Second Time Around

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Focusing on the wedding arrangements of David and Elaine, each of whom is a divorcee, SECOND TIME AROUND presents the complexities of contemporary marriage in the United States.

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Main credits

Davis, Peter (film director)
Davis, Peter (film producer)
Lindley, John (film director)
Lindley, John (cinematographer)

Other credits

Editor, Tom Haneke.

MARC Record See Worldcat record

Keywords

Middletown; Muncie; marriage; divorce; video; "Second Time Around"; Icarus Films,doc

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[MUSIC PLAYING]

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My first impression
was that she was

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one of the most beautiful
girls I\'d ever seen and lively.

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The first thing that attracted
me to David was his smile.

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I thought he had the most
beautiful smile that I\'d ever

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seen.

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I was kind of shy and I guess
probably a little standoffish

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because I thought that she was
involved with someone else.

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And I think it was because
we were always in a group

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and we were never by ourselves.

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And so I decided
that it was time

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that we had some time
to ourself and I thought

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he would go along with it.

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Then one day she comes
bouncing in the back door

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and wants to know if
I want to go swimming.

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And I told her, yes.

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And at that same time I met her
two boys for the first time.

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And David was sitting
at the kitchen table

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and all he on was his jeans.

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He had no socks on,
no shirt on, you

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could tell he\'d just gotten up.

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It was about 11:00.

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And was eating a bowl of cereal.

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Cornflakes, I was
eating cornflakes.

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He was really shocked.

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I could tell he was pleased
but it really shocked him

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when we came trooping in.

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So I was really happy
when she came in

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and I knew something
good was in the air.

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[LAUGHS]

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This church is
unbelievable, isn\'t it?

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It\'s gorgeous.

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I mean, it is so big.

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I think we\'re going to have
bows on the first four rows.

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That is pretty.

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I like the church, I really do.

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Want to go back
and look forward?

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I don\'t have to walk it.

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Remember?

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You\'re the one that has
to come up that aisle.

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First time I got married,
it was real simple.

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I went to the
Justice of the Peace

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and I was married $5 later.

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That\'s what I would like.

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Let\'s do that.

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Then we should elope,
now, very quickly.

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This is David and Elaine\'s
official announcement

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that they will be
married in three weeks.

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Yea!

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This represents a lot
of-- These are just

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little trademarks of David
and Elaine\'s whole courtship.

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And this is how they met.

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They were discoing at a bar.

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Isn\'t that right, Elaine?

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On the other side,
on the other side

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was mostly just
candles because--

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What\'s this?

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Well, I like the
little figurine.

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Why didn\'t you put
it in his hand?

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Dana told everybody
about how you trapped

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him so I had to go all the way.

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Nothing can happen.

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It\'s official.

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Somebody else start it.

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You know I can\'t.

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(SINGING)
Congratulations to you.

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Congratulations to you.

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Congratulations Dave and Elaine.

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Congratulations to you.

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Yea!

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I take you to be my husband/wife
from this time onward,

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to join with you
and to share all

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that is to come, to
give and receive,

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to speak and to
listen, to inspire,

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and to respond, and in all life
together, to be loyal to you.

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I offer my life, my strength,
my support and loyalty.

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I offer my love in all the
changing circumstances of life

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as long as we both shall live.

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That sounds good.

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When you create your
wedding, create the details,

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bring in all the unusual
aspects that you dreamed of,

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whether you\'re modern,
whether you\'re daring,

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whether you\'re
old-fashioned, create

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the wedding of your choice.

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I\'m sure there are many
girls in the audience

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right now who dreamt of a
wedding gown as only a princess

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could look.

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Ladies and gentlemen,
when you go forth

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to select your bridal
attire, be very, very sure

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that the style you select
is the style you want.

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Depends If you want your
traditional bridesmaid

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to look like
everybody else does.

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But if she wants to look
unique, and this way

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the girls can wear them again.

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That\'s kind of what
we\'re looking for too.

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Because the price and stuff
may be a little bit higher

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on those, maybe as much as a
regular bridesmaid or more.

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This is really different.

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Mom, did you see this one here?

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I just don\'t think black\'s
going to be appropriate.

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I don\'t know.

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Those black dresses we were
looking at were awfully pretty.

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If you have a-- I don\'t know.

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I like the red.

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Gives it some color.

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But it\'s her wedding.

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I would never do it in black.

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I know.

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But then that\'s
everybody\'s choice.

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If you want to be different,
that\'s one way to be different.

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Well, I liked it.

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But I still if I had my
choice, I like color.

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So I would choose the burgundy.

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I think-- I don\'t know.

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Up to you.

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Even Margery, who taught
Home Ec for 47 some years,

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said she\'s never seen black.

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She said, I think
if you go that way,

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it would have to
be ultra modern.

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She said maybe Jackie
Onassis could get by with it,

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but not Muncie, Indiana.

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We\'re having the wedding, mostly
for our family and friends,

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but in same token, we want to
do it to please ourselves too.

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But it\'s just depressing to me.

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Maybe it\'s because I wore
black to my husband\'s funeral.

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And it just hangs
in there with me.

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And I don\'t want
to see it again.

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I don\'t know.

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We want kind of a
vibrant atmosphere.

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It\'s so morbid--

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And I think black
can be vibrant.

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Well, you could look at
it, this could be sorrow.

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Oh, let\'s don\'t say that.

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Oh, no, Jan, not the
second time around.

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Well, you guys, I\'ll tell you.

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Oh, no.

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This is your last chance, David.

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I can\'t see anything
else in here.

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I really can\'t, can you?

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News to me.

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And a stereo.

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Yeah.

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I know the only
thing that they\'re

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interested in are the
things that-- I like that.

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You guys want my TV
set and my stereo.

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The rest of my personal stuff
you don\'t care about, huh?

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We may have move
the stereo upstairs.

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My room.

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Our room.

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Well, I know.

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But even if we get rid
of one of the stereos,

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I\'ve got another stereo.

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My TV set will not work
on the coffee table.

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You guys--

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Why don\'t we put the
couch in your bedroom?

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Then we put the bed down her.

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I\'ll sleep down here and put
the pool table in my room.

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Sure.

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Yeah, we\'re going to get
the pool table in here.

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You might as well
forget about the pool

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table for at least another--

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Ping pong.

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--two or three years.

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I need some room.

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I don\'t know what
we\'re going to do.

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We\'re going to start
figuring out what we\'re

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going to do with that stuff.

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Because if I have to--

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I know what we could do.

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What?

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What?

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Move.

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Move.

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Oh, this is--

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This is beautiful.

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Gorgeous.

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Yeah.

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It has three bedrooms
and a bath and a half.

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It\'s priced at $54,900.

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I like this, nice and light.

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This, this would be my study.

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I could make nice sewing room.

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Let me tell you what I was
thinking about for this room.

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This would be my study.

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That would make a nice one.

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It really would .

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Look at this.

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Oh, how pretty.

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Oh, this is just-- I
thought maybe that--

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You know something?

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I even like the paper on it.

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Yeah, I do too.

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I like all of it throughout.

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Because this is new.

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Grinder.

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It\'s flour.

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Flour.

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Oh, yeah.

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A flour soup.

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This is really nice.

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Oh, honey, honey, honey,
this was a mistake.

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I know.

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I really like it.

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Want it?

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Yeah.

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I love it.

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I really like it.

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What is the largest bedroom?

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Let\'s see, one\'s 15 by nine.

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One\'s nine, six by six, nine
and one\'s 14 by nine, six.

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Do you love it?

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Just about.

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Keep looking.

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Just about, huh?

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Just about love it.

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Look at this, honey.

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How cute.

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Yeah, I think this is
an ideal kid\'s room.

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If you gave Jeffy
this room, he\'d be--

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That room in there?

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Jeff could put
his toys in there.

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You could put Jeff in there.

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No, he\'d be in there.

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He\'d be stuck in there about the
biggest percentage of the time.

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That would be the only
way Michael would share.

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The kids would love this, honey.

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Honey, I don\'t think that
small room is that bad.

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Jeffy or Mike would be--

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The twin bed would fit
in there with a chest.

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Well then we couldn\'t
have any more.

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We\'d be full.

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For a while.

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Where would be put another one?

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Hanging on a nail?

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Or--

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Well, that is a point.

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A twin bed and a chest is about
all you could get in there.

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And a baby bed.

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You could put a baby in
the, make that a nursery.

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It would be big
enough for a nursery.

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But you\'re talking about
starting a whole new breed

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here.

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That is a probability.

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It would be a good investment
in the Ball State area.

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Yeah, if we got it
for the right price,

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it would be a good investment.

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They want $54,900.

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$54,900.

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Could assume the mortgage,
take a second mortgage

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on the balance.

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It doesn\'t say that
you could assume it,

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but they have the
interest rate down.

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I\'m sure they--

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Does it say what the
payments are currently

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No.

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We have to look it up.

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$614.48.

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Hm.

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That would include your
assumption, your taxes,

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your insurance, and your
$20,000 second mortgage then.

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We couldn\'t possibly
do anything like that.

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Well that\'s why
I\'m saying I think

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we should try to lease it.

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Because we don\'t know
what we could possibly do.

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Until you both-- until Elaine
sees where she\'s-- she\'s going

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to teach.

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But-- aren\'t you?

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Or would you go into--

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If we were going to buy this,
she would have to teach.

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I may not find a teaching job.

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So I may have to
find something else.

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She may go into the
industrial area.

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It\'s more lucrative, yeah.

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OK, we\'ve gone over the
sheet thoroughly, so--

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And to think to
have so much room.

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It just would be
like a vacation.

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Now I\'m getting excited.

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Nice way to start a new life.

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In debt up to your ears.

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Got that right.

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Because that\'s about
where it would be.

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Well, I don\'t want to
start out that way.

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If we can\'t, if we
can\'t really afford it.

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Would you be willing--

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But that\'s up to you
to make sure we can.

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You start working
on it right now.

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Would you be willing to
go to work for this place?

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For a while.

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For a while, huh?

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Yeah, til we got on our feet.

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Not for 20 or 30
years, however long

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it takes to pay it off, no.

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It\'s not worth
that much, at all.

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But for a year, maybe.

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Could you get rich in a year?

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Could you get me off the hook?

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So you have a happy homemaker?

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Happy homemaker.

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You have to have somebody
take care of this place.

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I think it would be good to look
around at maybe other houses,

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you\'re right.

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$5 for your marriage
license and it

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cost you thousands to get
rid of the damn woman.

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I thought you had more
god damn sense than this.

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What?

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Than to get married?

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Yeah.

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Aren\'t you getting married?

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I don\'t think so.

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Now, don\'t give me that.

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I know damn good and well by
next year, you\'ll be married.

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Next year, hell, there ain\'t
going to be no next year.

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Oh, it\'s going to be this year?

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You was married before
though, wasn\'t you?

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One time.

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I left her.

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At least, she left me.

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I didn\'t leave her.

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Down South.

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Yep.

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So I decided to do it again.

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I might be crazy as
hell for doing it.

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Well, this is my
second time around too.

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You been married how long?

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32 years.

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32?

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I don\'t know why the hell I
could still go on 32 years.

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You ain\'t got kids?

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But I knowed \'em to
stay 50, 60 years.

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Thus far, I haven\'t been
able to make it over a year.

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I don\'t know what\'s going
to happen with this one.

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He was married on the Navy
base to an Italian girl.

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She was an officer\'s daughter
and her name was Donna.

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And his ship pulled out shortly
after they were married.

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And I think they had some time,
but I don\'t know how much.

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And his ship pulled out and
she stayed there on the base.

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And was a good girl
for a while I guess.

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And then finally
she became bored

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or I don\'t know what happened.

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And he kept sending allotments
home, and thinking, you know,

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everything was all right.

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And he had a friend
on the base there

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who kept saying that
she was running around.

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And we went up to see her.

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Well, we took the grandparents,
Grandma Ray and Grandpa Ray.

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That was before he
had gotten sick.

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We took them up to meet her.

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And she knew we were coming.

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But she was with someone
else when we arrived.

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And that just killed me.

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So we didn\'t tell
Dave because we

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didn\'t know what he might
do, being out on a ship.

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And his friend, Al,
said, he\'ll find out

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soon enough when he gets home.

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And he did.

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I think he said it took
him about two weeks

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to get it out of her, that she
had not been faithful to him.

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He immediately went up
and filed for divorce.

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Back when we were
married, marriage

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was supposed to be for keeps.

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And now it doesn\'t seem
like it\'s that way.

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It\'s too easy to go
on to somebody else.

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I think if you truly love
somebody, you\'ll make it work.

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Because I loved my husband.

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If he\'d told me to go
out and stand in traffic,

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I\'d have probably
done it, silly.

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But I would have.

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I loved him that much.

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This was Dad before.

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And that was him
after the cancer.

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And that\'s why I don\'t
like that picture.

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The boys knew him when
he was still well?

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You remember him?

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I remember him.

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Being like that?

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What do you remember, Jeffer?

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When we get that rule pool
thing that shoots out the water.

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You remember that?

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When we first got it.

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When we first brought it over.

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He does remember
when he was sick.

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But he weighed, what did
he weigh, about 180 pounds?

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180, 175.

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And he only weighed 80
pounds before he died.

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I just can\'t believe that.

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But you know what I
regret most of all

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is that he never saw Dave
become-- get his job,

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he never got to see this, the
wedding he would have loved.

00:17:08.759 --> 00:17:11.359 align:middle line:90%

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Everything you know.

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He would\'ve-- Oh, I don\'t know.

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God\'s will, I guess.

00:17:20.390 --> 00:17:29.150 align:middle line:90%

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Well, we\'re going to go
back over there cause we

00:17:31.487 --> 00:17:33.160 align:middle line:90%
felt like at least [INAUDIBLE].

00:17:33.160 --> 00:17:39.220 align:middle line:90%

00:17:39.220 --> 00:17:41.980 align:middle line:90%
Check your reflexes.

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Why don\'t you to
get your suitcase?

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Kind of get cleaned
up a little bit.

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Your dad\'s coming at six.

00:17:49.240 --> 00:17:52.520 align:middle line:90%
I want to buy two more duplexes.

00:17:52.520 --> 00:17:54.730 align:middle line:90%
Jeff.

00:17:54.730 --> 00:17:55.340 align:middle line:90%
Jeffy.

00:17:55.340 --> 00:17:57.500 align:middle line:90%
You be careful in there.

00:17:57.500 --> 00:17:59.980 align:middle line:90%
I won\'t fall.

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Honey, Mommy\'s out here.

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I know.

00:18:01.530 --> 00:18:02.890 align:middle line:90%
Jeff.

00:18:02.890 --> 00:18:04.370 align:middle line:90%
Your dad\'s here.

00:18:04.370 --> 00:18:05.170 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:18:05.170 --> 00:18:05.670 align:middle line:90%
Come on.

00:18:05.670 --> 00:18:06.780 align:middle line:90%
Your dad\'s here.

00:18:06.780 --> 00:18:07.660 align:middle line:90%
Jeff.

00:18:07.660 --> 00:18:08.800 align:middle line:90%
Dad\'s here.

00:18:08.800 --> 00:18:11.501 align:middle line:90%
Can I get a kiss?

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Bye.

00:18:12.455 --> 00:18:13.410 align:middle line:90%
Bye, baby.

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Have fun.

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Yeah.

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See you Sunday.

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Where is Sherry meeting us?

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Bye, darling.

00:18:20.678 --> 00:18:22.010 align:middle line:90%
Have a good time.

00:18:22.010 --> 00:18:23.690 align:middle line:90%
Where is Sherry meeting us?

00:18:23.690 --> 00:18:27.000 align:middle line:90%

00:18:27.000 --> 00:18:28.500 align:middle line:90%
Have a good day.

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No, no, no, no, I\'m
not going to buy it.

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I just want to see it.

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See you guys Sunday.

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So, it\'s a real pretty
house, real pretty.

00:18:38.350 --> 00:18:42.270 align:middle line:84%
But now with this $5,000, I\'m
going to use it for investment.

00:18:42.270 --> 00:18:45.880 align:middle line:90%

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Any of you want Mom
to drive over here?

00:18:47.660 --> 00:18:49.900 align:middle line:90%

00:18:49.900 --> 00:18:50.400 align:middle line:90%
Honey?

00:18:50.400 --> 00:18:55.180 align:middle line:90%

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I\'d like to have a place
you could live forever.

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And this would be a good place.

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$60,000.

00:19:02.030 --> 00:19:03.960 align:middle line:84%
With the furniture we
got, we could probably

00:19:03.960 --> 00:19:05.030 align:middle line:90%
furnish one room.

00:19:05.030 --> 00:19:08.190 align:middle line:90%

00:19:08.190 --> 00:19:09.920 align:middle line:84%
Well, maybe we better
go, so we can--

00:19:09.920 --> 00:19:12.421 align:middle line:90%
I suppose.

00:19:12.421 --> 00:19:15.511 align:middle line:84%
I could get attached
to this place.

00:19:15.511 --> 00:19:18.500 align:middle line:84%
It\'d be nice having the
river because the kids

00:19:18.500 --> 00:19:19.880 align:middle line:90%
are big fishermen.

00:19:19.880 --> 00:19:24.650 align:middle line:84%
You don\'t have the yard
that you would have.

00:19:24.650 --> 00:19:28.510 align:middle line:84%
Well, that\'s true, but like you
said, how much do you really

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use a yard.

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You play volleyball a
couple times in the summer.

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You know, you know
something else?

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They\'d never let
you zone this multi.

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Probably not.

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You\'d have to do it on the side.

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I mean, you\'d just
be renting rooms out.

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I don\'t think I\'d want it
multi as long as I lived here.

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No, I\'m saying, if you
had, like the kids leave

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and it got to be
too much, we wanted

00:19:53.660 --> 00:19:56.690 align:middle line:84%
to say, rent out the
upper story, the upper--

00:19:56.690 --> 00:19:59.684 align:middle line:90%

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What, to like college
kids or something?

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Yeah.

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I wouldn\'t want to do that.

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Might not be a matter of want.

00:20:08.905 --> 00:20:10.530 align:middle line:84%
It would be more a
matter of having to.

00:20:10.530 --> 00:20:21.310 align:middle line:90%

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He wants 20.

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24 nine.

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We\'re back into our own
kind of neighborhood, honey.

00:20:29.490 --> 00:20:29.990 align:middle line:90%
What\'s that?

00:20:29.990 --> 00:20:31.820 align:middle line:84%
This, this is what
we can afford.

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Oh.

00:20:33.910 --> 00:20:37.141 align:middle line:84%
This isn\'t bad at all,
honey, it really isn\'t.

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No.

00:20:37.640 --> 00:20:38.570 align:middle line:90%
No, it\'s through.

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It\'s got a good
design, it really does.

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What kind of heat?

00:20:42.038 --> 00:20:42.538 align:middle line:90%
[INAUDIBLE]

00:20:42.538 --> 00:20:47.000 align:middle line:90%

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I like it.

00:20:47.500 --> 00:20:50.155 align:middle line:90%
It\'s nice.

00:20:50.155 --> 00:20:51.700 align:middle line:90%
It needs a lot of cleaning.

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I\'ll tell you what.

00:20:52.880 --> 00:20:55.815 align:middle line:90%
I\'d just paint it.

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It\'s electric heat?

00:20:57.755 --> 00:20:58.720 align:middle line:90%
Gas forced air.

00:20:58.720 --> 00:20:59.220 align:middle line:90%
Oh.

00:20:59.220 --> 00:21:02.533 align:middle line:84%
Somebody got into
a food fight here.

00:21:02.533 --> 00:21:05.420 align:middle line:84%
I wonder what\'s wrong
with the plumbing.

00:21:05.420 --> 00:21:07.925 align:middle line:84%
Well, it looks like
they\'ve had leaking seals.

00:21:07.925 --> 00:21:11.391 align:middle line:90%

00:21:11.391 --> 00:21:15.388 align:middle line:90%
Honey, this isn\'t bad at all.

00:21:15.388 --> 00:21:17.336 align:middle line:90%
Cheer up.

00:21:17.336 --> 00:21:19.771 align:middle line:90%
It\'s going to get better.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I want to see the
outside, Sharon, real quick.

00:21:25.865 --> 00:21:27.690 align:middle line:90%
And it is aluminum sided.

00:21:27.690 --> 00:21:29.840 align:middle line:90%
I\'m telling you, honey.

00:21:29.840 --> 00:21:31.365 align:middle line:90%
There\'s nothing wrong with this.

00:21:31.365 --> 00:21:35.524 align:middle line:90%

00:21:35.524 --> 00:21:39.430 align:middle line:90%
This is not bad at all.

00:21:39.430 --> 00:21:42.610 align:middle line:90%
Talk to me, baby, talk to me.

00:21:42.610 --> 00:21:44.344 align:middle line:90%
I love the yard.

00:21:44.344 --> 00:21:46.000 align:middle line:90%
You hate the house.

00:21:46.000 --> 00:21:50.220 align:middle line:84%
Right now, I don\'t want
to live in a duplex.

00:21:50.220 --> 00:21:52.667 align:middle line:84%
On a contract, we can
basically work a contract up

00:21:52.667 --> 00:21:53.750 align:middle line:90%
any way you want to do it.

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But you just have to make
sure that you payment at least

00:21:56.090 --> 00:21:57.970 align:middle line:84%
equals your interest
you have to pay.

00:21:57.970 --> 00:21:59.200 align:middle line:90%
Well, yeah.

00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:03.180 align:middle line:84%
So you\'d have to make at
least a $300 a month payment.

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And at that, if you made
a $300 a month payment,

00:22:05.900 --> 00:22:11.430 align:middle line:84%
you would have the first
month, you would have $80,

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I mean $30 going
toward principal.

00:22:14.810 --> 00:22:15.790 align:middle line:90%
Which wouldn\'t--

00:22:15.790 --> 00:22:18.794 align:middle line:84%
Then it would gradually,
as you amortized it out,

00:22:18.794 --> 00:22:22.880 align:middle line:84%
pay more on principal,
less on interest.

00:22:22.880 --> 00:22:27.108 align:middle line:90%
And all the banks are at 16, 17?

00:22:27.108 --> 00:22:30.524 align:middle line:84%
You can\'t get anything
cheaper than 16?

00:22:30.524 --> 00:22:32.060 align:middle line:90%
Jesus, what\'s going on?

00:22:32.060 --> 00:22:39.640 align:middle line:90%

00:22:39.640 --> 00:22:41.700 align:middle line:84%
I hate to settle for
something I don\'t really

00:22:41.700 --> 00:22:44.940 align:middle line:90%
want just to buy something.

00:22:44.940 --> 00:22:46.960 align:middle line:84%
Honey, I\'m not trying
to just buy something.

00:22:46.960 --> 00:22:48.960 align:middle line:84%
What I\'m trying to do,
is one of two things.

00:22:48.960 --> 00:22:50.990 align:middle line:84%
Either find us someplace
else to live with--

00:22:50.990 --> 00:22:52.240 align:middle line:90%
That\'s what I\'m talking about.

00:22:52.240 --> 00:22:55.010 align:middle line:90%
--with a return somehow.

00:22:55.010 --> 00:22:58.820 align:middle line:84%
Or I\'m intending on us staying
in Schuyler for the next three

00:22:58.820 --> 00:23:00.990 align:middle line:84%
years and us buying
investment properties.

00:23:00.990 --> 00:23:05.374 align:middle line:90%

00:23:05.374 --> 00:23:07.290 align:middle line:84%
I mean, the houses that
we\'ve been looking at,

00:23:07.290 --> 00:23:08.873 align:middle line:84%
she knows she\'s going
to have to work.

00:23:08.873 --> 00:23:10.210 align:middle line:90%
She knows that.

00:23:10.210 --> 00:23:12.570 align:middle line:84%
I didn\'t want to
work for a while.

00:23:12.570 --> 00:23:14.910 align:middle line:84%
I didn\'t want to be
forced into the market

00:23:14.910 --> 00:23:18.150 align:middle line:84%
until I decided
what I wanted to do.

00:23:18.150 --> 00:23:21.890 align:middle line:84%
And this means, whatever I get,
I\'m going to have to stay with.

00:23:21.890 --> 00:23:24.320 align:middle line:84%
And I didn\'t want to
have to do that yet.

00:23:24.320 --> 00:23:25.840 align:middle line:84%
Elaine\'s scared
that the houses are

00:23:25.840 --> 00:23:29.432 align:middle line:84%
going to go so high that we\'ll
never be in the market again.

00:23:29.432 --> 00:23:31.640 align:middle line:84%
When the interest rates go
down, the prices of houses

00:23:31.640 --> 00:23:32.900 align:middle line:90%
is going to go up.

00:23:32.900 --> 00:23:35.440 align:middle line:84%
That\'s what I mean. it\'s a
buyer\'s market right now.

00:23:35.440 --> 00:23:37.060 align:middle line:90%
It is.

00:23:37.060 --> 00:23:39.160 align:middle line:84%
But you\'ve got to have
money to get in it.

00:23:39.160 --> 00:23:41.866 align:middle line:90%
True.

00:23:41.866 --> 00:23:44.362 align:middle line:84%
There\'s nothing like having
all your dreams shattered

00:23:44.362 --> 00:23:45.070 align:middle line:90%
in one afternoon.

00:23:45.070 --> 00:23:47.810 align:middle line:90%

00:23:47.810 --> 00:23:52.330 align:middle line:84%
I think what we should
do is forget it.

00:23:52.330 --> 00:23:53.820 align:middle line:90%
Buy a trailer.

00:23:53.820 --> 00:23:54.470 align:middle line:90%
No.

00:23:54.470 --> 00:23:55.920 align:middle line:90%
Get a tent.

00:23:55.920 --> 00:23:57.970 align:middle line:90%
Become nomadic.

00:23:57.970 --> 00:23:59.410 align:middle line:90%
Travel the United States.

00:23:59.410 --> 00:24:00.290 align:middle line:90%
Forget about work.

00:24:00.290 --> 00:24:01.660 align:middle line:90%
Become bums.

00:24:01.660 --> 00:24:03.544 align:middle line:90%
Live off the land.

00:24:03.544 --> 00:24:05.472 align:middle line:90%
That sounds good.

00:24:05.472 --> 00:24:09.328 align:middle line:90%
Wouldn\'t mind doing that.

00:24:09.328 --> 00:24:10.292 align:middle line:90%
You wouldn\'t?

00:24:10.292 --> 00:24:13.680 align:middle line:90%

00:24:13.680 --> 00:24:15.268 align:middle line:84%
I wouldn\'t want to
live in Indiana.

00:24:15.268 --> 00:24:16.202 align:middle line:90%
Not in the winter.

00:24:16.202 --> 00:24:16.702 align:middle line:90%
How come?

00:24:16.702 --> 00:24:18.536 align:middle line:84%
Well, because it would
be too cold if you\'re

00:24:18.536 --> 00:24:19.577 align:middle line:90%
planning to live outside.

00:24:19.577 --> 00:24:20.972 align:middle line:84%
If we\'re going to
do it, we gotta

00:24:20.972 --> 00:24:22.680 align:middle line:84%
do it just like they
did in the old days.

00:24:22.680 --> 00:24:26.890 align:middle line:90%

00:24:26.890 --> 00:24:30.854 align:middle line:90%
Say $2.50 apiece, $5 a day.

00:24:30.854 --> 00:24:32.168 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:24:32.168 --> 00:24:34.645 align:middle line:90%
So, that would be $25 a week.

00:24:34.645 --> 00:24:36.340 align:middle line:90%
That would be $100 a month.

00:24:36.340 --> 00:24:40.615 align:middle line:90%

00:24:40.615 --> 00:24:43.470 align:middle line:90%
Put it down.

00:24:43.470 --> 00:24:45.510 align:middle line:90%
May have to give up eating.

00:24:45.510 --> 00:24:49.140 align:middle line:84%
So if we quit eating, that
would almost pay my rent here.

00:24:49.140 --> 00:24:51.750 align:middle line:84%
OK, here\'s another
bill to be added

00:24:51.750 --> 00:24:55.190 align:middle line:90%
on under mine, $20 a month.

00:24:55.190 --> 00:24:57.920 align:middle line:90%

00:24:57.920 --> 00:24:59.290 align:middle line:90%
What is it?

00:24:59.290 --> 00:25:01.350 align:middle line:90%
It\'s Calhoun.

00:25:01.350 --> 00:25:02.740 align:middle line:90%
Who\'s Calhoun?

00:25:02.740 --> 00:25:06.610 align:middle line:90%
That\'s the stamp collection.

00:25:06.610 --> 00:25:07.400 align:middle line:90%
$20?

00:25:07.400 --> 00:25:11.650 align:middle line:84%
Well, don\'t put it on
because I dropped it.

00:25:11.650 --> 00:25:15.230 align:middle line:84%
You paid $20 a
month for a stamp?

00:25:15.230 --> 00:25:17.105 align:middle line:90%
Not a stamp, a sheet of stamps.

00:25:17.105 --> 00:25:22.760 align:middle line:90%

00:25:22.760 --> 00:25:27.910 align:middle line:84%
You paid $20 a month
for a sheet of stamps.

00:25:27.910 --> 00:25:29.530 align:middle line:90%
Yes, honey, I did.

00:25:29.530 --> 00:25:32.020 align:middle line:84%
They give you-- what
did they give you, 20,

00:25:32.020 --> 00:25:36.600 align:middle line:84%
or they give you 18 cent stamps
a page of 18 cent stamps.

00:25:36.600 --> 00:25:39.060 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t really know
what the denomination

00:25:39.060 --> 00:25:41.740 align:middle line:90%
is because they\'re from Haiti.

00:25:41.740 --> 00:25:53.350 align:middle line:90%

00:25:53.350 --> 00:25:56.760 align:middle line:90%
You buy stamps from Haiti?

00:25:56.760 --> 00:25:58.280 align:middle line:90%
You buy stamps from Haiti?

00:25:58.280 --> 00:25:58.980 align:middle line:90%
Audubon.

00:25:58.980 --> 00:26:02.540 align:middle line:90%
They\'re the Audubon stamps.

00:26:02.540 --> 00:26:03.920 align:middle line:90%
Forget it, honey.

00:26:03.920 --> 00:26:05.020 align:middle line:90%
Just don\'t worry about it.

00:26:05.020 --> 00:26:06.519 align:middle line:84%
I know but what do
you do with them?

00:26:06.519 --> 00:26:07.590 align:middle line:90%
Don\'t put it down.

00:26:07.590 --> 00:26:09.450 align:middle line:90%
They\'re collector items.

00:26:09.450 --> 00:26:10.840 align:middle line:90%
That you can\'t use?

00:26:10.840 --> 00:26:13.600 align:middle line:84%
Remember what Sherry was saying,
how you could use a stamp

00:26:13.600 --> 00:26:15.560 align:middle line:90%
collection as assets?

00:26:15.560 --> 00:26:18.690 align:middle line:84%
That\'s because
stamps are valuable.

00:26:18.690 --> 00:26:20.200 align:middle line:90%
To someone.

00:26:20.200 --> 00:26:22.170 align:middle line:90%
Yeah.

00:26:22.170 --> 00:26:24.625 align:middle line:84%
If they\'re selling
them, $20 a sheet.

00:26:24.625 --> 00:26:29.117 align:middle line:90%

00:26:29.117 --> 00:26:29.866 align:middle line:90%
Give me the total.

00:26:29.866 --> 00:26:32.470 align:middle line:90%

00:26:32.470 --> 00:26:39.520 align:middle line:90%
1311.36.

00:26:39.520 --> 00:26:40.680 align:middle line:90%
That\'s everything?

00:26:40.680 --> 00:26:43.550 align:middle line:90%
Uh, huh.

00:26:43.550 --> 00:26:45.440 align:middle line:90%
I guess I\'ll marry you then.

00:26:45.440 --> 00:26:46.170 align:middle line:90%
Will you?

00:26:46.170 --> 00:26:49.720 align:middle line:90%
But I\'m not getting you a house.

00:26:49.720 --> 00:26:51.820 align:middle line:84%
You\'ll marry me but you
won\'t get me a house.

00:26:51.820 --> 00:26:53.819 align:middle line:84%
Well, would you get me a
house and not marry me?

00:26:53.819 --> 00:26:57.570 align:middle line:90%

00:26:57.570 --> 00:26:58.750 align:middle line:90%
You\'re a real cutie.

00:26:58.750 --> 00:26:59.290 align:middle line:90%
Cutie.

00:26:59.290 --> 00:27:02.680 align:middle line:90%
Can we make a deal here?

00:27:02.680 --> 00:27:04.550 align:middle line:84%
It would be cheaper
get me a house.

00:27:04.550 --> 00:27:06.160 align:middle line:90%
We can make a deal.

00:27:06.160 --> 00:27:13.250 align:middle line:84%
If you want to work for a
while, then we\'ll get a house.

00:27:13.250 --> 00:27:16.850 align:middle line:84%
If you tell me that, yes,
when I graduate from school,

00:27:16.850 --> 00:27:18.940 align:middle line:90%
I will work.

00:27:18.940 --> 00:27:21.648 align:middle line:90%
We\'ll get the house.

00:27:21.648 --> 00:27:25.060 align:middle line:84%
If you\'ll tell me
that we aren\'t going

00:27:25.060 --> 00:27:27.770 align:middle line:84%
to have any more
children, than maybe

00:27:27.770 --> 00:27:32.120 align:middle line:84%
I\'ll tell you that
I\'m going to work.

00:27:32.120 --> 00:27:33.314 align:middle line:90%
Jesus.

00:27:33.314 --> 00:27:34.980 align:middle line:84%
If we\'re going to
deal here, let\'s deal.

00:27:34.980 --> 00:27:41.850 align:middle line:90%

00:27:41.850 --> 00:27:42.880 align:middle line:90%
Honey, honey, honey.

00:27:42.880 --> 00:27:46.620 align:middle line:90%

00:27:46.620 --> 00:27:47.220 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t know.

00:27:47.220 --> 00:27:48.970 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t know if it\'s
going to work or not.

00:27:48.970 --> 00:27:53.720 align:middle line:84%
If it doesn\'t work, how much
does moving into that house

00:27:53.720 --> 00:27:54.444 align:middle line:90%
mean to you?

00:27:54.444 --> 00:27:55.860 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t want to
stay here forever.

00:27:55.860 --> 00:27:59.560 align:middle line:90%

00:27:59.560 --> 00:28:06.030 align:middle line:84%
You figure I\'m making $20,636.16
which is still poverty level.

00:28:06.030 --> 00:28:12.830 align:middle line:90%

00:28:12.830 --> 00:28:15.280 align:middle line:84%
Well, we don\'t have to
decide right now, do we?

00:28:15.280 --> 00:28:16.390 align:middle line:90%
No.

00:28:16.390 --> 00:28:19.330 align:middle line:84%
But I\'m telling you right now,
things are not looking good.

00:28:19.330 --> 00:28:21.775 align:middle line:84%
They\'re looking dismal as
far as a house is concerned.

00:28:21.775 --> 00:28:25.780 align:middle line:90%

00:28:25.780 --> 00:28:27.500 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t think they
have to look dismal.

00:28:27.500 --> 00:28:31.270 align:middle line:84%
Too little income is
not enough, honey.

00:28:31.270 --> 00:28:35.230 align:middle line:84%
And this is something that we\'ve
got to really deal with here,

00:28:35.230 --> 00:28:36.255 align:middle line:90%
really deal with.

00:28:36.255 --> 00:28:37.380 align:middle line:90%
Because that\'s what I mean.

00:28:37.380 --> 00:28:41.220 align:middle line:84%
We say we have $400 a
month left over here.

00:28:41.220 --> 00:28:42.960 align:middle line:90%
Or $210 a month here.

00:28:42.960 --> 00:28:43.760 align:middle line:90%
That isn\'t true.

00:28:43.760 --> 00:28:44.950 align:middle line:90%
We don\'t have.

00:28:44.950 --> 00:28:47.450 align:middle line:84%
Because we think haven\'t
figured anything in here.

00:28:47.450 --> 00:28:49.480 align:middle line:90%
There\'s no doctor bills.

00:28:49.480 --> 00:28:50.710 align:middle line:90%
There\'s no eyeglasses.

00:28:50.710 --> 00:28:51.820 align:middle line:90%
There\'s no Bandads.

00:28:51.820 --> 00:28:53.920 align:middle line:90%
There\'s no flower boxes.

00:28:53.920 --> 00:28:57.850 align:middle line:84%
There\'s no going out to
the movies for the weekend.

00:28:57.850 --> 00:29:01.080 align:middle line:84%
These are necessities or
could be termed necessities.

00:29:01.080 --> 00:29:03.330 align:middle line:84%
These are things that we
have to pay every month.

00:29:03.330 --> 00:29:08.210 align:middle line:90%

00:29:08.210 --> 00:29:09.680 align:middle line:84%
So you\'re saying
then, stay here.

00:29:09.680 --> 00:29:14.470 align:middle line:90%

00:29:14.470 --> 00:29:17.790 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t know how we\'re
going to live here.

00:29:17.790 --> 00:29:20.890 align:middle line:84%
I mean, you talk
about being realistic.

00:29:20.890 --> 00:29:23.040 align:middle line:84%
How are we going to
squeeze you in here?

00:29:23.040 --> 00:29:30.290 align:middle line:90%

00:29:30.290 --> 00:29:41.084 align:middle line:84%
Come a long way from
$55,000 homes, haven\'t we?

00:29:41.084 --> 00:29:44.542 align:middle line:90%
Things change.

00:29:44.542 --> 00:29:50.470 align:middle line:84%
And children are one of the
things that changes a marriage.

00:29:50.470 --> 00:29:53.928 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t want another child,
I don\'t think at this point.

00:29:53.928 --> 00:29:56.398 align:middle line:84%
But it\'s not a real
strong feeling.

00:29:56.398 --> 00:30:00.350 align:middle line:84%
If David decides he
wants one, then I

00:30:00.350 --> 00:30:02.820 align:middle line:84%
think I\'d be
willing to have one.

00:30:02.820 --> 00:30:06.772 align:middle line:84%
But I want him to
realize that he\'s

00:30:06.772 --> 00:30:08.373 align:middle line:90%
going to have to help raise it.

00:30:08.373 --> 00:30:10.206 align:middle line:84%
Well, I think he\'d take
that responsibility.

00:30:10.206 --> 00:30:13.680 align:middle line:84%
Yeah, I think so, but I\'d want
to make sure that it would

00:30:13.680 --> 00:30:15.930 align:middle line:90%
be a mutual responsibility.

00:30:15.930 --> 00:30:19.310 align:middle line:84%
Knowing David, he\'s do
his part on anything.

00:30:19.310 --> 00:30:23.254 align:middle line:84%
The things that I feel good
about and confident will work

00:30:23.254 --> 00:30:27.300 align:middle line:84%
what we have that\'s good
is great, but what we have

00:30:27.300 --> 00:30:30.485 align:middle line:90%
that\'s not so good is terrible.

00:30:30.485 --> 00:30:32.660 align:middle line:84%
And our values aren\'t
always the same.

00:30:32.660 --> 00:30:36.340 align:middle line:84%
We have a lot of
different values.

00:30:36.340 --> 00:30:39.610 align:middle line:84%
That probably will never
change and that worries me.

00:30:39.610 --> 00:30:40.906 align:middle line:90%
It worries me.

00:30:40.906 --> 00:30:43.236 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t know what difference
that piece of paper makes.

00:30:43.236 --> 00:30:45.100 align:middle line:90%
But somehow it seems to.

00:30:45.100 --> 00:30:47.295 align:middle line:84%
Well, after you\'re married,
those little things

00:30:47.295 --> 00:30:50.470 align:middle line:84%
that didn\'t bother you before
are gonna be great big things.

00:30:50.470 --> 00:30:51.925 align:middle line:90%
Yeah, that\'s right.

00:30:51.925 --> 00:30:52.895 align:middle line:90%
That\'s true.

00:30:52.895 --> 00:30:54.350 align:middle line:90%
That just bug you to death.

00:30:54.350 --> 00:30:55.320 align:middle line:90%
That\'s true.

00:30:55.320 --> 00:30:57.230 align:middle line:84%
What you can put up
with because you think,

00:30:57.230 --> 00:31:00.470 align:middle line:84%
well I can walk
out if I want to.

00:31:00.470 --> 00:31:02.160 align:middle line:84%
If it gets too bad,
I can just walk out.

00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:04.940 align:middle line:84%
Because I don\'t think he could
go through another divorce.

00:31:04.940 --> 00:31:05.580 align:middle line:90%
I really don\'t.

00:31:05.580 --> 00:31:06.756 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t believe he could.

00:31:06.756 --> 00:31:09.684 align:middle line:84%
Well, it\'s not something
either one of us want to do.

00:31:09.684 --> 00:31:11.636 align:middle line:84%
I wouldn\'t get
married if I thought

00:31:11.636 --> 00:31:13.100 align:middle line:90%
I was going to get divorced.

00:31:13.100 --> 00:31:17.896 align:middle line:90%

00:31:17.896 --> 00:31:19.520 align:middle line:84%
I thought about it
a lot and so has he.

00:31:19.520 --> 00:31:58.160 align:middle line:90%

00:31:58.160 --> 00:32:02.830 align:middle line:84%
Did you know Henry Fonda
was in the hospital?

00:32:02.830 --> 00:32:03.810 align:middle line:90%
Did I know what?

00:32:03.810 --> 00:32:06.640 align:middle line:90%
Henry Fonda was in the hospital.

00:32:06.640 --> 00:32:07.410 align:middle line:90%
No.

00:32:07.410 --> 00:32:08.789 align:middle line:90%
I didn\'t What\'s he is for?

00:32:08.789 --> 00:32:09.330 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t know.

00:32:09.330 --> 00:32:09.955 align:middle line:90%
It doesn\'t say.

00:32:09.955 --> 00:32:18.980 align:middle line:90%

00:32:18.980 --> 00:32:19.480 align:middle line:90%
Whew!

00:32:19.480 --> 00:32:24.950 align:middle line:90%

00:32:24.950 --> 00:32:27.420 align:middle line:84%
That\'s your music for the
wedding, is that correct?

00:32:27.420 --> 00:32:31.860 align:middle line:90%

00:32:31.860 --> 00:32:33.179 align:middle line:90%
Wedding stuff goes here.

00:32:33.179 --> 00:32:33.970 align:middle line:90%
I want to get this.

00:32:33.970 --> 00:32:36.050 align:middle line:90%
I want Michael to read this.

00:32:36.050 --> 00:32:37.010 align:middle line:90%
What\'s that?

00:32:37.010 --> 00:32:38.310 align:middle line:90%
It\'s in Dear Abby.

00:32:38.310 --> 00:32:45.205 align:middle line:90%
It\'s about car crash.

00:32:45.205 --> 00:32:46.253 align:middle line:90%
Are you listening?

00:32:46.253 --> 00:32:46.940 align:middle line:90%
Uh, huh.

00:32:46.940 --> 00:32:48.360 align:middle line:90%
Car crash.

00:32:48.360 --> 00:32:50.880 align:middle line:84%
It\'s about-- it says,
it\'s been four years

00:32:50.880 --> 00:32:54.160 align:middle line:84%
since my 18-year-old cousin was
killed in a horrible car crash.

00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:55.700 align:middle line:84%
Shortly after his
death, you printed

00:32:55.700 --> 00:32:59.660 align:middle line:84%
a very moving article entitled,
please God, I\'m only 17.

00:32:59.660 --> 00:33:01.265 align:middle line:90%
And that\'s what this is about.

00:33:01.265 --> 00:33:03.320 align:middle line:84%
About this kid that
gets killed a car.

00:33:03.320 --> 00:33:06.645 align:middle line:90%

00:33:06.645 --> 00:33:08.070 align:middle line:90%
Killed in a car.

00:33:08.070 --> 00:33:11.870 align:middle line:90%

00:33:11.870 --> 00:33:13.403 align:middle line:90%
This is all your stuff, right.

00:33:13.403 --> 00:33:14.852 align:middle line:90%
Yeah, and I need it.

00:33:14.852 --> 00:33:18.240 align:middle line:90%
Well, here.

00:33:18.240 --> 00:33:19.560 align:middle line:90%
Where you going to put it?

00:33:19.560 --> 00:33:21.851 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t know.

00:33:21.851 --> 00:33:22.350 align:middle line:90%
Right there.

00:33:22.350 --> 00:33:25.140 align:middle line:90%

00:33:25.140 --> 00:33:29.120 align:middle line:84%
There\'s a three
bathroom for rent,

00:33:29.120 --> 00:33:32.480 align:middle line:84%
close to VSU, three bedroom,
basement, stove, refrigerator,

00:33:32.480 --> 00:33:36.310 align:middle line:90%
carpeting, 1717 North Martin.

00:33:36.310 --> 00:33:36.870 align:middle line:90%
Martin.

00:33:36.870 --> 00:33:43.860 align:middle line:90%
And it\'s $295 a month.

00:33:43.860 --> 00:33:46.800 align:middle line:90%
How does that sound?

00:33:46.800 --> 00:33:48.270 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t want to rent.

00:33:48.270 --> 00:33:55.587 align:middle line:90%

00:33:55.587 --> 00:33:58.170 align:middle line:84%
Now what I need you to do is I
need you to look straight ahead

00:33:58.170 --> 00:34:01.266 align:middle line:84%
for me and try not
to look down and I\'ll

00:34:01.266 --> 00:34:04.640 align:middle line:90%
get you down real quick.

00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:08.014 align:middle line:84%
So, are all the wedding
plans coming along OK?

00:34:08.014 --> 00:34:09.352 align:middle line:90%
Oh, I think so.

00:34:09.352 --> 00:34:12.194 align:middle line:90%
I hope so anyway.

00:34:12.194 --> 00:34:16.276 align:middle line:84%
It\'s hard to believe
this is the final week.

00:34:16.276 --> 00:34:17.639 align:middle line:90%
Is it next weekend?

00:34:17.639 --> 00:34:18.227 align:middle line:90%
This weekend?

00:34:18.227 --> 00:34:18.810 align:middle line:90%
Next Saturday.

00:34:18.810 --> 00:34:19.840 align:middle line:90%
Next Saturday.

00:34:19.840 --> 00:34:20.466 align:middle line:90%
I was thinking.

00:34:20.466 --> 00:34:20.965 align:middle line:90%
The 13th.

00:34:20.965 --> 00:34:22.573 align:middle line:84%
Want to turn a little
bit more for me?

00:34:22.573 --> 00:34:23.906 align:middle line:90%
Hard for me to keep track of it.

00:34:23.906 --> 00:34:32.590 align:middle line:90%

00:34:32.590 --> 00:34:33.835 align:middle line:90%
Can\'t find anything.

00:34:33.835 --> 00:34:37.162 align:middle line:90%

00:34:37.162 --> 00:34:38.610 align:middle line:90%
There\'s that.

00:34:38.610 --> 00:34:39.929 align:middle line:90%
There\'s what?

00:34:39.929 --> 00:34:43.760 align:middle line:84%
The thing about how much
it costs and everything.

00:34:43.760 --> 00:34:47.302 align:middle line:84%
There\'s a whole list of vows
and all that other stuff.

00:34:47.302 --> 00:34:48.850 align:middle line:90%
Where could it be?

00:34:48.850 --> 00:34:52.125 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t know.

00:34:52.125 --> 00:34:53.359 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t believe this.

00:34:53.359 --> 00:34:56.980 align:middle line:90%

00:34:56.980 --> 00:35:00.010 align:middle line:84%
It\'s important that you talk
through your good feelings

00:35:00.010 --> 00:35:01.880 align:middle line:90%
and your bad feelings.

00:35:01.880 --> 00:35:05.208 align:middle line:84%
And I think we talked about
the angry feelings last time,

00:35:05.208 --> 00:35:06.880 align:middle line:90%
didn\'t we?

00:35:06.880 --> 00:35:09.094 align:middle line:84%
And I said good
people, and most people

00:35:09.094 --> 00:35:10.510 align:middle line:84%
that get married
in the church are

00:35:10.510 --> 00:35:14.850 align:middle line:84%
very good people, good
people have a tendency

00:35:14.850 --> 00:35:19.550 align:middle line:84%
to run rather than to
fight when they have anger.

00:35:19.550 --> 00:35:22.920 align:middle line:84%
And so instead of dealing
with their differences

00:35:22.920 --> 00:35:26.670 align:middle line:84%
and working them through,
expressing their anger

00:35:26.670 --> 00:35:31.110 align:middle line:84%
and sharing that information
as to why you\'re upset,

00:35:31.110 --> 00:35:34.080 align:middle line:84%
the tendency of good people
is to run from each other.

00:35:34.080 --> 00:35:37.960 align:middle line:84%
And we talked about not doing
that but getting things out

00:35:37.960 --> 00:35:38.630 align:middle line:90%
in the open.

00:35:38.630 --> 00:35:41.440 align:middle line:84%
That\'s what we\'ve been hashing
over the last few days,

00:35:41.440 --> 00:35:47.905 align:middle line:84%
is the fact that we\'ve come down
from that blissful cloud when

00:35:47.905 --> 00:35:50.220 align:middle line:90%
we decided to get married.

00:35:50.220 --> 00:35:56.200 align:middle line:84%
And that details of school
and kids and preparations

00:35:56.200 --> 00:35:59.450 align:middle line:84%
and everything have
kind of robbed us

00:35:59.450 --> 00:36:01.020 align:middle line:90%
of those good feelings.

00:36:01.020 --> 00:36:03.280 align:middle line:84%
And they\'ve kind
of slipped away.

00:36:03.280 --> 00:36:09.870 align:middle line:84%
And we fight more
over dumb things,

00:36:09.870 --> 00:36:12.791 align:middle line:90%
just like married people.

00:36:12.791 --> 00:36:15.165 align:middle line:84%
And then maybe I\'ll settle
back into a nagging, old wife.

00:36:15.165 --> 00:36:18.250 align:middle line:90%

00:36:18.250 --> 00:36:19.820 align:middle line:90%
Take time to have fun.

00:36:19.820 --> 00:36:25.180 align:middle line:84%
It really, especially when you
are under a lot of pressure,

00:36:25.180 --> 00:36:29.780 align:middle line:84%
is-- see to it every
week that the two of you

00:36:29.780 --> 00:36:32.586 align:middle line:84%
have some time that you\'re with
each other just for the fun

00:36:32.586 --> 00:36:36.710 align:middle line:84%
of it, not because you have an
obligation, a responsibility,

00:36:36.710 --> 00:36:40.190 align:middle line:84%
and an even away
from your children.

00:36:40.190 --> 00:36:42.140 align:middle line:84%
And I realize it\'s
not that simple.

00:36:42.140 --> 00:36:45.450 align:middle line:84%
And realize that Christian
people also get divorces.

00:36:45.450 --> 00:36:51.336 align:middle line:84%
And after you\'re having gone
through unhappy marriage,

00:36:51.336 --> 00:36:52.710 align:middle line:84%
I know you\'re a
little frightened

00:36:52.710 --> 00:36:55.540 align:middle line:90%
about going into another.

00:36:55.540 --> 00:36:56.950 align:middle line:90%
Real frightened.

00:36:56.950 --> 00:36:59.750 align:middle line:84%
But if I can be of
help to you any time,

00:36:59.750 --> 00:37:03.550 align:middle line:84%
just come in and
see me and I just

00:37:03.550 --> 00:37:05.850 align:middle line:84%
know you\'re going to have
a good life together.

00:37:05.850 --> 00:37:07.802 align:middle line:90%
And I\'m happy for both of you.

00:37:07.802 --> 00:37:14.150 align:middle line:90%

00:37:14.150 --> 00:37:16.540 align:middle line:90%
We\'ve got to draw back.

00:37:16.540 --> 00:37:18.790 align:middle line:84%
And if we\'ve got to have
time, we\'ve got to have time.

00:37:18.790 --> 00:37:22.610 align:middle line:90%

00:37:22.610 --> 00:37:24.390 align:middle line:84%
If it isn\'t time
and it\'s not right

00:37:24.390 --> 00:37:28.610 align:middle line:84%
and it\'s not going to work,
we\'ve got to decide that.

00:37:28.610 --> 00:37:30.360 align:middle line:84%
Yeah, but how do you
know if a marriage is

00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.780 align:middle line:90%
going to work if you don\'t try?

00:37:32.780 --> 00:37:34.900 align:middle line:84%
It\'s like we\'ve
talked about before,

00:37:34.900 --> 00:37:37.520 align:middle line:90%
anybody can be an asset.

00:37:37.520 --> 00:37:40.400 align:middle line:90%
And anybody can be a liability.

00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:42.550 align:middle line:84%
Well, am I am asset
or a liability?

00:37:42.550 --> 00:37:43.530 align:middle line:90%
You\'re both.

00:37:43.530 --> 00:37:45.930 align:middle line:90%
You\'re both.

00:37:45.930 --> 00:37:48.680 align:middle line:90%
Just like I am both.

00:37:48.680 --> 00:37:52.380 align:middle line:84%
Do you want to come home every
evening and cook me a meal?

00:37:52.380 --> 00:37:54.130 align:middle line:90%
That\'s a liability.

00:37:54.130 --> 00:37:57.600 align:middle line:90%
That\'s part of taking on me.

00:37:57.600 --> 00:38:00.740 align:middle line:84%
That\'s what you did when you
had the kids, liabilities.

00:38:00.740 --> 00:38:02.390 align:middle line:90%
But they\'re assets too.

00:38:02.390 --> 00:38:05.140 align:middle line:84%
They feed that
stuff back to you.

00:38:05.140 --> 00:38:07.560 align:middle line:90%
That\'s another thing.

00:38:07.560 --> 00:38:09.400 align:middle line:90%
I\'m not going to cook.

00:38:09.400 --> 00:38:12.260 align:middle line:90%
Well, who make you the boss?

00:38:12.260 --> 00:38:14.800 align:middle line:84%
Who determines
what\'s woman\'s work?

00:38:14.800 --> 00:38:18.460 align:middle line:84%
Society dictates
what your job is.

00:38:18.460 --> 00:38:23.100 align:middle line:90%

00:38:23.100 --> 00:38:29.420 align:middle line:84%
And out of necessity, if I\'m
going to be the one working,

00:38:29.420 --> 00:38:33.770 align:middle line:84%
then I think that that
dictates what your job is.

00:38:33.770 --> 00:38:34.270 align:middle line:90%
Right.

00:38:34.270 --> 00:38:35.300 align:middle line:90%
But what if we both are?

00:38:35.300 --> 00:38:39.860 align:middle line:84%
Which is probably
going to be the case.

00:38:39.860 --> 00:38:42.240 align:middle line:90%
We\'ve already talked about this.

00:38:42.240 --> 00:38:43.041 align:middle line:90%
We already know.

00:38:43.041 --> 00:38:44.290 align:middle line:90%
But what if it doesn\'t happen?

00:38:44.290 --> 00:38:46.590 align:middle line:84%
It does-- who in the hell
was cleaning the living

00:38:46.590 --> 00:38:48.436 align:middle line:90%
room when you came home?

00:38:48.436 --> 00:38:48.935 align:middle line:90%
You were.

00:38:48.935 --> 00:38:50.980 align:middle line:90%
You\'re right.

00:38:50.980 --> 00:38:53.651 align:middle line:90%
Once every six months or so.

00:38:53.651 --> 00:38:59.910 align:middle line:90%

00:38:59.910 --> 00:39:07.180 align:middle line:84%
I\'ve got to do something
quick with what is happening.

00:39:07.180 --> 00:39:09.840 align:middle line:84%
Well, all I know is I don\'t
want to be married 10 more years

00:39:09.840 --> 00:39:10.850 align:middle line:90%
and get divorced.

00:39:10.850 --> 00:39:13.890 align:middle line:90%

00:39:13.890 --> 00:39:16.530 align:middle line:90%
Do you think that\'s what I want?

00:39:16.530 --> 00:39:19.840 align:middle line:84%
No, I don\'t think
that\'s what you want.

00:39:19.840 --> 00:39:21.853 align:middle line:84%
But I think that
it could happen.

00:39:21.853 --> 00:39:25.240 align:middle line:90%

00:39:25.240 --> 00:39:28.750 align:middle line:84%
I wouldn\'t marry you
if I thought that we

00:39:28.750 --> 00:39:31.700 align:middle line:90%
were going to get divorced.

00:39:31.700 --> 00:39:39.340 align:middle line:90%
But I only know one thing.

00:39:39.340 --> 00:39:42.810 align:middle line:84%
And that is that whatever
we are going to do,

00:39:42.810 --> 00:39:45.580 align:middle line:90%
we have got to decide--

00:39:45.580 --> 00:39:48.800 align:middle line:84%
I worry that, because
since one marriage failed,

00:39:48.800 --> 00:39:53.280 align:middle line:84%
that wasn\'t a bad
marriage particularly,

00:39:53.280 --> 00:39:58.060 align:middle line:84%
and I can see how easy they
can fail, it really worries me.

00:39:58.060 --> 00:40:01.510 align:middle line:84%
It\'s kind of a precious
and fragile thing.

00:40:01.510 --> 00:40:03.540 align:middle line:84%
Well, maybe it\'s just
the way that each of us

00:40:03.540 --> 00:40:09.010 align:middle line:84%
have dealt with our
own past marriages.

00:40:09.010 --> 00:40:13.100 align:middle line:84%
Marriage entails its
own kind of diplomacy.

00:40:13.100 --> 00:40:15.090 align:middle line:84%
You take on this
characteristic role

00:40:15.090 --> 00:40:17.690 align:middle line:84%
and that\'s what it\'s all about
and you play that part out,

00:40:17.690 --> 00:40:19.326 align:middle line:90%
whether you want to or not.

00:40:19.326 --> 00:40:23.670 align:middle line:84%
Not only am I legally liable
under a marriage contract,

00:40:23.670 --> 00:40:28.480 align:middle line:84%
I\'m morally, socially, in
every context I can think of,

00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:30.220 align:middle line:90%
I\'m liable to you.

00:40:30.220 --> 00:40:34.330 align:middle line:84%
That changes the context of
how I have to look at you.

00:40:34.330 --> 00:40:37.020 align:middle line:84%
Maybe your feelings,
do you-- is that--

00:40:37.020 --> 00:40:40.370 align:middle line:90%
Not in love, honey, not in love.

00:40:40.370 --> 00:40:42.200 align:middle line:84%
I love you the same
as I always loved you.

00:40:42.200 --> 00:40:45.750 align:middle line:84%
But I have more
responsibilities.

00:40:45.750 --> 00:40:47.110 align:middle line:90%
I go to school.

00:40:47.110 --> 00:40:48.180 align:middle line:90%
I work.

00:40:48.180 --> 00:40:51.384 align:middle line:84%
And I\'m taking on a family,
a ready-made family.

00:40:51.384 --> 00:40:53.300 align:middle line:84%
And I\'m not supposed to
be concerned about how

00:40:53.300 --> 00:40:54.640 align:middle line:90%
I\'m going to support it?

00:40:54.640 --> 00:40:57.010 align:middle line:84%
And I\'m going to continue
my education, how I\'m going

00:40:57.010 --> 00:40:59.300 align:middle line:90%
to continue my investments?

00:40:59.300 --> 00:41:06.072 align:middle line:84%
How I\'m going to supply even
a menial living for all of us?

00:41:06.072 --> 00:41:06.780 align:middle line:90%
And you\'re right.

00:41:06.780 --> 00:41:09.760 align:middle line:84%
I could dislodge myself and
disassociate myself from that

00:41:09.760 --> 00:41:13.010 align:middle line:84%
as long as you and I were
two separate individuals.

00:41:13.010 --> 00:41:15.080 align:middle line:84%
As long as you and
I have our lives

00:41:15.080 --> 00:41:17.850 align:middle line:84%
and our own little
worlds, so to speak,

00:41:17.850 --> 00:41:19.580 align:middle line:84%
we could share our
own little worlds.

00:41:19.580 --> 00:41:21.830 align:middle line:84%
But when you get married,
you don\'t do that.

00:41:21.830 --> 00:41:23.440 align:middle line:90%
Those worlds come together.

00:41:23.440 --> 00:41:24.260 align:middle line:90%
They become one.

00:41:24.260 --> 00:41:27.684 align:middle line:90%

00:41:27.684 --> 00:41:29.100 align:middle line:84%
I don\'t think there
is any answer,

00:41:29.100 --> 00:41:33.750 align:middle line:84%
there is any making
me feel better.

00:41:33.750 --> 00:41:37.947 align:middle line:84%
It\'s just something that I have
to deal with or not deal with.

00:41:37.947 --> 00:41:44.030 align:middle line:90%

00:41:44.030 --> 00:41:47.540 align:middle line:84%
And I think we both know
that there\'s no guarantee.

00:41:47.540 --> 00:41:50.610 align:middle line:90%

00:41:50.610 --> 00:41:52.710 align:middle line:84%
I think that\'s probably
what scares you the most.

00:41:52.710 --> 00:41:55.490 align:middle line:90%

00:41:55.490 --> 00:41:57.960 align:middle line:90%
Isn\'t it really?

00:41:57.960 --> 00:42:00.710 align:middle line:90%
That there\'s no guarantee?

00:42:00.710 --> 00:42:02.180 align:middle line:90%
Yeah.

00:42:02.180 --> 00:42:04.230 align:middle line:84%
I mean there is
in all the stories

00:42:04.230 --> 00:42:08.150 align:middle line:84%
and there is, just
like Scarlet\'s going

00:42:08.150 --> 00:42:09.340 align:middle line:90%
to get Rhett back.

00:42:09.340 --> 00:42:11.070 align:middle line:84%
You know, you\'re
bound and determined.

00:42:11.070 --> 00:42:12.640 align:middle line:84%
You believe that,
that\'s Scarlet\'s

00:42:12.640 --> 00:42:14.580 align:middle line:90%
going to get Rhett back.

00:42:14.580 --> 00:42:17.140 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t believe it.

00:42:17.140 --> 00:42:19.897 align:middle line:84%
50% of the people that
get married, get divorced.

00:42:19.897 --> 00:42:20.480 align:middle line:90%
You know that.

00:42:20.480 --> 00:42:23.400 align:middle line:90%
I know that.

00:42:23.400 --> 00:42:27.400 align:middle line:84%
Scarlett O\'Hara is not going
to get back Rhett Butler.

00:42:27.400 --> 00:42:31.025 align:middle line:84%
He told her to kiss
off and he meant it.

00:42:31.025 --> 00:42:47.880 align:middle line:90%

00:42:47.880 --> 00:42:49.020 align:middle line:90%
So what are we going to do?

00:42:49.020 --> 00:43:32.182 align:middle line:90%

00:43:32.182 --> 00:43:33.390 align:middle line:90%
I\'m going to be apprehensive.

00:43:33.390 --> 00:43:34.681 align:middle line:90%
There\'s just no doubt about it.

00:43:34.681 --> 00:43:37.720 align:middle line:90%

00:43:37.720 --> 00:43:39.095 align:middle line:90%
But--

00:43:39.095 --> 00:43:39.945 align:middle line:90%
But--

00:43:39.945 --> 00:43:41.220 align:middle line:90%
But what?

00:43:41.220 --> 00:43:45.576 align:middle line:84%
Well, just like
I said, I realize

00:43:45.576 --> 00:43:52.204 align:middle line:84%
that there may be
problems, but I\'m

00:43:52.204 --> 00:43:54.905 align:middle line:84%
willing to take that
chance, if you\'re

00:43:54.905 --> 00:43:58.350 align:middle line:84%
willing to under the
same circumstances,

00:43:58.350 --> 00:44:01.293 align:middle line:84%
knowing how I feel, if
you\'re willing to do that.

00:44:01.293 --> 00:44:05.030 align:middle line:84%
But I\'m not taking
the final-- I\'m not

00:44:05.030 --> 00:44:06.780 align:middle line:90%
going to say, OK, let\'s do it.

00:44:06.780 --> 00:44:09.482 align:middle line:84%
I want you to say,
OK, let\'s do it too.

00:44:09.482 --> 00:44:12.779 align:middle line:90%

00:44:12.779 --> 00:44:14.663 align:middle line:90%
[LAUGHING]

00:44:14.663 --> 00:44:16.734 align:middle line:90%
Yeah, that\'s a good question.

00:44:16.734 --> 00:44:17.900 align:middle line:90%
Why are you getting married?

00:44:17.900 --> 00:44:19.240 align:middle line:90%
Well, why should he not tell us?

00:44:19.240 --> 00:44:20.920 align:middle line:90%
Here at his bachelor party.

00:44:20.920 --> 00:44:21.990 align:middle line:90%
Hey.

00:44:21.990 --> 00:44:23.640 align:middle line:84%
Why did you decide
to get married now?

00:44:23.640 --> 00:44:26.920 align:middle line:84%
In 25 words or less, and by
God you better the answer.

00:44:26.920 --> 00:44:28.100 align:middle line:90%
And I\'m counting.

00:44:28.100 --> 00:44:29.150 align:middle line:90%
25 words or less.

00:44:29.150 --> 00:44:31.970 align:middle line:90%

00:44:31.970 --> 00:44:32.770 align:middle line:90%
That\'s five.

00:44:32.770 --> 00:44:34.555 align:middle line:90%
No, wait.

00:44:34.555 --> 00:44:35.390 align:middle line:90%
I\'m thinking first.

00:44:35.390 --> 00:44:37.170 align:middle line:84%
Give me-- I\'ll tell
you when to go.

00:44:37.170 --> 00:44:38.110 align:middle line:90%
25 words or less.

00:44:38.110 --> 00:44:39.318 align:middle line:90%
No, I\'ll tell you when to go.

00:44:39.318 --> 00:44:40.232 align:middle line:90%
25 words or less.

00:44:40.232 --> 00:44:41.670 align:middle line:84%
What are you
getting married for?

00:44:41.670 --> 00:44:45.280 align:middle line:90%
After seven long years.

00:44:45.280 --> 00:44:48.920 align:middle line:84%
She probably pushed him
towards that direction.

00:44:48.920 --> 00:44:50.490 align:middle line:90%
Would that be possible?

00:44:50.490 --> 00:44:52.115 align:middle line:90%
Is she just worried now or what?

00:44:52.115 --> 00:44:54.390 align:middle line:90%
I think she threatened him.

00:44:54.390 --> 00:44:55.800 align:middle line:90%
Just tell.

00:44:55.800 --> 00:44:57.540 align:middle line:90%
Come on.

00:44:57.540 --> 00:45:01.670 align:middle line:84%
Well, in Muncie,
Indiana, if you deviate

00:45:01.670 --> 00:45:03.500 align:middle line:84%
from the standard,
which is marriage,

00:45:03.500 --> 00:45:05.389 align:middle line:84%
you\'re going to be
looked upon as a deviant.

00:45:05.389 --> 00:45:06.930 align:middle line:84%
Why do you keep
changing the subject?

00:45:06.930 --> 00:45:08.100 align:middle line:90%
Why are you getting married?

00:45:08.100 --> 00:45:09.036 align:middle line:90%
The subject is marriage.

00:45:09.036 --> 00:45:10.280 align:middle line:90%
I\'m not changing the subject.

00:45:10.280 --> 00:45:12.488 align:middle line:84%
The subject is rather more
specific than that, David.

00:45:12.488 --> 00:45:16.635 align:middle line:84%
The subject why in the fuck
are you getting married, buddy?

00:45:16.635 --> 00:46:04.650 align:middle line:90%

00:46:04.650 --> 00:46:08.124 align:middle line:84%
Can you fall in love
after seven years?

00:46:08.124 --> 00:46:09.570 align:middle line:90%
Here we go.

00:46:09.570 --> 00:46:14.310 align:middle line:84%
I not like some other people
here, have been divorced.

00:46:14.310 --> 00:46:18.010 align:middle line:84%
I think your first marriage
impinges on your mind

00:46:18.010 --> 00:46:20.420 align:middle line:84%
a lot more than mine
ever did on mine.

00:46:20.420 --> 00:46:23.250 align:middle line:90%
It probably does.

00:46:23.250 --> 00:46:23.890 align:middle line:90%
Maybe that.

00:46:23.890 --> 00:46:25.027 align:middle line:90%
It probably does.

00:46:25.027 --> 00:46:27.360 align:middle line:84%
The first marriage then drove
away where it didn\'t last.

00:46:27.360 --> 00:46:29.720 align:middle line:90%
And now you--

00:46:29.720 --> 00:46:33.060 align:middle line:84%
I think that you would have
to include trust in that.

00:46:33.060 --> 00:46:36.040 align:middle line:84%
I think David was given her
tests all these years, knowing

00:46:36.040 --> 00:46:37.950 align:middle line:90%
David\'s rational mind.

00:46:37.950 --> 00:46:41.050 align:middle line:84%
A test, how much does she
cares about-- how much does she

00:46:41.050 --> 00:46:42.339 align:middle line:90%
care about him?

00:46:42.339 --> 00:46:42.880 align:middle line:90%
Right, David?

00:46:42.880 --> 00:46:44.440 align:middle line:84%
I wish I could
answer that, Mike.

00:46:44.440 --> 00:46:45.880 align:middle line:90%
I really do.

00:46:45.880 --> 00:46:47.140 align:middle line:90%
Just think about it.

00:46:47.140 --> 00:46:47.640 align:middle line:90%
Boy.

00:46:47.640 --> 00:46:50.970 align:middle line:90%

00:46:50.970 --> 00:46:54.320 align:middle line:84%
It\'s obvious, Mike,
that I love Elaine

00:46:54.320 --> 00:46:57.700 align:middle line:84%
and that I have for
quite some time.

00:46:57.700 --> 00:47:00.460 align:middle line:84%
You\'re right also in
that it took a long time,

00:47:00.460 --> 00:47:05.460 align:middle line:90%
you know, to trust, to believe.

00:47:05.460 --> 00:47:10.200 align:middle line:90%

00:47:10.200 --> 00:47:14.970 align:middle line:84%
But the main thing, the main
reason is that she\'s special

00:47:14.970 --> 00:47:17.740 align:middle line:84%
and that will always
be the main reason.

00:47:17.740 --> 00:47:20.780 align:middle line:84%
And like I said, that all of
you thought was so ironical,

00:47:20.780 --> 00:47:24.460 align:middle line:84%
was that she is a friend, which
is the most important quality

00:47:24.460 --> 00:47:27.410 align:middle line:84%
in my opinion that
two people can have,

00:47:27.410 --> 00:47:29.290 align:middle line:84%
whether they intend
to get married or not.

00:47:29.290 --> 00:47:32.470 align:middle line:84%
Because if you\'re
not friends, then I

00:47:32.470 --> 00:47:36.558 align:middle line:84%
don\'t think you stand a whole
hell of a chance to begin with.

00:47:36.558 --> 00:47:39.980 align:middle line:90%

00:47:39.980 --> 00:47:42.110 align:middle line:84%
Because you can be
in love and emotions

00:47:42.110 --> 00:47:45.880 align:middle line:84%
can come and go or fade
away with, you know,

00:47:45.880 --> 00:47:46.990 align:middle line:90%
trivial incidents.

00:47:46.990 --> 00:47:52.400 align:middle line:84%
But if you can talk and you
can communicate as friends,

00:47:52.400 --> 00:47:56.146 align:middle line:84%
then love has a tendency
of getting deeper.

00:47:56.146 --> 00:47:57.520 align:middle line:90%
That\'s the big problem.

00:47:57.520 --> 00:47:58.760 align:middle line:90%
You hit that on the head.

00:47:58.760 --> 00:47:59.580 align:middle line:90%
Don\'t look at me.

00:47:59.580 --> 00:48:01.420 align:middle line:84%
I mean, if you
believe it, that\'s--

00:48:01.420 --> 00:48:02.850 align:middle line:90%
I do believe it.

00:48:02.850 --> 00:48:04.182 align:middle line:90%
You got that right.

00:48:04.182 --> 00:48:05.670 align:middle line:90%
Right on.

00:48:05.670 --> 00:48:09.142 align:middle line:84%
We\'re ready to get down
to serious business.

00:48:09.142 --> 00:48:13.199 align:middle line:84%
We wish you happiness
and all that good stuff.

00:48:13.199 --> 00:48:15.131 align:middle line:84%
To happiness, love
and contentment.

00:48:15.131 --> 00:48:17.546 align:middle line:84%
May we never see you
on divorce court.

00:48:17.546 --> 00:48:20.444 align:middle line:90%
[LAUGHING]

00:48:20.444 --> 00:48:22.390 align:middle line:90%
Toast.

00:48:22.390 --> 00:48:24.712 align:middle line:90%
To your future.

00:48:24.712 --> 00:48:26.194 align:middle line:90%
Congratulations.

00:48:26.194 --> 00:48:28.164 align:middle line:90%
To love.

00:48:28.164 --> 00:48:28.664 align:middle line:90%
To Elaine.

00:48:28.664 --> 00:48:31.134 align:middle line:90%
To Elaine.

00:48:31.134 --> 00:48:32.122 align:middle line:90%
Til death do you part.

00:48:32.122 --> 00:48:33.564 align:middle line:90%
You better believe it.

00:48:33.564 --> 00:48:34.980 align:middle line:84%
I\'m glad he added
that in the end.

00:48:34.980 --> 00:48:38.445 align:middle line:90%

00:48:38.445 --> 00:48:40.425 align:middle line:90%
[THUNDER]

00:48:40.425 --> 00:48:43.400 align:middle line:90%

00:48:43.400 --> 00:48:45.970 align:middle line:84%
Elaine said this morning
that they had thunderstorms

00:48:45.970 --> 00:48:46.620 align:middle line:90%
predicted.

00:48:46.620 --> 00:48:50.342 align:middle line:90%
I said, oh that\'s just great.

00:48:50.342 --> 00:48:52.960 align:middle line:84%
Oh, Mother, I\'m as
nervous as Dave is.

00:48:52.960 --> 00:48:53.920 align:middle line:90%
I swear.

00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:55.510 align:middle line:84%
I been pretty calm
through all this.

00:48:55.510 --> 00:48:57.675 align:middle line:84%
Think you were getting
married instead of Dave.

00:48:57.675 --> 00:48:59.074 align:middle line:90%
Well, I wish I were.

00:48:59.074 --> 00:49:00.042 align:middle line:90%
Well, where\'s your guy?

00:49:00.042 --> 00:49:01.010 align:middle line:90%
I don\'t know.

00:49:01.010 --> 00:49:01.978 align:middle line:90%
Haven\'t found him yet.

00:49:01.978 --> 00:49:04.882 align:middle line:90%

00:49:04.882 --> 00:49:06.500 align:middle line:84%
Boy, it\'d be nice
to have somebody

00:49:06.500 --> 00:49:09.494 align:middle line:84%
to go to dinner with once
in a while and go someplace.

00:49:09.494 --> 00:49:13.958 align:middle line:90%

00:49:13.958 --> 00:49:15.942 align:middle line:90%
Well.

00:49:15.942 --> 00:49:17.926 align:middle line:90%
[PHONE RINGS]

00:49:17.926 --> 00:49:23.382 align:middle line:90%

00:49:23.382 --> 00:49:24.870 align:middle line:90%
It has to be in here.

00:49:24.870 --> 00:49:28.342 align:middle line:90%

00:49:28.342 --> 00:49:29.334 align:middle line:90%
Shit.

00:49:29.334 --> 00:49:34.294 align:middle line:90%
Well, she\'s done God knows what.

00:49:34.294 --> 00:49:35.286 align:middle line:90%
Hello?

00:49:35.286 --> 00:49:36.290 align:middle line:90%
Hello there.

00:49:36.290 --> 00:49:36.960 align:middle line:90%
How you doing?

00:49:36.960 --> 00:49:39.080 align:middle line:84%
Things are getting
really hectic right now.

00:49:39.080 --> 00:49:41.740 align:middle line:90%
I went to bed about 3:30.

00:49:41.740 --> 00:49:44.680 align:middle line:90%
He lost his father with cancer.

00:49:44.680 --> 00:49:49.090 align:middle line:84%
And he would be so proud today
if he could have been here.

00:49:49.090 --> 00:49:52.050 align:middle line:90%

00:49:52.050 --> 00:49:52.936 align:middle line:90%
I love you.

00:49:52.936 --> 00:49:54.560 align:middle line:84%
Yeah, don\'t forget
to get the presents.

00:49:54.560 --> 00:49:55.059 align:middle line:90%
Goodbye.

00:49:55.059 --> 00:50:05.620 align:middle line:90%

00:50:05.620 --> 00:50:08.000 align:middle line:90%
Did you find it Jeff?

00:50:08.000 --> 00:50:09.790 align:middle line:90%
Michael, go get your stuff.

00:50:09.790 --> 00:50:11.790 align:middle line:84%
OK, but listen, do you
need these short sleeve

00:50:11.790 --> 00:50:13.300 align:middle line:90%
shirts with you?

00:50:13.300 --> 00:50:16.290 align:middle line:84%
Yeah, but we\'re going
to take an iron.

00:50:16.290 --> 00:50:17.545 align:middle line:90%
We\'re going to take an iron.

00:50:17.545 --> 00:50:19.170 align:middle line:84%
You\'re going to iron
on your honeymoon?

00:50:19.170 --> 00:50:20.942 align:middle line:84%
We\'re going to iron
on our honeymoon.

00:50:20.942 --> 00:50:22.900 align:middle line:84%
I\'ll be darned if I would
iron on my honeymoon.

00:50:22.900 --> 00:50:25.060 align:middle line:90%
Well,

00:50:25.060 --> 00:50:27.760 align:middle line:90%
And put that in the car.

00:50:27.760 --> 00:50:29.269 align:middle line:90%
I can sit.

00:50:29.269 --> 00:50:30.560 align:middle line:90%
I probably don\'t have the keys.

00:50:30.560 --> 00:50:33.060 align:middle line:84%
I never knew things were
going to be this hectic.

00:50:33.060 --> 00:50:34.960 align:middle line:90%
My life is very dull in Tuscon.

00:50:34.960 --> 00:50:37.940 align:middle line:84%
So this is very
interesting to me.

00:50:37.940 --> 00:50:42.600 align:middle line:84%
I\'ve got to cool down
somewhere, sometime.

00:50:42.600 --> 00:50:44.962 align:middle line:84%
You think David\'s going
to treat you different?

00:50:44.962 --> 00:50:46.886 align:middle line:90%
Ah.

00:50:46.886 --> 00:50:50.253 align:middle line:84%
You think you\'ll
treat him different?

00:50:50.253 --> 00:50:53.630 align:middle line:90%
Same old David?

00:50:53.630 --> 00:50:56.260 align:middle line:84%
So now he\'s been
promoted to Dad.

00:50:56.260 --> 00:50:59.070 align:middle line:84%
When Dave was first
married, we though it

00:50:59.070 --> 00:51:00.940 align:middle line:84%
would make a nice
wedding present.

00:51:00.940 --> 00:51:02.820 align:middle line:84%
But the marriage
did not work out.

00:51:02.820 --> 00:51:08.780 align:middle line:84%
License, drinks,
bank, rings, boys.

00:51:08.780 --> 00:51:11.000 align:middle line:84%
And therefore, I still
have the crystal.

00:51:11.000 --> 00:51:13.343 align:middle line:84%
So we\'re going to
try again to give it

00:51:13.343 --> 00:51:14.740 align:middle line:90%
to him as a wedding present.

00:51:14.740 --> 00:51:19.982 align:middle line:84%
I\'m sure he feels that the
second time around that um--

00:51:19.982 --> 00:51:21.223 align:middle line:90%
I\'m gorgeous.

00:51:21.223 --> 00:51:22.430 align:middle line:90%
I\'m the bride.

00:51:22.430 --> 00:51:22.930 align:middle line:90%
Elaine?

00:51:22.930 --> 00:51:25.666 align:middle line:90%

00:51:25.666 --> 00:51:27.490 align:middle line:90%
Is there anything else?

00:51:27.490 --> 00:51:29.280 align:middle line:90%
That\'s it.

00:51:29.280 --> 00:51:31.244 align:middle line:84%
Now, I\'m beginning
to get nervous.

00:51:31.244 --> 00:51:33.840 align:middle line:84%
You know what we\'re not
going to have time for?

00:51:33.840 --> 00:51:36.860 align:middle line:90%
No, I don\'t.

00:51:36.860 --> 00:51:38.490 align:middle line:90%
Boy, I hope that rain holds off.

00:51:38.490 --> 00:51:41.710 align:middle line:90%

00:51:41.710 --> 00:51:43.550 align:middle line:90%
I\'m still calm.

00:51:43.550 --> 00:51:45.070 align:middle line:90%
I\'m sure you are.

00:51:45.070 --> 00:51:45.642 align:middle line:90%
I am.

00:51:45.642 --> 00:51:46.475 align:middle line:90%
You act calm, David.

00:51:46.475 --> 00:51:46.975 align:middle line:90%
I am.

00:51:46.975 --> 00:51:47.960 align:middle line:90%
I\'m serious.

00:51:47.960 --> 00:51:48.830 align:middle line:90%
Look at this.

00:51:48.830 --> 00:51:50.206 align:middle line:90%
Steady as a rock.

00:51:50.206 --> 00:51:51.664 align:middle line:90%
Don\'t mean a thing.

00:51:51.664 --> 00:51:53.122 align:middle line:90%
I hope she doesn\'t start crying.

00:51:53.122 --> 00:51:54.094 align:middle line:90%
I hope so too.

00:51:54.094 --> 00:51:59.930 align:middle line:90%

00:51:59.930 --> 00:52:03.230 align:middle line:84%
Now, we\'re going to start
taking the pictures at 12:30.

00:52:03.230 --> 00:52:06.070 align:middle line:84%
Well, they can\'t do
pictures without us.

00:52:06.070 --> 00:52:07.332 align:middle line:90%
Yeah, we talked about that.

00:52:07.332 --> 00:52:10.530 align:middle line:90%

00:52:10.530 --> 00:52:12.150 align:middle line:90%
Do you need help, Elaine?

00:52:12.150 --> 00:52:13.110 align:middle line:90%
Well, [INAUDIBLE].

00:52:13.110 --> 00:52:17.735 align:middle line:90%

00:52:17.735 --> 00:52:19.200 align:middle line:90%
Am I ready for this?

00:52:19.200 --> 00:52:19.870 align:middle line:90%
Oh, no.

00:52:19.870 --> 00:52:20.730 align:middle line:90%
That\'s the question.

00:52:20.730 --> 00:52:23.597 align:middle line:90%

00:52:23.597 --> 00:52:24.097 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:52:24.097 --> 00:52:27.510 align:middle line:90%
I need my shoes.

00:52:27.510 --> 00:52:29.220 align:middle line:90%
I\'ve got to cool down.

00:52:29.220 --> 00:52:30.705 align:middle line:90%
Shirt\'s a little long.

00:52:30.705 --> 00:52:34.170 align:middle line:90%

00:52:34.170 --> 00:52:36.645 align:middle line:90%
There is one bobby pin.

00:52:36.645 --> 00:52:38.130 align:middle line:90%
I can\'t get this.

00:52:38.130 --> 00:52:39.062 align:middle line:90%
Yeah, you can.

00:52:39.062 --> 00:52:39.978 align:middle line:90%
You almost got it now.

00:52:39.978 --> 00:52:42.966 align:middle line:90%

00:52:42.966 --> 00:52:45.954 align:middle line:90%
You got a lovely daughter there.

00:52:45.954 --> 00:52:47.448 align:middle line:90%
Just like that now.

00:52:47.448 --> 00:52:50.436 align:middle line:90%
Nice smiles.

00:52:50.436 --> 00:52:52.428 align:middle line:90%
Ouch.

00:52:52.428 --> 00:52:53.922 align:middle line:90%
I\'m going to have a cigarette.

00:52:53.922 --> 00:52:59.400 align:middle line:90%

00:52:59.400 --> 00:53:00.894 align:middle line:90%
How do I look?

00:53:00.894 --> 00:53:03.882 align:middle line:90%

00:53:03.882 --> 00:53:07.000 align:middle line:90%
You look gorgeous.

00:53:07.000 --> 00:53:11.576 align:middle line:84%
Sounds like that music\'s
getting serious out there to me.

00:53:11.576 --> 00:53:12.573 align:middle line:90%
Should be.

00:53:12.573 --> 00:53:13.073 align:middle line:90%
Yeah.

00:53:13.073 --> 00:53:24.570 align:middle line:90%

00:53:24.570 --> 00:53:25.986 align:middle line:90%
How do you feel?

00:53:25.986 --> 00:53:26.950 align:middle line:90%
Not bad.

00:53:26.950 --> 00:53:27.450 align:middle line:90%
Not bad.

00:53:27.450 --> 00:53:32.830 align:middle line:90%

00:53:32.830 --> 00:53:34.648 align:middle line:90%
See you down there.

00:53:34.648 --> 00:53:37.142 align:middle line:90%
Do I go out now?

00:53:37.142 --> 00:53:37.642 align:middle line:90%
I do?

00:53:37.642 --> 00:53:54.109 align:middle line:90%

00:53:54.109 --> 00:53:56.604 align:middle line:90%
[ORGAN MUSIC]

00:53:56.604 --> 00:54:29.039 align:middle line:90%

00:54:29.039 --> 00:54:32.033 align:middle line:90%
[MUSIC - \"HERE COMES THE BRIDE\"]

00:54:32.033 --> 00:55:19.500 align:middle line:90%

00:55:19.500 --> 00:55:22.650 align:middle line:90%
In token and pledge.

00:55:22.650 --> 00:55:23.980 align:middle line:90%
In token and in pledge.

00:55:23.980 --> 00:55:25.760 align:middle line:90%
Of our constant faith.

00:55:25.760 --> 00:55:27.340 align:middle line:90%
Of our cost of faith.

00:55:27.340 --> 00:55:28.430 align:middle line:90%
And abiding love.

00:55:28.430 --> 00:55:29.940 align:middle line:90%
And abiding love.

00:55:29.940 --> 00:55:32.000 align:middle line:90%
With this ring, we are wed.

00:55:32.000 --> 00:55:34.280 align:middle line:90%
With this ring, we are wed.

00:55:34.280 --> 00:55:39.740 align:middle line:84%
In the name of the Father and of
the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

00:55:39.740 --> 00:55:42.620 align:middle line:90%
I David, take thee, Elaine.

00:55:42.620 --> 00:55:45.020 align:middle line:90%
I Elaine, take you, David,

00:55:45.020 --> 00:55:47.640 align:middle line:84%
To be my wife from
this time onward.

00:55:47.640 --> 00:55:49.640 align:middle line:84%
To be my husband from
this time onward.

00:55:49.640 --> 00:55:51.660 align:middle line:90%
To join with you,

00:55:51.660 --> 00:55:53.020 align:middle line:90%
To join with you,

00:55:53.020 --> 00:55:55.420 align:middle line:84%
And to share all
that is to come.

00:55:55.420 --> 00:55:58.440 align:middle line:84%
To give and to
receive, and to speak

00:55:58.440 --> 00:56:00.730 align:middle line:84%
and to listen, and
in all of our life

00:56:00.730 --> 00:56:04.410 align:middle line:84%
together to be loyal to
you, with all my being.

00:56:04.410 --> 00:56:05.310 align:middle line:90%
Amen.

00:56:05.310 --> 00:56:06.810 align:middle line:90%
Amen.

00:56:06.810 --> 00:56:09.560 align:middle line:90%
[MUSIC - \"WEDDING MARCH\"]

00:56:09.560 --> 00:58:02.775 align:middle line:90%

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