My Feminism
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MY FEMINISM is a critically important look at second wave feminism in the 1990’s, a time rife with anti-feminist backlash. Powerful interviews with feminist leaders including bell hooks, Gloria Steinem, and Urvsahi Vaid are intercut with documentary sequences to engagingly explore the past and present and future status of the women's movement. Discussing the unique contributions of second wave feminism, they explore their racial, economic and ideological differences and shared vision of achieving equality for women. An essential component of women's studies curricula, MY FEMINISM introduces feminism's key themes while exposing the cultural fears underlying the lesbian baiting, backlash, and political extremism which informed feminist dialogues in the 90’s, some of which continues to this day.
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Main credits
Cardona, Dominique (film director)
Colbert, Laurie (film director)
Colbert, Laurie (film producer)
Becker, Mary (interviewee (expression))
Butalia, Urvashi (interviewee (expression))
hooks, bell (interviewee (expression))
Rebick, Judy (interviewee (expression))
Smyth, Ailbhe (interviewee (expression))
Steinem, Gloria (interviewee (expression))
Vaid, Urvashi (interviewee (expression))
Other credits
Director of photography, Jonathan Freeman; editor, Nick Hector; music, Jocelyne Lanois.
Distributor subjects
Documentary Films; Human Rights; Gender StudiesKeywords
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- Feminism for me very powerfully is about being allowed
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to imagine yourself otherwise and differently,
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and then, being able to go out and do that,
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so it\'s about ending economic oppression,
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racial oppression, class oppressions.
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It\'s about being absolutely against all of those things,
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because they stop us,
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as women, as people, from being absolutely free.
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And I know nobody is ever absolutely free,
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but you\'ve got to have a vision.
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- More women than ever before are calling themselves
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feminists but there is still a resistance
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for two reasons, I think one is that people
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don\'t know what it means but if you go to the dictionary
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and you find out that a feminist is anybody female
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or male who believes in the full social, economic,
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political equality of women and men, you say, okay.
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But the other problem is that people do know what it means.
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We have to face the fact that this is a revolution,
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not a public relations movement, so there is going to be
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punishment for calling yourself a feminist,
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there is going to be resistance.
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I would only say to women from the bottom of my heart
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that it\'s, however tough it is to call yourself a feminist,
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it\'s tougher not to.
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- Feminism to me is the political movement that is about
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changing the second class status of women,
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making true equality exist between women and men,
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and through that process, actually changing a lot of things
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that we see in the world.
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- Equality has been so central to feminism for so long,
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but then whose equality are you talking about?
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Are you talking about let\'s say a poor woman
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being equal to a poor man or a poor woman being equal
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to a rich man or what is it you\'re talking about?
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I think it\'s much more important to be talking about
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women as human beings and women\'s rights as human rights.
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To me, feminism is the most profound political movement
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that has actually ever taken place.
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I recognize that it\'s not an easy thing for people
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to believe in, but it\'s extremely enabling
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and empowering for someone like me.
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- Women are often fearful of calling themselves feminist
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or using the word feminist, the use is terrible euphemism,
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the F word, feminism is a word that\'s somehow going to
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blow you sky high or something.
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(mumbles) It would blow a lot of things sky high.
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But I think it\'s just not possible to be nice
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and to be liked and to be revolutionary
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and to really disrupt and threaten the system,
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and feminism is absolutely a huge, massive, big world threat
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to the system in place.
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- In a place like India, there\'s a lot of suspicion
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of the word for various reasons,
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one because it\'s seen as an import of the west with
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a lot of the baggage that it carries with it
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and pictures of strident feminism that people don\'t want
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to be associated with.
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- No more patriarchy, no more shit!
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No more patriarchy, no more shit!
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- The media has quite successfully protracted feminism
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as something that\'s beyond the pale,
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something outside the fringe of acceptable
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and reasonable human conduct.
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The media\'s also been very successful at
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presenting feminism as anti-men.
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You can\'t be at all critical of men without being anti-men.
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- People can\'t seem to imagine a male, female relationship
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that\'s equal so if you are an autonomous, equal person,
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then you can\'t have a relationship with a man
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so you must be a lesbian.
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It\'s also used to silence all women.
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It stands to reason that we all have a stake
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in making the word lesbian an honorable word,
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an alternative that is understood so that we aren\'t
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punished by it because any woman who stands up for herself,
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whether she\'s heterosexual, bisexual, a lesbian
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will be called a lesbian and as long as that word has
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the power to take your job away, to take child custody away,
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to be hurtful in any way then we will all be in danger.
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- There\'s a huge stigma to associated with being a lesbian
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and being called a lesbian.
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And I really do believe that dyke baiting is a central part
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of the fear, the reason that a lot of women
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won\'t accept the term feminism.
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If you ask women on the street whether they would apply
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the term feminism, they would agree with every principle,
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every tenant, every definition of feminism you gave them,
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whether it was equal pay for equal work, blah, blah, blah,
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end violence against women, but they would have a problem
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with the word feminist.
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Now why is that?
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- (sighs) I mean the media has vilified the word feminism.
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You know I was teaching at University of Virginia last year
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in political science and women\'s studies
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and the young women and men would say to me,
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\"Well, why don\'t you change what you call yourself?\"
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We used to call ourselves women\'s liberationists, right,
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and then they called us women\'s libbers, right,
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so I think whatever we call ourselves,
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they\'re gonna vilify that word.
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- I think somehow we assume that we did not have
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to counter mass media\'s representation,
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the belittling of women\'s liberation and feminist movement.
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That somehow, people would just sort of know
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that it was constructed and of course what we found is
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people did not know and that\'s how the every day person
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in our culture learns about feminism,
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not from rushing to their local women\'s bookstore
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and buying tons of books but by what television tells them.
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- I like television more than print because I realize
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that at least I have a fighting chance on television
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of reaching the woman who\'s sitting in her living room
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without being filtered through the mind of a writer.
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And that\'s enormously valuable.
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It certainly has served to spread feminist ideas.
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But it\'s also distorted them in a lot of ways.
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(indistinct radio and crowd chatter)
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- ABC came to me just last week wanting to do a show
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on feminism and then when they found out
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I would talk about race, I was immediately disqualified
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as, oh, she\'s going to bring up something
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that doesn\'t have anything to do with feminism,
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and here you have these white power liberal women,
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white women in charge producing these shows
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but they have an old agenda that says race is one issue
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and feminism is another issue when in fact,
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challenging racism is part of our agenda as feminists.
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- The media in general is hooked on showing conflict,
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is hooked on describing problems without giving solutions.
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Because they\'re into conflict,
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they show feminism as an irritant
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or as an adversary all the time.
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Instead of showing a feminist dealing with
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the Moral Majority or the Christian Coalition
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or all these folks who are really organized against feminism
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prefer to show two women fighting with each other
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in order to divide and conquer.
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- I keep waiting for the day we\'ll just have one day
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where we\'ll say all women who believe that we don\'t
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wanna see these many women killed today on television
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and those who support us will turn off their TV sets
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for 24 hours, I think it\'s just so sad that people
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have just lost sight of that kind of easy form
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of political activism that doesn\'t require necessarily
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that you leave your house even to challenge
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the portrayal women of all races in mass media.
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- It is about mega huge money, we are talking about
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multi-national corporate interest,
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they do not want their interest to be exposed and revealed
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for the corrupt, shoddy, imperialist, capitalist,
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misogynist things that they are and they are
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and I use all of those words quite, quite,
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quite deliberately but I fl that it\'s our job
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as feminists to expose that, to reveal it, to name it,
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to say how the media actually functions.
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- There are really, really serious problems
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with the way women are presented in the media
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and pornography is an extreme example of that problem
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that often what pornography presents as titillating
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is really sexual torture.
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(glass breaking)
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If what were being done to animals,
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the Society For The Prevention of Cruelty to Animals
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would get it stopped one way or another
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and it wouldn\'t look like censorship somehow.
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- The difference between pornography and erotica
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is present in the words themselves.
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Porne means female slaves,
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thus is material about female slavery
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or men playing the role of female slaves.
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Erotica comes from Eros which has an idea of love,
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free choice, equal pleasure, mutual pleasure,
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so it\'s something very different.
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Pornography and erotica are as different from each other
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as rape is from sex.
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- We\'re not gonna see effective legal regulation
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of pornography for a number of reasons in the near future.
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One because it\'s such a multi-million dollar industry
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that effective regulation isn\'t gonna happen.
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No matter how much we fight among ourselves
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about theoretically what we should do.
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Another problem is that you\'re not gonna have
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effective regulation because electronic technology
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has developed to the point where it\'s going to be
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very hard to regulate pornography.
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Anybody can copy videos at home,
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anybody can make pornography at home.
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- Where legislation has been passed around censorship,
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it\'s not the evil pornographic patriarchal pornographers
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that get censored but usually it really affects
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marginal groups, usually progressive groups.
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- Especially now with move tot he right (mumbles)
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the state has the power to censor,
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they\'re going to censor erotica, gay and lesbian erotica,
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feminist erotica, whatever.
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There\'s a potential for society to move in a more
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anti-sexuality direction and then I think the power
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of censorship could be quite scary.
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- I\'m not on the side of censorship.
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I don\'t believe however that freedom of expression
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is an absolute that exists in a non-politicized environment
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where you can say well we uphold it forever.
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I don\'t think it means even when you say you have
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freedom of expression, there are very many people
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who don\'t have that, who don\'t have a voice even,
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so what does it mean for them?
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- There are many ways, implicitly and explicitly
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in which women are censored under patriarchy
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that many ways in which we are prevented from speaking,
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prevented from expressing ourselves,
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that is what censorship actually is.
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It\'s not just about censoring certain kinds of information,
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it is about preventing people from being able
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to express themselves in ways that they need
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to express themselves to develop their full human capacity.
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- I don\'t think women with real choices and real economic
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opportunities very often choose prostitution,
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but we\'re going to have sex workers and women working
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in the sex trade as long as women are valued more for sex
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than for other skills.
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You can make more as a prostitute than you can
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as a child care worker.
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That tells you something about the way in which
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a society values women and as long as that\'s true
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you\'re going to have lots of women for economic reasons
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working in the trade.
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- Certainly in India, it\'s poverty, a lot of poverty
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which has led to women being prostitutes
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and prostitutes are terribly oppressed by their pimps
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and by the police who exploit them,
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use them when they wish to,
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throw them into jail when they wish to.
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(police siren blares)
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- What criminalization does is make these workers
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much more vulnerable, vulnerable to harassment
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by the police and vulnerable to violence
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from customers and pimps who can beat and rape them
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pretty much with impunity, although prostitutes are raped
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more than any other category of women.
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Prostitutes\' rapes are always ignored by the legal system.
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Were prostitution decriminalized,
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you wouldn\'t see an overnight change in it
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but I think you would make a move towards seeing
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prostitutes as legitimate people with real needs
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and who can be violated.
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- We\'re so fearful as women of violence in general
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and sexual violence in particular that it\'s,
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we don\'t even know that we were fearful until it\'s gone.
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I was walking around Tokyo once and realizing
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that I was bigger than most of the men
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and it was the most odd feeling of freedom.
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Now I don\'t think of myself as being afraid,
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but the consciousness is obviously there.
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- I\'m often actually quite scared in my own city, Dublin.
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There are certain parts of the city I don\'t go to
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on my own and yet I would perceive myself as being quite
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big and brave and strong, or able to defend myself
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but that fear is very, very, very difficult
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to get out of your head.
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- When you travel in India, there\'s any number of men
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who will feel you up, so you learn to push them off,
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live with it, you learn to walk on the streets
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holding yourself very carefully and if somebody tries to
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go past on a bike and again, feel you up,
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you shout and scream or something, I used to hit them.
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I used to walk around with a bag with a chain
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and if anybody did that I hit them.
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A couple of times they would hit back,
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but if you\'re able to hit them and they don\'t know what,
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they don\'t expect that kind of reaction.
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- Women are certainly as capable of being violent
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in self-defense as men are.
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But men commit 90% of the violent crimes in North America
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because they are not about self-defense,
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they are about control and about
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proving masculinity and so on.
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It isn\'t that women are more moral or less violent,
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it\'s just that we don\'t have our masculinity to prove.
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- Most five year olds probably come very quickly
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to understand watching cartoons in the society that
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violence is an effective means of social control.
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Male violence against women has to be condoned
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because it\'s the lynch pin of sexism, it\'s central to
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any notion of submission and subordination of females
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and rape is one of the most effective means
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of registering one\'s desire to dominate,
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to subordinate, to terrorize.
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(soft Eastern music)
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- The statistics on rape have been growing
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in the last few years.
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It\'s difficult to say whether this is because
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women\'s movement has actually taken up the issue
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in a big way and therefore more women are reporting it
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or more rapes are coming to light, or whether the number
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of rapes are actually growing.
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A large number of these rape by policeman
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and a large number of these rapes are poor rural women.
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If there\'s a woman who has been raped,
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she will not speak about it openly
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and her family won\'t either.
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It\'s almost as if it\'s her fault that she\'s been raped,
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and I think that\'s common across the world.
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- The forcing of another human being to engage
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in sexual activity is the most debasing and horrific
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kind of violence that one person can perpetrate on another.
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Men are raped as well and women are raped
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in a far larger number than men, so I condemn both kinds
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of rape, all kinds of rape, sexual coercion is wrong,
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and it\'s not hysterical to say that,
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it\'s a moral imperative.
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We must say that.
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We\'ve gotta teach people that it\'s wrong.
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That anybody can do that to another human being
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and that others would stand by
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and say well she asked for it indicates that
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something\'s seriously damaged in our psyches.
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That we can tolerate this kind of violence on each other.
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We\'re degraded by every act of rape as human beings.
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- Until we change media presentations of sexuality
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and the way young people think of sexuality,
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it\'s gonna be very hard to really do enough
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about violence against women and I think
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the media feels itself much a conflict of interest
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in dealing with these issue,
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because the media makes a fortune out of sexual violence.
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It\'s therefore in the media\'s interest to present
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sexual violence in a way that isn\'t too threatening,
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and one way in which this is done in the United States
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I think is that anybody who\'s a rapist
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or a sexually violent person has to be pathological.
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Normal men don\'t do this.
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Of course the truth is normal do engage in sexual violence
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in a culture that\'s tolerant of rape,
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and our culture is tolerant of rape.
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- There was a case here in the United States
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in which a woman was tied to the bed by her husband,
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tortured by hours, her breasts were cut with a knife.
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He video taped this, the jury saw it.
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The jury had eight women on it and the jury exonerated him,
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they said he needed help.
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So the impulse in us to take care of men first
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and to fail to identify with the female victim
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because we don\'t wanna admit it could be us
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is a big enemy, a big enemy.
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- You just don\'t need more police departments
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and more prisons, you have to be out in the community
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and in the schools, talking to people and educating people
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about the realities of the problem and intervening
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in violence wherever you can.
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All the statistics that show that people don\'t know
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what to do when their neighbor is being
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beat up by her husband.
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That\'s domestic violence.
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Or that they sit silently by and we walk by in the street
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when a couple is having a heated argument
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and one hits the other.
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I think we should intervene.
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- There are societies in the world with much less violence
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against women and I think it\'s not so much
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because of the counter measures,
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though those are very important,
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but because children are raised in a different way.
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Boys are not taught that they have to be controlling
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or even violent in order to be masculine
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and girls aren\'t taught to put up with it.
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As Olof Palme, a former chief of state
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in Sweden always said, it is the deepest responsibility
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of governments in this world to humanize the gender roles
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because they are the root of violence.
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- I first realized that I wanted to oppose patriarchy
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in my teen years where such incredible distinctions
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were made between what my brother could do,
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the access to privilege and power that he could have
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as opposed to any of us girls.
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That was not based on his age or experience,
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that was simply based on their sense of him as being male
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and therefore entitled.
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I can still remember his 16 and 17 years where it was like,
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oh he\'s sowing his oats or what have you.
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Which of course all we were hearing was
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don\'t bring any babies into this house,
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a whole different construction of our sexualities.
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In that very woman dominated household,
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females are in the majority but have no power
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and so much power is invested in these other individuals
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who you see do very little to see domestic life going.
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- Well at least in my generation, our mothers often met
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pretty rough fates and that\'s what happened to my mother.
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Her spirit really was broken by not any particularly
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bad person but just the way the world ran.
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She had to give up everything she loved, her profession,
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everything she cared about,
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and she became literally a broken person.
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So it took me awhile to admit that what had happened to her
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was not her fault and therefore to really allow myself
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to totally identify with her.
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- I am the first generation of women in Ireland who are able
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to be feminist on the second wave of feminism.
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Because of course there was feminism,
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in Ireland as elsewhere in Europe and North America
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and elsewhere throughout the world, at the end of the 19th,
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beginning of the 20th centuries
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but then we went into obeyance for all kinds of
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complicated reasons which are remarkably similar
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across the globe, which is quite amazing I think.
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But my mother then grew up in a world in which she had
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to occupy a very narrowly restricted place as a woman.
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- Feminism is always being called the cause of divorce.
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And I always say, no, no, feminism is not
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the cause of divorce, marriage is the cause
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of divorce (chuckling), but it depends what we mean
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by the institution of marriage.
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If we think of it as not a partnership
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but as an institution which is male dominant
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which you take his name, his residence and so on and so on,
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then yeah, feminism is not having a good impact on that,
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I\'m happy to say (chuckles).
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But if you think of it as a loving, mutual,
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shared partnership, then I think it\'s making it
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possible for the first time.
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- But then if there\'s a divorce, we live in a no fault era
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and any husband is free to walk out at any time
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and get a divorce.
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If that happens, then she has a lower ability
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to earn wages in the labor force,
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and we live in a culture in which she and the children
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are not gonna be given good economic supports.
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- I actually don\'t think anybody ever at a capacity
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owns a child, but if you give birth to this little thing,
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you should actually be prepared to support it
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to the very best of your ability.
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I think it\'s disgusting that men don\'t pay
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their child support.
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They are their children as much as the children
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of the women who\'ve actually born them,
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so they should pay up and they don\'t.
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This is absolutely the global pattern of men not paying up.
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- I can understand their bitterness perhaps
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towards their ex-wives but why doesn\'t their love
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for their children mean that they\'ll pay child support
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regardless of whether there\'s any enforcement system?
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It\'s very hard I think to understand that.
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- There has to be a strengthened connection between
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men and children that is just as strong
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as the connection between women and children.
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And we\'re a very long way from that.
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In ongoing marriages, very few men take care of children
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and the home as much as women do even though the women
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also work outside the home.
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- The other thing that we I think have to do
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is to deal with the realities of motherhood in a better way
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as a society than we have.
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I mean daycare is still a luxury for most people,
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and that\'s just preposterous.
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We still expect women to perform the superhuman function
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of working to help support their families and coming home
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and taking care of the husband and the kids.
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So that\'s another kind of economic issue
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that society has yet to deal with
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and I think it\'s a problem the world over.
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- When I was first out of college, I had an abortion
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and it was an era when it was illegal here.
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I happened to be in England where it was quasi legal,
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you had to get to physicians to sign saying that you,
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I don\'t know what they signed but anyway (chuckles),
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saying that you would perish without this.
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So I went through the same agonizing that many people do
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and afterwards, because there was no women\'s movement
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for support then, I spent a lot of years trying to
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make myself feel guilty.
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I used to think I ought, and I never could.
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I mean no matter how I tried to make myself feel guilty,
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I couldn\'t and in my heart I knew it was the first time
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that I had really taken responsibility for my own life.
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So for me it was, certainly not a positive experience,
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I wish I hadn\'t needed it, but it was a pivotal
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and constructive experience.
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- We look so often as if we\'re absolutely focused
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as feminists just on abortion.
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It\'s not that, it\'s because you actually don\'t have
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the means or you sometimes don\'t have the right
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to control your fertility in ways that are going to be
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gentler for your system.
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Because you know abortion is after all
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a surgical intervention so you don\'t go out looking
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for this surgical intervention, but until such time
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as we have those means and they are truly available
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and accessible in a fully educated way for all women to use,
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we are going to have to have abortions
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so they better be legal so women don\'t die.
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- We know that women will get abortions
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whether they\'re legal or not,
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and so you have a situation where there\'s terrible violence
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done to women through illegal abortions which can be
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very easily prevented, unlike male violence against women.
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And if you\'re for making abortion illegal
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then you\'re promoting that kind of violence against women.
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- [Crowd] Lead us not into temptation.
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- What is happening now as even that most basic right
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of abortion is being challenged and questioned,
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we are in the process of having to reclaim
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the initial, more complex discourse around
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reproductive rights, one to remind the world
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that we are not anti-family, in fact the whole move
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to empower women to exercise reproductive rights was about
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how to build better families, healthy families,
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families that are rooted in choice.
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- We have an ultra right wing that is intent
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on saying that human sexuality is only intended
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for procreation inside marriage,
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so they oppose anything else.
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They oppose birth control, they oppose abortion,
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they oppose sexuality between two men or between two women
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and this means they oppose sex education in schools,
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so we see that in North America in general,
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there is about the same degree of sexual activity
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that there is in Scandinavian countries,
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yet in Scandinavian countries, the rate of unwanted births
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is a tiny fraction of what it is here.
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- Women are bombarded from the moment of birth almost
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with the message that without children,
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one cannot be fulfilled.
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But I\'m really glad I don\'t have children.
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I\'m happier with my life without children
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than I would have been with children,
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and I sort of lucked out into that,
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that if things had just been different at various points,
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for example, in marriages, I might well have had children
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and I don\'t think that society really gave me
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enough of a choice, presented childlessness
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as a real positive option for women,
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and I think it\'s very important that women not be pressured
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into having children regardless of whether that really is
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going to be most fulfilling for them.
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- Why, why, why is it such an important issue?
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Why are reproductive rights, whether it\'s abortion,
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whether it\'s the absence of contraception
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as in Eastern European countries, for example,
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whether it\'s issues of sex education
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and forced sterilization, the abuse of hysterectomies,
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whatever it is, why is that so really important?
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Because they are so centrally about that autonomy,
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the freedom, that independence to live our lives
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in the way we\'ve so diversely determined to live our lives.
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- Nothing that is a concern of women\'s health
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has received as much funding, as much attention,
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as much research as that which is concerned
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with men\'s health, it just is a function of
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who is perceived as important
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and who makes the decisions and so on.
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You see for instance that heart disease is as big a killer
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of women as of men, at least after menopause,
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still the aspirin tests and all these other medications
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have not been tested on women or even on female rats,
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I might add, so (chuckles),
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there\'s really a great distance to go.
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- Proportionately the amount of federal dollars spent
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on women\'s health have been minuscule compared to
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the proportion of women in the society
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and to the overall budget, so because of feminist agitation,
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issues like breast cancer, ovarian cancer are rising
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to the top of the research agenda.
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- Women are beginning to realize that activism here
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can be incredibly productive and that the need
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is so great with respect to cancer research,
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because certainly as women approach my age,
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one knows so many women with breast cancer,
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and one realizes how endemic the problem is
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that we really have to make it a very, very high priority
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and I think be willing to do very activist
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and disruptive things in order to really force people
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to fund at an appropriate level.
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- It was the women\'s health movement that really
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called a halt to the unnecessary mastectomies
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and all the other bad treatment, so when I was diagnosed
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with breast cancer, I certainly had much more advantage
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of information than most women and yet I also had to fight
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for good treatment, I had to go to Boston actually
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because I wanted conservative surgery
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and I could see that I wasn\'t going to
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get it here in New York.
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I probably could have but I would have had
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to fight much harder, so if that happens to me
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with the access to information, it certainly happens
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much more to other people.
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- Many of the most sexist notions held by societies
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are embedded in religious tradition.
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Whether it\'s Catholicism, Hinduism, Islam or Judaism,
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there are sexist traditions.
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In many parts of the world where fundamentalism is growing,
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you\'re seeing these religious movements transform
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those societies in ways that are bad for women,
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in ways that are setting back the gains that have been
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made by the feminist movement.
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- I come obviously from a culture in which religion
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plays a very important part, the holy Roman Catholic church
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has been responsible, ably aided and abetted and reinforced
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by the holy Irish Catholic state to keep women in a state
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of submission, subordination, fear,
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to restrict and constrict and constrain us
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in every way that it can possibly think.
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That means of course that men should have the power
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to actually make sure that women don\'t have any power
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and that we as women should stay in our places
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as mothers and man servers.
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No of course I don\'t believe in a religion which can
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actually mind fuck people to that kind of extent.
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No I won\'t subscribe to it, I won\'t support it in any way.
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- I was raised Catholic but I\'m not religious now.
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I think it\'s very hard although not necessarily impossible
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for women to stay within traditional mainstream religions
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and be feminist.
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To stay Catholic and a feminist, which I know many women do,
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and I really respect them, I think it\'s so important
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that women continue to do it, but it\'s beyond what I can do.
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- I come from a family which is Sikh and Hindu.
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If at all we believed in any religion,
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it\'s the Sikh religion because it\'s a more egalitarian one.
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And the only time that we actually subscribed to it
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was when my grandmother used to come to live with us.
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She was very religious, and so we\'d pull out
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all our religious books and have them there when she came.
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And I enjoyed as a child going to the Sikh temple
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because you get into a whole social thing
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of listening to the wonderful music and so on,
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but I\'m not particularly religious.
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(mysterious Eastern music)
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Still, the ritual of religious practice enabled women
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at least to get out of the house,
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have a space where they can sing and be together
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and talk in a temple.
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It\'s not great, but it\'s something,
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it\'s more than they have,
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so I think I wouldn\'t knock religion,
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even though I don\'t subscribe to it myself.
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- I\'m not a religious person, I\'m a spiritual person.
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The difference for me is that religion is a structure
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which has been, not all the time, but much of the time,
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extremely political.
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It has made God look like the ruling class,
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it has put rules in the sky, in the fact,
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put politics in the sky.
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To me spirituality is something very different
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because it\'s empowering to the individual
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instead of crippling, it\'s saying there is God inside
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each persona and each living thing.
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(mysterious Eastern music)
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- There has been a tendency for the white dominated
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European and North America movement to globalize
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its world view and say the status of women should be thus,
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because it\'s so in our country.
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- There seems to be an assumption that the way things happen
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in North America is the way they ought to be
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happening everywhere else throughout the world.
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That\'s not so, it would be an extremely boring world
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if that were the case and a very limited one,
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so I do feel occasionally that kind of
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unthinking imperialism.
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- On the other hand, there\'s been a tendency I think
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among women in other parts of the world to defend practices
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that I think are indefensible.
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I mean female circumcision.
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I don\'t understand.
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Struggle with me, I don\'t understand why women
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would defend that, and that may be a deeply held
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and cherished cultural tradition.
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It\'s still torture.
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So there\'s a tension between respecting cultural differences
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and talking about a problem from a
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truly pro-woman perspective.
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- It\'s wonderful to be able to step out of your culture
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and talk to the woman from a completely different culture
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but know you have something in common.
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But it\'s really saddening to see that the expectations
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are that you will reach where they are.
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I don\'t want to reach where western feminists sell.
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I\'m really happy reaching where many
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of my compatriots want to reach.
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(people applauding)
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- Race and class divide women from each other
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in ways that make coalitions that we need desperately,
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very difficult to achieve.
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White women of course tend to see things from
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the perspective of white women, tend not to realize that
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that\'s what they\'re doing, tend to set an agenda
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that\'s really a white woman\'s agenda without realizing it.
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- One of the things I find with this issue too
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is that white women get very hurt.
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That as soon as women of color start talking about racism,
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white women take it personally, and I actually saw this
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in my class with men, young men,
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as soon as you start talking about discrimination
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against women, young men take it personally.
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They say, \"Well it wasn\'t my fault,
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\"it was my father\'s fault.\"
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And it\'s the same thing with white women.
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A lot of white women seem to think that if
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a woman of color says there\'s racism in this organization,
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then that women is accusing you of being a racist.
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My attitude is, if someone says that something I said
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is racist, then I\'ll look at that
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and maybe I did say something racist
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and then I\'ll apologize for it.
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- We have divisions among us as women
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and those divisions are based on political ideology,
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on economic difference, on racial difference,
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so we may all be women and we may all be feminists,
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but we don\'t necessarily all like each other,
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agree with each other, trust each other, or get along.
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I think that it\'s a complete myth to think that
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any political movement is going to have unanimity,
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or uniformity on every issue.
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Feminism does not.
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- People often say about the feminist movement
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that it\'s very fragmented, that it\'s finished
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because you don\'t see it as holding together.
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I\'m an eternal optimist, I prefer to look
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at what people see as fragmentation as diversification
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and as enrichment, that it\'s going
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in many different directions and you can see
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its influence spreading, (mumbles) everywhere.
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- We made those waves by working together
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to build a movement which is inclusive, militant,
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highly visible, ongoing, and yes, truly fucking pissed off.
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(crowd cheering)
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- Right now probably central issues fighting the
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right-wing and social agenda because if the right-wing
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is successful and they\'re being successful,
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that is, turning a deficit reduction into a holy war
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on the deficit so that nothing else matters
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but the bottom line, then all the social services
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which have been incredibly important in terms of
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women\'s equality are gonna get destroyed.
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Access to post-secondary education for women
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is gonna be limited and a lot of the gains
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that we made, well they\'re not being rolled back
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in the name of driving women back into the home
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or an anti-feminist, explicitly anti-feminist motivation,
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they\'re being driven back by a right-wing economic
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and political agenda.
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- The question is how do we take it to another level?
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How do we maintain the passion for justice
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that was so much of the heart of that early
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women\'s movement, that took its pedagogy for liberation
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from black power struggle and how we can bring
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that centrality of justice, that anti-racist, anti-sexist,
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anti-class hierarchy agenda back to the forefront
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in such a way that people are more committed
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to sacrifice and struggle on its behalf.
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- There has been a law in India in last few years
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which is that in village political bodies,
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which it\'s always been an all-male body,
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now it has to have 30% reservation for women,
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and it is potentially a tremendously empowering thing,
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because all over the country now there are women
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who understand elections and who are being prepared
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by women\'s groups to go into leadership,
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so the discussions are being held, they\'re being trained
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and so on and I think if that really comes through,
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there\'s going to be a tremendous change,
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because if you have power at the grassroots level,
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there\'s a lot that can be done.
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- I would like to think that third wave feminism
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would be global.
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That it would be this international wave that would
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finally link all the different women\'s movements
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and feminist movements around the world together
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into a human rights movement.
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The feminist movement has accomplished nothing less
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than a major revolution in the lives of women.
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I think it\'s been amazing.
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It has opened up possibilities to women and girls
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that never existed before.
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It has created the potential for men to change
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their understanding of themselves as fathers,
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as brothers, as lovers.
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I feel very encouraged and excited about what feminism
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has accomplished \'cause I\'ve seen a change in my life.
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It has touched my life in a very personal way.
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- When I was in high school, even in university,
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women worked for pin money, even though 30%,
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35% of women were in the workforce then,
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much against mythology.
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I was told women can\'t be doctors, women can\'t be lawyers,
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we should be a teacher, nurse.
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You couldn\'t go out to a restaurant by yourself
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or a bar without everybody assuming you were there
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to be picked up.
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It\'s impossible practically to explain and I try,
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I try to explain when I was teaching my classes
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what it was like when I was young.
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And I feel like this old woman
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and I\'m not that old, you know?
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We\'re talking 25, 30 years ago, and so there\'s been
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an enormous transformation in attitude.
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That\'s been the biggest change, I think the attitude.
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- Maybe one day somebody will be sitting in a movie
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like this one trying very hard to convince viewers
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that once upon a time, there were societies in which
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people\'s whole human futures were dictated
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by how much melanin was in their skin,
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or people really thought that one\'s genitals
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dictated your brain, and people will be watching
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and saying, oh give me a break.
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I don\'t believe that.
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There\'s enormous amount to do and probably many more waves
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before we\'ll be done.
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It\'s begun and I think it\'s irresistible.
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- It\'s a way of seeing the world in relationships
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in the world and it\'s a way of being and acting
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and being able to act and be in the world
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that we as women are, and are entitled to be
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fully active in whatever spheres we like.
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That comes to us from feminism.
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We did not pick it up off up the street.
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We weren\'t born with that knowledge.
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We\'ve had to invent and create that knowledge for ourselves
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and that I think is one of its great, great,
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great achievements which can never be taken away
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from feminism or from women, \'cause once you learn it,
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it\'s something that you never forget.
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