adults
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