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The most important thing

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about me

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and for me right now is that I’m going
to have a baby in about eight weeks.

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It’s my first child and I’m
very, very happy about it.

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It’s tremendously important to me. The
trouble is that I want to have the baby

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in a particular way. I
want to have the baby

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with my husband’s help.

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That is through the labor, I want
my husband to be coaching me.

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And I want him there when I deliver.

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And he wants… he wants to do this thing.
And I don’t want any anesthetic.

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I don’t want any kind of drugs to

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modify my consciousness or my sensation.

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[sil.]

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Contraction is over. Less than 30 seconds.

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I did it in 30 seconds? Hmm…Umm… Okay.

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I just don’t see why
giving birth shouldn’t be

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something that could be carried out
by two adult human beings together,

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I mean, parents of the
child with a minimum of…

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of medical intervention.
Contraction beginning.

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Breathe. Once more.

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Deep one this time.

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Push. Push, push. Elbows up.

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Relax the floor. Relax the floor.
Push, push, push.

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That’s good. Push, push. Relax your floor.

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Fine. Push. Don’t push. Pant.

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Pant blow.

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[sil.]

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Contraction is over.

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Also I don’t see why it should be
painful, a strain, a lot of work.

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It’s much better for the baby if it
has… if the mother hasn’t been grunt.

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The respiration is better. It’s general…

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general physical condition is better.
Also it’s better for the mother

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at least in the sense of aftereffects.

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One can… Well, I’ve heard of women who
had babies going through Lamaze method,

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haven’t had anesthetic. They can urinate
on their own after they’ve had their baby.

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They’re not paralyzed or to be
catheterized for a day or so afterwards.

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They’re generally more comfortable. They
can often walk out of the delivery room

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although they’re very tired and need rest. They’re
not… They’re not traumatized in the way that women

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are when they had to have anesthetic

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and intervention at different times.

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[sil.]

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50 seconds.

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[sil.]

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Contraction is over.

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Your shoulders were a little tense. Here?
Yeah. Right by the neck. (inaudible), yeah.

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Umm…hmm… You were tense and the
contraction-relaxation (inaudible). Up here?

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Up there. Hmm… Probably
because it’s so cold.

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May be. (inaudible) is a monster.

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We got the movie. It really makes
sense to me. It really sounds good

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to have my husband be with me,
and be knowledgeable participant

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in the birth of our child.

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And by training according to this
method, he learns as much as I do.

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And… And really it has a
great deal of control

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over the conduct of my labor. And it really
can help me to maintain control over myself

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and attend to the business that will help
to get to the baby born easily as possible.

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Left leg. Contract. Relax.

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Right leg.

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Contract. Seems bit of stiff. Stiff?

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Umm… I got confused. Right leg.

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Contract. Relax.

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Right arm and right leg.

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Contract. Relax.

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Left arm and left leg. Contract.

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Relax. At this time, it’s
impossible in Chicago

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to have what I want. As far as I know, the hospital
regulation is supposed to be being changed

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but that will permit fathers in the delivery room, but
still the details of that haven’t been worked out.

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And my husband and I are trying
to go to Kenosha, Wisconsin,

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which is about an hour-and-a-half’s
drive from here and…

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and talk to the medical staff
in the… the hospital there.

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Friends of ours just had a baby there according
to this method and it was very successful.

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Most of the stories about birth
that you hear, that women hear,

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are stories about failures,
like… The baby’s… (inaudible).

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He’s fine. Ah… This book,
Awake and Aware by Chabon,

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makes the statement that it’s only 5%
of births that have complications.

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But it’s those 5% that get… It’s the
stories of those 5% that get repeated

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to young girls over and over again. Nobody ever
bothers to tell anybody about the nice experience.

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I mean, I told a friend of mine after it
happened, it was a wonderful experience,

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and I felt no pain, and Richard and I had a grand
time together. And she said, \"Oh you dreamer!\"

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Yeah, this is a (inaudible). And I said, \"Well, why would I
lie to you?\" Yeah. \"This is a week after the baby was born.

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Why would I lie to you that I felt no pain?\" The baby was
born on Monday. Toni left the hospital on Wednesday.

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And Thursday, we went to a (inaudible) sale out in Oak Park. With the
baby? Yeah, with the baby. She’ll never miss a (inaudible) sale,

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you know, under any circumstances. (inaudible).
Yeah, right, that’s true. So we get out there

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and there’s all ladies, you know, \"Three-day-old baby, what she’s
doing up and around? God, damn it, I was in bed for 14 weeks!\"

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You know, and I said, \"No, you know, it’s
possible to have a baby without any pain.

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You get up and… and walk off the delivery table.\"
You know, and I pulled out the picture of Toni

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and I standing by the delivery table. \"Oh, it’s
rigged!\" You know. Here comes the time when

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the wife and husband have
to put the complete faith

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in their doctor. There is a
time I feel it is all things,

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husband, father,

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all things. I myself feel like
I have two lives in my hands.

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Man, this is 1967, the complications
aren’t what they were

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ten years ago. But with improved
subjective care we have

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reduced the maternal
mortality, fetal mortality.

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And I just sort of feel that there is that
much to be gained. The one doctor we went to

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at first said he would it. That he
was in favor of the Lamaze method.

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And then we asked him if I
could be in the delivery room.

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And he said, \"Well, you
don’t wanna be there?\"

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You know. \"It’s no fun.\" And I said, \"Well, you know, I wanna be there. It’s part of the Lamaze
method.\" And you know… The average woman likes to be modest even in front of her husband.

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I have had four daughters born.

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I was present only as far
as I accompanied my wife

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into the delivery room. It is not that I was afraid
of what was going to happen. I had complete trust

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in the obstetrician who is caring for her.
But still there’s this violation of modesty

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when a woman is giving birth to a child.
The natural pressure of the head

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or the presenting part, as
it descends into the pelvis,

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forces urine out of the bladder. If there are any
feces in the rectum that have not been removed by

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previous cleansing methods, these
are spilling over the perineum.

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And in some women, this is not too an attractive sight
which they would like their husband to witness,

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somebody who they… whose
feelings they cherish highly.

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They just don’t want anybody else to see
them at it, you know, I mean, they avoid us.

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And they’re little embarrassed, you know. I told
the obstetrician that I’ve been seeing in Chicago

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after I had the baby and told him that I had it,
and how I had it, and what happened. And he said,

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\"Oh, that’s like hypnotism!\" And I said,
\"No, it’s really not like hypnotism at all.\"

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And he said, \"Oh well, it’s just a word. It’s… They… They
just call it, and it’s just the word I know, I understand.\"

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And I could tell that obviously he didn’t
understand. (inaudible) needle behind his back.

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Like the nice kindly grandfather, who
was gonna help the patient repress

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any kind of fear she had about childbirth rather
than go through an educator about the birth process,

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you know, and helped her to take some active
part in it. He would just kind of, you know,

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soothe her and say, everything is gonna be alright, and treat
her like a nice granddaughter. And then when the time came

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anesthetize her and… and drag the baby out.

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And afterwards she’ll wake up and everything would
be fine as far as she was concerned at any time.

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Conman leading someone down an alley, it’s like that. Yeah, exactly. I’m
sure, that’s right. Oh no, I know don’t and they turn on your bonkers.

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I have seen husbands become
excited in the labor section,

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because their wives were experiencing pain. Even though
that we institute procedures to alleviate the pain

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such as paracervical walk during
the first stage of labor,

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which occurs in the labor room, we
institute procedures of alleviating pain

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also by giving them injections
of barbiturates or narcotics

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to lessen the conscious perception of pain.
But sometimes even that isn’t enough

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if you get a husband occasionally,
somebody misbehaves and perhaps

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to relive his feeling, he indulges
in alcoholic beverages in occasion.

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Even in the hospital, it might be necessary
to have the police or the security

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people of the hospital and remove
a father from the labor section.

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Not that there is any traumatic procedures
instituted in the care of his wife, but supposedly

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the woman is hemorrhaging, it is
necessary to institute packing

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or it is necessary to introduce
the examiner’s hand into

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the uterus to remove remain products
of conception. He might take offence

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at such action and even become attack

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someone of the personnel in the operating
room. I think that as a physician,

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my interest in natural childbirth, well,

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it came to me as a father before I
was interested in it as a physician.

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But I… I think

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that properly understood, it’s the
easiest and safest method of childbirth.

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This appeals to me. My wife’s
deliveries, four deliveries,

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were the first experience that I really had with
natural childbirth. And I’m also a physician,

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and I was unprepared. I’ve never seen a spontaneous
delivery. There are many obstetricians

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who’ve never seen a spontaneous delivery except by
accident. And I think highly of doctors as a group,

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but we do certainly

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have our limitations. And for one thing,

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when we speak of treatment to the doctor of
the 1960s, he immediately mentally translates

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this to mean medications or drugs.
The obstetrician, I’m afraid,

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generally thinks of himself as the
central figure in the delivery room,

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the commander of the ship, the Walter
Mitty, you know, that sort of thing.

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And for him to be demoted

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to a baby catcher, with the woman

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being the central figure, this
is more than many can take.

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And believe me, they get… we
get, I must include myself here,

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we get an endless amount of
adulation from the patient.

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And this is very easy to take.

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Being passive gets drilled into
people who go the American hospitals,

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because it’s a lot easier to deal with passive
people if you’re in a hospital. I mean this is,

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I think, what your argument is in a way, that
it’s much easier for the medical profession.

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If you come into a hospital and you’re completely
passive, you know, you laid a limb on the stretcher,

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they can do something with you. And it’s a shame, because it need
not be that way. I don’t know whose job it is to educate people

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who are ignorant. I think large part
of the responsibility has to go on

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the shoulders of the people themselves, you know. I
mean, they… like a movie, you can show them in a movie,

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but then what? Umm…hmm… You know. It’s like in the movie
you’re not gonna go through the six lessons of childbirth,

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you know, refer him to the sources,
tell him to read Bing’s book,

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or read Lamaze’s book, or read (inaudible)
book, or read Bradley’s book, you know,

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or… or write to us, or write to you or something,
you know. But people have to be active,

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that’s all are part of it too. Take some initiative at some point. It’s
like… That’s the whole thing, no longer being passive in the birth process.

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What you’re going to do now? I don’t know.
I’d like… Well,

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we’re going to go to Kenosha and see about
them. Umm… I think what I like is to have,

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I’d like to see Greg and have him examine
me and talk to him about what he things

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could be done in Chicago. In the Public
Health Office here in Chicago, I understand

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from the newspaper has said that in
Chicago, fathers, germy old fathers

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would cause all sorts of infections, will
not be admitted to the delivery rooms.

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Oh! So, that’s across the board in Chicago. The
hospitals don’t have a choice in Chicago now.

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No, no, no. Well, (inaudible) but apparently not.
You went to see this doctor in Chicago, when?

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Well… Well, I started seeing him immediately after the
last time I saw you. Before that I was seeing Dr. Lash.

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And I decided I didn’t wanna
continue even for a prenatal care.

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So, Dr. Gregory White, he understands

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that we’re coming here and so on. And,
you know, I’m probably seeing him

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after the baby was born in Chicago… Okay. …for that
postnatal check. Good, good. That’s fine. Did he weigh you?

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Yes, he weighed me last week.
Was there any gain?

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I’ve gained about 27 pounds since I became
pregnant. He examined to check your urine?

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Yes. Did you bring me or any (inaudible)? I did bring and the
nurse took it. Good, that’s fine. And so you should have them.

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You feel okay? No (inaudible).
No headaches?

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No nausea or vomiting? Any backache?

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Just slightly, very slightly. Did you
notice that your tummy is going down?

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Ah…hah… And you feel something here.
Press that hard.

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Huh. That side. That side. Oh yeah. Oh, it’s really
hard. Do you feel it really? It’s hard, yeah. Sure.

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I was afraid to push too hard that’s all. In the
nine months of pregnancy, on the first baby,

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the head first gets to be fixed.
Nothing can move it.

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Then it goes lower. The boning structure

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of your pelvis surrounds the head. This
is when the head is engaged. I see, yeah.

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Umm…hmm… So it has… The engagement is this,
like people, they put engagement rings,

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why you got it, you know, they’re struck,
that’s it. That’s it, no going back.

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And this is, the part
that I am feeling now,

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is the bridge of the baby. I do feel these
extremities here, on your right side,

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which means that the baby’s back is on the left
side. And this is where I put my stethoscope

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to listen for your baby.
Through the back of our baby.

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Through the back is the easiest way.
I can hear your baby’s beat.

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(inaudible). Yes. So he can…

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[sil.]

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The baby’s heartbeat is about
close to that one of your wife.

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Yes. So, when… we almost
don’t make any mistakes.

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And my feelings… (inaudible). That’s right. Hmm…hmm…
If we do have any question mark in our minds,

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we do take the patient’s pulse in the same time. Yes, that’s
what I was going to say. So if there is any difference on

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the amount of the beeps that we listen…

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we hear every minute. I cannot tell you

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if it is a boy or a girl though. No
way, yeah. Whatever it is, it’s yours.

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Whatever it is, it’s what? It’s yours.
Yes. And you better take it. Yes.

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If you go into labor… Umm…hmm…
…okay, wait until the contractions,

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they are 10 minutes apart, they do less

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about 30 seconds. Umm…hmm… And they
are regular for only one hour drive.

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[sil.]

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I think it stopped.

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What the watch? Well, what’s going on?

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It sometimes sticks. (inaudible) movie?

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Certainly. Let’s just come down later.

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Well, what’s (inaudible)?

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(inaudible) when you’re comfortable.
Oh boy! Well, it’s pretty slow.

00:19:45.000 --> 00:19:49.999
We’ll be through it when
it’s time for it to be over.

00:19:50.000 --> 00:19:54.999
6:15 or something, which is when
all the traffic will clear out.

00:19:55.000 --> 00:19:59.999
You’re trying to take an
optimistic view (inaudible).

00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:04.999
[sil.]

00:20:05.000 --> 00:20:09.999
Right. In New York, they handle the lanes. It’s found
in the center of the street, like an ambulance lane

00:20:10.000 --> 00:20:14.999
that when you cars have to just pull away. I
mean, here, if it was serious, no one can move.

00:20:15.000 --> 00:20:19.999
[sil.]

00:20:20.000 --> 00:20:24.999
I think I need to start breathing.
You have the pillow? Yeah.

00:20:25.000 --> 00:20:29.999
Why don’t you relax. Ah…huh…
I don’t know what I want.

00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:34.999
Okay. You just to do deep… the
deep breathing. (inaudible).

00:20:35.000 --> 00:20:43.000
[sil.]

00:21:00.000 --> 00:21:04.999
I guess if we get on to (inaudible),

00:21:05.000 --> 00:21:09.999
it’ll clear up a little bit.

00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:18.000
[sil.]

00:21:20.000 --> 00:21:24.999
What’s the reading? Five minutes. Five minutes
between? Uh…huh… Well, it’s a nice regular,

00:21:25.000 --> 00:21:29.999
so that’s good. Are you
sure what we’re doing?

00:21:30.000 --> 00:21:34.999
(inaudible). I mean, it’s
like they’re doing more.

00:21:35.000 --> 00:21:39.999
[sil.]

00:21:40.000 --> 00:21:44.999
The down time.

00:21:45.000 --> 00:21:50.000
[sil.]

00:21:55.000 --> 00:22:03.000
[sil.]

00:22:05.000 --> 00:22:09.999
There you go.

00:22:10.000 --> 00:22:14.999
We still have about an hour.

00:22:15.000 --> 00:22:23.000
[sil.]

00:22:35.000 --> 00:22:39.999
I don’t wanna hurt anyone. Huh? I don’t
wanna hurt anyone. (inaudible). Yeah.

00:22:40.000 --> 00:22:44.999
The physician (inaudible).

00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:49.999
Something to assist me.

00:22:50.000 --> 00:22:54.999
I didn’t think this long. (inaudible).

00:22:55.000 --> 00:23:03.000
[sil.]

00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:44.999
Don’t worry about that. Put your coat on.

00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:49.999
Okay. Well, let’s go… better go right in.
Okay. Yeah. It was (inaudible)

00:23:50.000 --> 00:23:54.999
minute long (inaudible) pretty intense.
Okay, you wanna come up there.

00:23:55.000 --> 00:23:59.999
Okay. You wanna go there (inaudible)?

00:24:00.000 --> 00:24:04.999
Ah… Maybe I should settle her first.

00:24:05.000 --> 00:24:13.000
[sil.]

00:24:25.000 --> 00:24:29.999
There’s always the tough one and you won’t
see what the nature does. (inaudible).

00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:34.999
That’s the… You are having
one contraction now.

00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:39.999
Did you time now how long
they’re lasting? Umm…hmm…

00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:44.999
Let it go. That’s a good contraction.

00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:49.999
That’s a good, good contraction. Yeah.

00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:54.999
35 seconds. Perfect.

00:24:55.000 --> 00:24:59.999
You see how you probably get like a (inaudible),
doesn’t it? It’s about to go now. It’s good.

00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:04.999
(inaudible). It’s good. It’s the main thing that
you have the contraction you know it’s there.

00:25:05.000 --> 00:25:09.999
And if you don’t have a (inaudible),
just normal, that’s it. Yes, yes.

00:25:10.000 --> 00:25:14.999
It’s only for 35 seconds (inaudible) you might be a
little uncomfortable (inaudible) contraction. Yes.

00:25:15.000 --> 00:25:19.999
(inaudible) intense after
they… from the onset

00:25:20.000 --> 00:25:24.999
until they’re completely gone they’re
lasting a minute, even a minute and a half.

00:25:25.000 --> 00:25:29.999
And the intense part is… I needed to tell
you, if you start counting your contractions,

00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:34.999
in how many contractions you have a day?
(inaudible).

00:25:35.000 --> 00:25:39.999
Oh here.

00:25:40.000 --> 00:25:44.999
I’m glad Sister Collette came here. This…
When I was in the (inaudible), sister,

00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:49.999
the first day my teacher
called me and he says,

00:25:50.000 --> 00:25:54.999
your duty will be, you will write a thesis
in how contractions a woman has a baby?

00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:59.999
(inaudible) count. Is it…
No, I won’t find a woman,

00:26:00.000 --> 00:26:04.999
a lady like her (inaudible) at least her first 25
(inaudible). Now, there is nothing I’m going to do,

00:26:05.000 --> 00:26:09.999
you know, better than I do. And Sister
Collette… (inaudible). Yeah. (inaudible).

00:26:10.000 --> 00:26:14.999
Well, I think I gotta a feeling of that.

00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:19.999
Yeah. And Sister Collette,
she’s better than I am anyway.

00:26:20.000 --> 00:26:24.999
That’s kind, thank you. Don’t worry about it. She called me you
will come down, we’ll have a baby, that’s it. (inaudible).

00:26:25.000 --> 00:26:29.999
Well, about that. Okay. Yeah, plus one.
That’s it.

00:26:30.000 --> 00:26:34.999
That’s it what I’ve told him,
then he was here next year again.

00:26:35.000 --> 00:26:43.000
[sil.]

00:26:45.000 --> 00:26:49.999
15 seconds.

00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:58.000
[sil.]

00:27:00.000 --> 00:27:04.999
30 seconds.

00:27:05.000 --> 00:27:13.000
[sil.]

00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:19.999
45 seconds.

00:27:20.000 --> 00:27:28.000
[sil.]

00:27:30.000 --> 00:27:34.999
One minute.

00:27:35.000 --> 00:27:39.999
[sil.]

00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:44.999
I’m sober.

00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:49.999
One minute, 15 seconds. That’s a nice one.

00:27:50.000 --> 00:27:54.999
I really come on fast till the intense.

00:27:55.000 --> 00:28:03.000
[sil.]

00:28:05.000 --> 00:28:09.999
It’s not… It’s like the sciatic pain.

00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:14.999
I just don’t understand why (inaudible).
(inaudible) seems to me (inaudible)

00:28:15.000 --> 00:28:19.999
that you’re doing well. I
realize the pain is crucial,

00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:24.999
but the challenge like… You know it really seems like…
Umm…hmm… It doesn’t… It’s known as fact (inaudible) should be.

00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:29.999
And that’s what worries me.

00:28:30.000 --> 00:28:34.999
I would like to go out and find out what’s happening
with that or wait till this next contraction

00:28:35.000 --> 00:28:39.999
is over and you go, okay. (inaudible).
It’s five minutes.

00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:44.999
I want you to (inaudible).

00:28:45.000 --> 00:28:49.999
[sil.]

00:28:50.000 --> 00:28:54.999
There are instances, many of them, where
you stay low and all of a sudden you up.

00:28:55.000 --> 00:28:59.999
In just one or two contractions, you go practically the
whole way. It’s not gonna be like you probably, regularly,

00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:04.999
gradually begin to increase. And
I was just talking to this nurse

00:29:05.000 --> 00:29:09.999
and she thinks because the…

00:29:10.000 --> 00:29:14.999
she’s to go way in and feel the dilation, which…
that plus the symptoms I’m having are so irregular,

00:29:15.000 --> 00:29:19.999
slightly irregular and very wrong and the
pain in between contraction suggested

00:29:20.000 --> 00:29:24.999
the posterior position. Now just yesterday,

00:29:25.000 --> 00:29:29.999
the baby’s head, you know,
the occipital was in front

00:29:30.000 --> 00:29:34.999
where it should be. Umm…hmm… But it
may have twisted around. Excuse me.

00:29:35.000 --> 00:29:43.000
[sil.]

00:29:50.000 --> 00:29:54.999
15 seconds.

00:29:55.000 --> 00:30:03.000
[sil.]

00:30:05.000 --> 00:30:09.999
30 seconds.

00:30:10.000 --> 00:30:14.999
One minute.

00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:19.999
[sil.]

00:30:20.000 --> 00:30:24.999
It still feels tight.

00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:29.999
Yeah. I was standing up… Well at first they
were… The first ones were lasting 80 seconds.

00:30:30.000 --> 00:30:34.999
Yeah. You know. And, I don’t know. And
that may have thrown me somewhat but…

00:30:35.000 --> 00:30:39.999
You look by presenting well (inaudible) breathe. The breathing,
I feel like I’m doing what I’m supposed to be doing,

00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:44.999
but it doesn’t master it. Did you
try hanging your belly down?

00:30:45.000 --> 00:30:49.999
Yeah, I tried. I’ve tried standing, sitting.
(inaudible). The sitting is uncomfortable.

00:30:50.000 --> 00:30:54.999
Is it pain like something inside that’s
pressing out or is it a muscle cramp?

00:30:55.000 --> 00:30:59.999
It’s a muscle cramp, yeah. If somebody had a fist on your
hip, fist on your (inaudible) so that there’ll be pressure

00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:04.999
from the outside. Does that
make you less or (inaudible)?

00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:13.000
[sil.]

00:31:25.000 --> 00:31:29.999
One minute.

00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:34.999
[sil.]

00:31:35.000 --> 00:31:39.999
I can’t (inaudible).

00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:44.999
[sil.]

00:31:45.000 --> 00:31:49.999
(inaudible).

00:31:50.000 --> 00:31:54.999
Would you like me to put
pressure on there while you’re…?

00:31:55.000 --> 00:31:59.999
Well, if you (inaudible)
back, I do feel this,

00:32:00.000 --> 00:32:04.999
but I don’t know how to get on to a position
because it’s so uncomfortable to sit for me.

00:32:05.000 --> 00:32:09.999
And… And it makes sense if it’s a posterior,
everything is back further. Umm…huh…

00:32:10.000 --> 00:32:14.999
(inaudible) feet by the edge onto
something and try to lean forward.

00:32:15.000 --> 00:32:19.999
And then I was across the bed on the other side. Yeah, I
tired. Like this. I’ll try it once more. Try and lean forward.

00:32:20.000 --> 00:32:24.999
Yeah, okay. Yeah.

00:32:25.000 --> 00:32:29.999
It’s so uncomfortable (inaudible).

00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:34.999
You look as if you’re still very
much in control. (inaudible).

00:32:35.000 --> 00:32:39.999
I feel so. I feel… That
was nice to hear, yes.

00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:44.999
You gotta worry about all those
others who don’t know about this.

00:32:45.000 --> 00:32:49.999
Yeah. (inaudible). Oh yeah! You
guys (inaudible) very soon.

00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:54.999
All right, why don’t you get in a…

00:32:55.000 --> 00:33:03.000
[sil.]

00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:19.999
30 seconds.

00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:24.999
[sil.]

00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:29.999
That’s better. That was even better.
Uh…hmm…

00:33:30.000 --> 00:33:34.999
It’s an upright position to get into, but
it keeps it off the perineum, you know.

00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:39.999
And my legs (inaudible). (inaudible). Good.
Maybe we’ll get this a little closer. Not bad.

00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:44.999
I do feel relieved to have an explanation,

00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:49.999
I must say, because it… it just wasn’t
going away. Uh…hmm… (inaudible)?

00:33:50.000 --> 00:33:54.999
Yes, it does. You know, of course, the breathing
was not too normal, so yeah, (inaudible)

00:33:55.000 --> 00:33:59.999
and therefore I chose to…
but… but it still hurts.

00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:04.999
I don’t want it to hurt.

00:34:05.000 --> 00:34:09.999
30 seconds.

00:34:10.000 --> 00:34:18.000
[sil.]

00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:24.999
How far apart was that? Mr. Temaner?
Yeah, (inaudible). (inaudible).

00:34:25.000 --> 00:34:29.999
Tell her… No, go and see her. Go… Go to her
and tell her that we’ll call her. Great.

00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:34.999
That was good. You can take (inaudible).

00:34:35.000 --> 00:34:43.000
[sil.]

00:34:45.000 --> 00:34:49.999
45 seconds.

00:34:50.000 --> 00:34:58.000
[sil.]

00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.999
One minute.

00:35:05.000 --> 00:35:09.999
[sil.]

00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:14.999
One minute and 10 seconds.

00:35:15.000 --> 00:35:19.999
[sil.]

00:35:20.000 --> 00:35:24.999
15… One minute

00:35:25.000 --> 00:35:29.999
and 20 seconds. Well,
that seemed much better.

00:35:30.000 --> 00:35:34.999
It’s the renal… renal contraction,

00:35:35.000 --> 00:35:39.999
the actual contraction is going away.

00:35:40.000 --> 00:35:44.999
[sil.]

00:35:45.000 --> 00:35:49.999
(inaudible).

00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:54.999
Why is that? I don’t know.
I suppose it’s the muscles

00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:59.999
are all can’t stop, they’re just relaxing it,
maybe you’re into (inaudible), it’s quicker than.

00:36:00.000 --> 00:36:08.000
[sil.]

00:36:15.000 --> 00:36:19.999
(inaudible) hear the heart.

00:36:20.000 --> 00:36:24.999
[sil.]

00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:29.999
Like that, like that.

00:36:30.000 --> 00:36:34.999
Okay, so you try. (inaudible).

00:36:35.000 --> 00:36:39.999
It’s quite faint.

00:36:40.000 --> 00:36:44.999
Umm…hmm… Yeah, it’s just there you know.
Yeah. (inaudible).

00:36:45.000 --> 00:36:53.000
[sil.]

00:36:55.000 --> 00:36:59.999
(inaudible).

00:37:00.000 --> 00:37:04.999
It’s okay. (inaudible).

00:37:05.000 --> 00:37:13.000
[sil.]

00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:24.999
(inaudible) during the contraction.
(inaudible).

00:37:25.000 --> 00:37:29.999
(inaudible). I don’t know. I could try it.

00:37:30.000 --> 00:37:34.999
[sil.]

00:37:35.000 --> 00:37:39.999
It gives the baby some nice (inaudible).

00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:44.999
You can put it around and let
you one of these (inaudible).

00:37:45.000 --> 00:37:53.000
[sil.]

00:37:55.000 --> 00:37:59.999
30 seconds.

00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:04.999
[sil.]

00:38:05.000 --> 00:38:09.999
40 seconds.

00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:14.999
[sil.]

00:38:15.000 --> 00:38:20.000
50 seconds.

00:38:25.000 --> 00:38:33.000
[sil.]

00:38:40.000 --> 00:38:44.999
(inaudible).

00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:53.000
[sil.]

00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:04.999
(inaudible) and I know it’s (inaudible).
I’m shivering.

00:39:05.000 --> 00:39:09.999
Yeah, you have to relax (inaudible). Boy…

00:39:10.000 --> 00:39:14.999
You have to relax. And take a couple of deep cleansing
breath. (inaudible). Right. Well, maybe during a contraction

00:39:15.000 --> 00:39:19.999
you can’t do, but take deep and then relax
on the exhale. Relax your whole body.

00:39:20.000 --> 00:39:24.999
Loosen your legs. Okay. Fine.
So, you’re shivering,

00:39:25.000 --> 00:39:29.999
why take a chance. (inaudible). Okay. Yeah.

00:39:30.000 --> 00:39:38.000
[sil.]

00:39:45.000 --> 00:39:49.999
That’s fine. That’s 15 seconds.

00:39:50.000 --> 00:39:54.999
That’s good. That’s nice.

00:39:55.000 --> 00:39:59.999
(inaudible). (inaudible).

00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.999
Little more. And again,

00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:09.999
inhale deep and out slow.

00:40:10.000 --> 00:40:14.999
Inhale deep and out slow.

00:40:15.000 --> 00:40:19.999
Still hurts. Inhale deep and out slow.

00:40:20.000 --> 00:40:24.999
[sil.]

00:40:25.000 --> 00:40:29.999
We’ll have her check your dilatation. Sure. Yes. Could you
come in, and I want her to check the dilation, please.

00:40:30.000 --> 00:40:38.000
[sil.]

00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:54.999
15 seconds.

00:40:55.000 --> 00:40:59.999
20 seconds.

00:41:00.000 --> 00:41:04.999
[sil.]

00:41:05.000 --> 00:41:09.999
30 seconds.

00:41:10.000 --> 00:41:14.999
[sil.]

00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:19.999
40 seconds. She’ll be here
shortly to check the dilation.

00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:24.999
Are you sure they’re coming faster as much as my
imagination? Well, they’re coming little faster.

00:41:25.000 --> 00:41:29.999
(inaudible). I’ll make sure that.

00:41:30.000 --> 00:41:34.999
You didn’t say.

00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:39.999
You know, you just (inaudible).

00:41:40.000 --> 00:41:44.999
Oh beautiful! Here she goes (inaudible)

00:41:45.000 --> 00:41:49.999
and the cervix is now like that

00:41:50.000 --> 00:41:54.999
and (inaudible).

00:41:55.000 --> 00:41:59.999
(inaudible). It’s come around the corner to the front again.
Okay. Well, we can reach you without any trouble. So…

00:42:00.000 --> 00:42:08.000
[sil.]

00:42:15.000 --> 00:42:19.999
(inaudible) right now.

00:42:20.000 --> 00:42:24.999
[sil.]

00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:29.999
Exhale very low.

00:42:30.000 --> 00:42:34.999
[sil.]

00:42:35.000 --> 00:42:39.999
Now relax. You wanna try it in this side
(inaudible). On the side (inaudible) even before.

00:42:40.000 --> 00:42:44.999
Well, you… Could you try it in this side?
No, I don’t think so.

00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:49.999
Okay, well. I mean, just like to put some
pressure in your back. Yeah, I know.

00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:54.999
What do you think about the position you are in
before against me, so that you could alleviate

00:42:55.000 --> 00:42:59.999
it by moving up and down. That seemed
to work. Yeah. Why don’t you put some…

00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:04.999
I kind of like the (inaudible).
I think… Okay.

00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:09.999
[sil.]

00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:14.999
I’m okay. I’m okay.

00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:19.999
I know.

00:43:20.000 --> 00:43:28.000
[sil.]

00:43:40.000 --> 00:43:44.999
Ah no! Ah…Ah… No, no. Okay.

00:43:45.000 --> 00:43:49.999
15 seconds.

00:43:50.000 --> 00:43:58.000
[sil.]

00:44:00.000 --> 00:44:04.999
Half a minute.

00:44:05.000 --> 00:44:13.000
[sil.]

00:44:20.000 --> 00:44:24.999
45 seconds.

00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:33.000
[sil.]

00:44:40.000 --> 00:44:44.999
It’s better, huh.

00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:49.999
I think it’s gonna get (inaudible).

00:44:50.000 --> 00:44:54.999
That’s right. Yeah, they come so fast.
Coming so fast, I know.

00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:59.999
Keep that under my knees (inaudible).

00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.999
Is that all right?

00:45:05.000 --> 00:45:09.999
(inaudible).

00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:14.999
To make sure (inaudible)
you can tell me, okay?

00:45:15.000 --> 00:45:23.000
[sil.]

00:45:45.000 --> 00:45:49.999
Not over, it’s not over.

00:45:50.000 --> 00:45:54.999
Maybe you’re twisting (inaudible).

00:45:55.000 --> 00:45:59.999
[sil.]

00:46:00.000 --> 00:46:04.999
Take some deep breath. I think this one was
better because you rested in between, okay.

00:46:05.000 --> 00:46:09.999
Yes. This seemed better. (inaudible).

00:46:10.000 --> 00:46:14.999
Is there anything else?

00:46:15.000 --> 00:46:19.999
I couldn’t (inaudible).
(inaudible) feel better.

00:46:20.000 --> 00:46:24.999
[sil.]

00:46:25.000 --> 00:46:29.999
Maybe getting there. You don’t really…

00:46:30.000 --> 00:46:34.999
you really shouldn’t push your
(inaudible), don’t force it.

00:46:35.000 --> 00:46:39.999
How much is it? Well, about six or seven?

00:46:40.000 --> 00:46:44.999
Six or seven.

00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:49.999
Yeah. Yeah, she’s (inaudible).

00:46:50.000 --> 00:46:58.000
[sil.]

00:47:00.000 --> 00:47:04.999
10 seconds.

00:47:05.000 --> 00:47:09.999
35. Just a bit (inaudible).

00:47:10.000 --> 00:47:14.999
It’s fine.

00:47:15.000 --> 00:47:19.999
45.

00:47:20.000 --> 00:47:24.999
50 seconds.

00:47:25.000 --> 00:47:29.999
55 seconds.

00:47:30.000 --> 00:47:34.999
That’s a minute now.
Okay, contraction over.

00:47:35.000 --> 00:47:39.999
[sil.]

00:47:40.000 --> 00:47:44.999
Okay, (inaudible).

00:47:45.000 --> 00:47:49.999
[sil.]

00:47:50.000 --> 00:47:54.999
Just in my mouth.

00:47:55.000 --> 00:48:03.000
It’s like a little water soap. Yeah.

00:48:05.000 --> 00:48:13.000
[sil.]

00:51:00.000 --> 00:51:04.999
It still hurts. It still hurts. Right now.

00:51:05.000 --> 00:51:09.999
(inaudible).

00:51:10.000 --> 00:51:14.999
You want some water? Huh?

00:51:15.000 --> 00:51:19.999
Maybe a drop.

00:51:20.000 --> 00:51:24.999
Well, we’re at now nine centimeters.
It’s about nine centimeters.

00:51:25.000 --> 00:51:33.000
[sil.]

00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:04.999
It’s 10 to 1:00.

00:52:05.000 --> 00:52:09.999
(inaudible). Yeah. (inaudible).

00:52:10.000 --> 00:52:14.999
Deep breaths. Easy.

00:52:15.000 --> 00:52:23.000
[sil.]

00:53:15.000 --> 00:53:19.999
You want some more.

00:53:20.000 --> 00:53:24.999
[sil.]

00:53:25.000 --> 00:53:29.999
It hurts so much in between.

00:53:30.000 --> 00:53:34.999
Umm…hmm… You rub a bit. No. Sure.
Thank you. (inaudible).

00:53:35.000 --> 00:53:43.000
[sil.]

00:54:15.000 --> 00:54:19.999
(inaudible).

00:54:20.000 --> 00:54:28.000
[sil.] (inaudible) just hold it. Yeah. (inaudible) the baby will come out. (inaudible). [sil.] Are you okay? I can’t see it. No, I’ll take a (inaudible). (inaudible). (inaudible). (inaudible)
tell me? (inaudible). Here’s another switch. Okay, now… How long (inaudible). Yeah. Now, pant instead of pushing for. I don’t want you to… to push (inaudible). You got it? Yeah. (inaudible).

00:55:30.000 --> 00:55:34.999
Yeah. (inaudible). Tell me which way?
That’s fine. That’s fine. That’s fine.

00:55:35.000 --> 00:55:39.999
Okay. (inaudible).

00:55:40.000 --> 00:55:48.000
[sil.]

00:56:05.000 --> 00:56:09.999
If you can bring that table
around over here (inaudible).

00:56:10.000 --> 00:56:18.000
[sil.]

00:56:25.000 --> 00:56:29.999
Could you move yourself down (inaudible).

00:56:30.000 --> 00:56:34.999
Yeah, (inaudible) you’d hold on to.

00:56:35.000 --> 00:56:39.999
Just move that’s it, okay.

00:56:40.000 --> 00:56:44.999
Push pants, there you go,
push, (inaudible) push.

00:56:45.000 --> 00:56:49.999
(inaudible). (inaudible).

00:56:50.000 --> 00:56:58.000
[sil.]

00:57:00.000 --> 00:57:04.999
She wants the baby brought
to her breast, you know,

00:57:05.000 --> 00:57:09.999
as he’s born. Yeah.

00:57:10.000 --> 00:57:14.999
I’m… everything’s all right
(inaudible) all right, I’m sure.

00:57:15.000 --> 00:57:23.000
[sil.]

00:57:35.000 --> 00:57:39.999
(inaudible) looks fine. (inaudible).

00:57:40.000 --> 00:57:44.999
[sil.]

00:57:45.000 --> 00:57:49.999
Breathe, breath, breathe.

00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:58.000
[sil.]

00:58:05.000 --> 00:58:09.999
Okay. It’s fine. It’s fine.
(inaudible) please.

00:58:10.000 --> 00:58:14.999
(inaudible). Just relax your hips.

00:58:15.000 --> 00:58:19.999
Just relax it. (inaudible).

00:58:20.000 --> 00:58:24.999
[sil.]

00:58:25.000 --> 00:58:29.999
I know. (inaudible). Very good. (inaudible)

00:58:30.000 --> 00:58:34.999
push now more. Yeah, I can get
(inaudible) Mrs. Temaner.

00:58:35.000 --> 00:58:39.999
Oh, what? Here. (inaudible).
And head down and fine.

00:58:40.000 --> 00:58:44.999
There you go. Push. See
a shoulder coming up.

00:58:45.000 --> 00:58:49.999
That’s it. Okay. Let’s talk to the baby.
(inaudible).

00:58:50.000 --> 00:58:54.999
Here. Let’s see what’s this one is.

00:58:55.000 --> 00:59:03.000
[sil.]

00:59:05.000 --> 00:59:09.999
Okay. Give me second everything will be okay.
Don’t push anymore. Don’t push anymore. No.

00:59:10.000 --> 00:59:14.999
No, we’ll do it for you. You just… Don’t push
anymore. Here’s the other shoulder coming out.

00:59:15.000 --> 00:59:19.999
And here is your baby now. Your boy.

00:59:20.000 --> 00:59:24.999
Your boy.

00:59:25.000 --> 00:59:29.999
Oh he’s fine.

00:59:30.000 --> 00:59:34.999
Good boy.

00:59:35.000 --> 00:59:39.999
See! Oh! And he’s a long one.

00:59:40.000 --> 00:59:44.999
He’s so long like you. Is he?
Yeah! (inaudible).

00:59:45.000 --> 00:59:53.000
[sil.]

00:59:55.000 --> 00:59:59.999
Urinating already!

01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:04.999
Yeah! Yeah! Great! Throw to your mother.

01:00:05.000 --> 01:00:09.999
Okay, young lady. Here you go.

01:00:10.000 --> 01:00:14.999
Bring him to breast? Oh, he’s wonderful!
He’s beautiful!

01:00:15.000 --> 01:00:19.999
Oh, he’s so beautiful!

01:00:20.000 --> 01:00:24.999
Oh! Oh, that wasn’t so bad. Marco!

01:00:25.000 --> 01:00:29.999
That’s Marco. That’s Marco. Marco. Marco.

01:00:30.000 --> 01:00:34.999
Yeah! Here’s is Marco. Come on look at her.

01:00:35.000 --> 01:00:39.999
[sil.]

01:00:40.000 --> 01:00:44.999
(inaudible), his color is,

01:00:45.000 --> 01:00:49.999
his cheeks is.

01:00:50.000 --> 01:00:54.999
Yes. Yeah. What time was he born?
(inaudible).

01:00:55.000 --> 01:00:59.999
(inaudible). Hey, he’s okay. Yeah.

01:01:00.000 --> 01:01:04.999
Oh! Isn’t that exciting?

01:01:05.000 --> 01:01:09.999
[sil.]

01:01:10.000 --> 01:01:14.999
You can put the baby (inaudible).
(inaudible) without the aid

01:01:15.000 --> 01:01:19.999
of modern medicine.
Couple more minutes and…

01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:24.999
You don’t know how the world is outside.
You… You cannot see (inaudible). Good.

01:01:25.000 --> 01:01:29.999
We’re taking

01:01:30.000 --> 01:01:34.999
some blood

01:01:35.000 --> 01:01:39.999
from the cord, see.

01:01:40.000 --> 01:01:44.999
This is the direct examination

01:01:45.000 --> 01:01:49.999
from the baby’s blood
for your Rh factor. Oh!

01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:54.999
Here has a lot of blood. We’re
checking the baby directly,

01:01:55.000 --> 01:01:59.999
you know. We’re taking him. You see
there’s a lot of blood coming out.

01:02:00.000 --> 01:02:04.999
Umm…hmm… The placenta is (inaudible).
(inaudible) on the sheet.

01:02:05.000 --> 01:02:09.999
Can I… When can I have the baby?
Will it help to

01:02:10.000 --> 01:02:14.999
have him suck on my breast to get the
placenta out. No, just leave it to me.

01:02:15.000 --> 01:02:19.999
Let the placenta (inaudible).
It’s separated so (inaudible).

01:02:20.000 --> 01:02:24.999
Yeah. Sister, get the…

01:02:25.000 --> 01:02:29.999
I should just relax. Just relax.

01:02:30.000 --> 01:02:34.999
Yeah, (inaudible) placenta. You push it out yourself.
Push it out. You’ll see how you’re pushing it.

01:02:35.000 --> 01:02:39.999
Here is the placenta.

01:02:40.000 --> 01:02:44.999
Gorgeous!

01:02:45.000 --> 01:02:49.999
I didn’t tear, did I? You just…
You’ll need two sutures, yes.

01:02:50.000 --> 01:02:54.999
Two sutures? Yeah. At the bottom? At
the bottom. (inaudible). Look at that.

01:02:55.000 --> 01:02:59.999
And this is the bag of water. The
baby was inside this. (inaudible).

01:03:00.000 --> 01:03:04.999
(inaudible).

01:03:05.000 --> 01:03:09.999
Oh, it was not about that. I feel so good.

01:03:10.000 --> 01:03:14.999
It’s finished isn’t it, in a second.

01:03:15.000 --> 01:03:19.999
I think I (inaudible).

01:03:20.000 --> 01:03:24.999
[sil.]

01:03:25.000 --> 01:03:29.999
(inaudible). Oh my god!

01:03:30.000 --> 01:03:34.999
Do you hear him? (inaudible).

01:03:35.000 --> 01:03:39.999
(inaudible), yes. Yeah. Nice. He’s good.

01:03:40.000 --> 01:03:44.999
Look at those little (inaudible).

01:03:45.000 --> 01:03:49.999
Little… Little what?

01:03:50.000 --> 01:03:54.999
Yeah, there are… they’re
always (inaudible).

01:03:55.000 --> 01:03:59.999
(inaudible).

01:04:00.000 --> 01:04:04.999
Aren’t they incredible.

01:04:05.000 --> 01:04:09.999
. (inaudible) sweet (inaudible).

01:04:10.000 --> 01:04:14.999
Yeah. You will feel lot of stick here,

01:04:15.000 --> 01:04:19.999
you might not even feel it, you’re so busy there
with your son. I’m gonna give you a little injection

01:04:20.000 --> 01:04:24.999
when compared to the others.
He didn’t like it.

01:04:25.000 --> 01:04:33.000
[sil.]

01:04:45.000 --> 01:04:49.999
You will feel lot stick here. Oh,
what you’re thinking? Oh no.

01:04:50.000 --> 01:04:58.000
[sil.]

01:05:15.000 --> 01:05:19.999
He’s doing very well considering others.

01:05:20.000 --> 01:05:24.999
[sil.]

01:05:25.000 --> 01:05:29.999
(inaudible). Yeah, you can lift him

01:05:30.000 --> 01:05:34.999
and just pull him down a little bit.

01:05:35.000 --> 01:05:43.000
[sil.]

01:06:05.000 --> 01:06:09.999
That’s all. That’s all my love. Yeah.

01:06:10.000 --> 01:06:18.000
[sil.]

01:06:20.000 --> 01:06:24.999
You can just let him lie down.

01:06:25.000 --> 01:06:29.999
[sil.]

01:06:30.000 --> 01:06:34.999
Shall I open the champagne here? Sure.

01:06:35.000 --> 01:06:39.999
Okay, well (inaudible). Here we go.

01:06:40.000 --> 01:06:48.000
[music]

01:07:30.000 --> 01:07:34.999
But the one thing

01:07:35.000 --> 01:07:39.999
we wanted to avoided is
my nose, she’s gotta…

01:07:40.000 --> 01:07:48.000
[sil.]

01:07:50.000 --> 01:07:54.999
The second stage was fast.

01:07:55.000 --> 01:07:59.999
(inaudible) running out.

01:08:00.000 --> 01:08:04.999
Really!

01:08:05.000 --> 01:08:09.999
Congratulations.

01:08:10.000 --> 01:08:14.999
But it hurt. I had pain damn it. That was
painful. I think I can go to home to sleep.

01:08:15.000 --> 01:08:19.999
Tomorrow is another day and I’ll come
down and see you. Thank you very much.

01:08:20.000 --> 01:08:24.999
Yes, thank you very much (inaudible).

01:08:25.000 --> 01:08:29.999
Okay. Bye, bye to all of you. Bye, bye.
Good night doctor. Good night.

01:08:30.000 --> 01:08:34.999
Why… Why did I have pain? You handled it. I mean, it was interesting,
because there was like a question whether it was worth it,

01:08:35.000 --> 01:08:39.999
I mean, (inaudible). Well, you encouraged me. I was
really thinking I can’t take it and I have to…

01:08:40.000 --> 01:08:44.999
I have a hypo or something
or at least try that.

01:08:45.000 --> 01:08:49.999
He’s trying, he’s trying. (inaudible).

01:08:50.000 --> 01:08:54.999
I thought that’d be a bad idea.

01:08:55.000 --> 01:08:59.999
I thought if I did, I really (inaudible).

01:09:00.000 --> 01:09:04.999
There was a sense of control.
It’s that pain and,

01:09:05.000 --> 01:09:09.999
I don’t know. He’s trying. But you have
the choice. At least I had the choice,

01:09:10.000 --> 01:09:14.999
maybe under certain circumstances
a woman… (inaudible).

01:09:15.000 --> 01:09:19.999
Hey, please help him. He’s trying. Yeah. Well,
have some more. I know, I was (inaudible).

01:09:20.000 --> 01:09:24.999
Try. I think he’s trying to get here.
There you go.

01:09:25.000 --> 01:09:29.999
He’s not quite near, enough there. He’s brand new
you see. It’ll take some few seconds to see…

01:09:30.000 --> 01:09:34.999
to see if there’s something to suck on.
(inaudible).

01:09:35.000 --> 01:09:39.999
He might not be able to see it. Yeah. Yeah.

01:09:40.000 --> 01:09:44.999
Oh boy!

01:09:45.000 --> 01:09:49.999
He’s not yet…

01:09:50.000 --> 01:09:54.999
not getting much.

01:09:55.000 --> 01:09:59.999
Now, do you wanna go back in your bed?
You wanna stand up and walk a few steps.

01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:04.999
Well, I think I can walk. You don’t have to.
If you would just like to put, you know,

01:10:05.000 --> 01:10:09.999
to see how it feels? It’s up to you. Yeah.
Yeah. Are you ready for that?

01:10:10.000 --> 01:10:14.999
It’s up to you. It’s just (inaudible). Okay.
Ops! (inaudible). (inaudible) would be adequate.

01:10:15.000 --> 01:10:19.999
Okay, (inaudible) champagne (inaudible).

01:10:20.000 --> 01:10:24.999
You can… You can come back. Oh!

01:10:25.000 --> 01:10:33.000
[sil.]

01:10:45.000 --> 01:10:49.999
I think I had…

01:10:50.000 --> 01:10:54.999
I must have ripped a bit. Little, huh.
Did you see it? Just a little bit, huh.

01:10:55.000 --> 01:10:59.999
It didn’t look like much. I only… No.

01:11:00.000 --> 01:11:04.999
I don’t know, because I felt that maybe
harder for me to see. (inaudible).

01:11:05.000 --> 01:11:09.999
Yeah, just get up. Just get up for a minute. (inaudible) I think.
You really shouldn’t have the baby with you the whole time.

01:11:10.000 --> 01:11:14.999
Uh! Well… (inaudible). Yeah, (inaudible).
(inaudible).

01:11:15.000 --> 01:11:19.999
Okay. (inaudible). (inaudible).
It’s pretty strong champagne.

01:11:20.000 --> 01:11:24.999
(inaudible). Isn’t it? I’m sorry.
That’s okay.

01:11:25.000 --> 01:11:29.999
Teach him how to (inaudible).
Okay, I’ll first (inaudible).

01:11:30.000 --> 01:11:34.999
Okay, I’ll stand (inaudible).
I need a (inaudible)

01:11:35.000 --> 01:11:39.999
to see how she does. (inaudible).

01:11:40.000 --> 01:11:44.999
Yeah, I know.

01:11:45.000 --> 01:11:49.999
No.

01:11:50.000 --> 01:11:54.999
Are you okay? My foot (inaudible).
Okay. Are you okay now?

01:11:55.000 --> 01:11:59.999
Okay, now (inaudible) the baby.
(inaudible). (inaudible).

01:12:00.000 --> 01:12:04.999
Yeah. (inaudible).

01:12:05.000 --> 01:12:09.999
Okay. Okay.

01:12:10.000 --> 01:12:14.999
[sil.]

01:12:15.000 --> 01:12:19.999
You better put the bed in there.
(inaudible). Where are we going?

01:12:20.000 --> 01:12:24.999
Here, here, here. Oh, here is the bed.
Oh, I’m going here. Yeah.

01:12:25.000 --> 01:12:29.999
I’m going to (inaudible). Don’t worry about
that. I’m done. Do you want to hold him? Okay.

01:12:30.000 --> 01:12:34.999
She went over to the hall like
looking for a bed. All right.

01:12:35.000 --> 01:12:39.999
Little kid. But I’m your father.

01:12:40.000 --> 01:12:48.000
[sil.]

01:13:00.000 --> 01:13:04.999
(inaudible). You’ll get it cleaned up. Thank
you (inaudible). Okay. (inaudible). Okay.

01:13:05.000 --> 01:13:09.999
We’re okay.

01:13:10.000 --> 01:13:14.999
Thank you. (inaudible). (inaudible)?

01:13:15.000 --> 01:13:19.999
Yup. Oh boy!

01:13:20.000 --> 01:13:24.999
Oh sweet! But why did I pee…

01:13:25.000 --> 01:13:29.999
I didn’t… I wasn’t doing my
breathing, was I systematically.

01:13:30.000 --> 01:13:34.999
I was finding it…

01:13:35.000 --> 01:13:39.999
Well, you were breathing, but the
problem was what was stopping you.

01:13:40.000 --> 01:13:44.999
Contraction never got regular.
Uh…huh… (inaudible).

01:13:45.000 --> 01:13:49.999
Everything just sort like…
And it looked like…

01:13:50.000 --> 01:13:54.999
like a reaction to pain, in order words,
you know, like a simple reaction to pain.

01:13:55.000 --> 01:13:59.999
I mean, there was some pain, but it looked like that,
but really, it had to do with like a whole thing.

01:14:00.000 --> 01:14:04.999
Came out very fast, everything.

01:14:05.000 --> 01:14:09.999
Yeah. Okay,

01:14:10.000 --> 01:14:14.999
we’ll bring (inaudible). Okay, bye bye.
(inaudible).

01:14:15.000 --> 01:14:19.999
The grandparents, you know. Yeah.

01:14:20.000 --> 01:14:24.999
They were probably weren’t sleeping.

01:14:25.000 --> 01:14:29.999
Where’s my hamburger? In the (inaudible). We’re just getting
your beer (inaudible). By the baby, okay. Yeah, (inaudible).

01:14:30.000 --> 01:14:34.999
(inaudible) hamburger?

01:14:35.000 --> 01:14:39.999
I think this is it. Okay,
thank you very much.

01:14:40.000 --> 01:14:44.999
Uh…huh…

01:14:45.000 --> 01:14:49.999
See you later, Marco.

01:14:50.000 --> 01:14:54.999
[sil.]

01:14:55.000 --> 01:14:59.999
(inaudible) already, huh?

01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:04.999
Yeah. Listening. Listening.
Is he all right at the?

01:15:05.000 --> 01:15:09.999
He’s fine, yeah. No. Oh, you want him. Do
you like it? You want him for a while.

01:15:10.000 --> 01:15:14.999
Yeah, I can go in there for a few minutes. For a few
minutes, awesome. We can turn him around to the camera.

01:15:15.000 --> 01:15:23.000
[sil.]

01:15:25.000 --> 01:15:29.999
Thank you.

01:15:30.000 --> 01:15:34.999
Hey, kiddy. (inaudible). Uh…huh…

01:15:35.000 --> 01:15:39.999
[sil.]

01:15:40.000 --> 01:15:44.999
Oh you (inaudible) comfort.

01:15:45.000 --> 01:15:49.999
I can do that (inaudible)
when you’re crying.

01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:54.999
Here (inaudible).

01:15:55.000 --> 01:15:59.999
He can find them. If we
can find any children…

01:16:00.000 --> 01:16:04.999
Oh, he’s trying, he’s trying. He’s heavy.
And if you turn over

01:16:05.000 --> 01:16:09.999
a little I think for you to… Yeah.
Oh, he’s heavy. (inaudible). No.

01:16:10.000 --> 01:16:14.999
No, I think this will do it.
That’s good, right there.

01:16:15.000 --> 01:16:19.999
There you go. Yeah.

01:16:20.000 --> 01:16:24.999
[sil.]

01:16:25.000 --> 01:16:29.999
(inaudible).

01:16:30.000 --> 01:16:34.999
[sil.]

01:16:35.000 --> 01:16:39.999
Anything coming out? I don’t know.
Yeah… Yeah, there is at down.

01:16:40.000 --> 01:16:44.999
And I think he’s sucking down there.

01:16:45.000 --> 01:16:49.999
Any sane person will see this film, and they’ll say, oh, what’s so special
about all this? She had the baby. She got it. You know (inaudible)

01:16:50.000 --> 01:16:54.999
know what the regular medical procedures

01:16:55.000 --> 01:16:59.999
are to realize (inaudible).

01:17:00.000 --> 01:17:04.999
I think (inaudible).

01:17:05.000 --> 01:17:09.999
What did my mother say to this? She was very nice. And
she said thank you for (inaudible) call. (inaudible).

01:17:10.000 --> 01:17:14.999
You know, I just…

01:17:15.000 --> 01:17:19.999
I said, we have a baby.

01:17:20.000 --> 01:17:24.999
And she said… You know, we just had… we had it. And she said, was it a boy
or a girl? Oh, you know, a boy. And then she asked how much he weighed.

01:17:25.000 --> 01:17:29.999
Uh…huh… I think I’ll shift him
over, you get them up and…

01:17:30.000 --> 01:17:34.999
Okay, friend. Umm… She says that

01:17:35.000 --> 01:17:39.999
one thing to watch out with mammal…

01:17:40.000 --> 01:17:44.999
Does he have something

01:17:45.000 --> 01:17:49.999
in his mouth? Yeah, all whitish.
Yeah, good. Here we go.

01:17:50.000 --> 01:17:54.999
Yeah, he is a nice quiet (inaudible).
(inaudible). Huh?

01:17:55.000 --> 01:17:59.999
(inaudible). (inaudible).

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Super cold.

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I’ll go out

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and get a water (inaudible). Oh! Hi, honey.

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I think you didn’t have your daddy’s eyes.
I’m so glad.

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[sil.]

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Can you see Gerry, the way he’s looking?
The way he appears to be looking?

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S Uh…huh… Isn’t it… It’s… He’s not
really looking. Once he’s looking down

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and, I guess he doesn’t look at all.
He can’t focus.

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Uh…huh… I can see that. But isn’t…

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Can I try this? Sure.
Something is happening.

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As soon as we’re stimulating him.
Uh…huh… Yeah.

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My goodness his eyes
are… like I’ll go away.

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[sil.]

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I think his eyes are so interesting. Umm…

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We’ll get down first. Yeah.

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[sil.] (inaudible). No, I
don’t really think so.

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[sil.]

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Well, we’re all settled my baby.
No, we have to check it out

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to the car. Oh yes! Thank you. Yes.

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